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For me personally, people call me a crybaby.
Not just a major event, it could change my life. Generally speaking, we all have to think carefully. Lü Shi Chunqiu once said that private vision makes the blind and private hearing makes the deaf.
Selfish worries make the heart mad. However, my understanding of this sentence is inadequate, and we all know that as long as it makes sense, then it must be carefully considered. I hope that everyone will have a discussion in the spirit of knowing everything, saying everything, saying that those who say are not guilty, and those who hear are full of caution.
Well, it's inevitable. It may seem like a coincidence that others have scolded themselves for being a crybaby, but if we look at the problem from a larger perspective, it seems like an unavoidable fact. In this case, since this is the case, as far as I am concerned, the significance of others scolding me for being a crybaby cannot but be said to be very significant.
To sum up, I hope that everyone will have a discussion in the spirit of knowing everything, saying everything, saying everything is not guilty, and those who hear are full of caution. Personally, the significance of others scolding me for being a crybaby is very significant. With these questions in mind, let's examine how others have scolded their cryhouses.
Under this difficult choice, I thought about it and couldn't sleep well.
I hope that everyone will have a discussion in the spirit of knowing everything, saying everything, saying that those who say are not guilty, and those who hear are full of caution. In this way, since today, we have to solve the problem of others scolding us for crying, generally speaking, we must be careful to consider it. We generally think that if we get to the crux of the problem, everything else will be solved.
Generally speaking, understanding what kind of existence it is when others scold you for being a crybaby is the key to solving all problems.
However, even so, the appearance of cryhouses scolded by others still represents a certain significance. How do you need to do it if others scold you for the occurrence of your crybaby, and how will it happen if others don't scold you for your crybaby. In this case, we must unify our thinking, unify our steps, and work hard to fundamentally solve the problem of others scolding us as cryghosts.
Anonymous once mentioned that there are horses in front of the door who are not rich, and people in the family are not poor. This sentence pierced my heart like a tattoo. We all know that as long as it makes sense, then it has to be carefully considered.
Now, it is very, very important to solve the problem of others scolding their crybaby. So, however, even so, the appearance of a crybaby scolded by others still represents a certain significance. I think that, in general, we have to think about it carefully.
I hope that everyone will have a discussion in the spirit of knowing everything, saying everything, saying that those who say are not guilty, and those who hear are full of caution.
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Everyone has their own habits, some people like to cry, these are very common things, why say, some people like to cry more, because some people's inner line, more more, so it will be easier to cry whether to be happy or sad or to watch TV when you eat maybe you can cry at any time, this is the problem of the inner line, so this is not only psychological, homework, but also her physiological role, which can't blame others, love to cry, Maybe it's because of her own physical condition, after all, there are a lot of wilds, why can't they cry at all when they're acting, because their tear glands are relatively thin, and when they want to cry, even if they have feelings in place, they can't cry out, that is, why some people will fake crying and think, this is. Speaking of introverted problems, some people say that they can't be actors, but they often say that they can cry when they cry, and it only takes three seconds to cry, which means that they have more hearts, although all of this is an inner problem, so cashing in is the most important thing, some people's inner line, if it is too high, then they can't cry, if someone can have a higher inner line, it is easy to cry, anytime, anywhere, some people are introverted, most people are still relatively high and low, it is a very rare disease and not a disaster.
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Others scold you for being a crybaby, reflect on whether you love to cry, if so, change it, there is no need to scold back, and people have no malice.
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Everyone has their own habits, some people like to cry, these are very common things, why say, some people like to cry more, because some people's inner line, more more, so it will be easier to cry whether to be happy or sad or to watch TV when you eat maybe you can cry at any time, this is the problem of the inner line, so this is not only psychological, homework, but also her physiological role, which can't blame others, love to cry, Maybe it's because of her own physical condition, after all, there are a lot of wilds, why can't they cry at all when they're acting, because their tear glands are relatively thin, and when they want to cry, even if they have feelings in place, they can't cry out, that is, why some people will fake crying and think, this is. Speaking of introverted problems, some people say that they can't be actors, but they often say that they can cry when they cry, and it only takes three seconds to cry, which means that they have more hearts, although all of this is an inner problem, so cashing in is the most important thing, some people's inner line, if it is too high, then they can't cry, if someone can have a higher inner line, it is easy to cry, anytime, anywhere, some people are introverted, most people are still relatively high and low, it is a very rare disease and not a disaster.
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If you reply to a woman: Women are made of water, don't you understand, who is like you, it's made of cement!
If you reply to a man: they are all tears left by women, and they are all the water that entered the head when choosing a man in the first place!
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If someone says you're a crybaby, you can send him a smiley face to prove that you're not a crybaby.
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Can't hear, can't hear, say it again 180 times.
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You can say, "Because I saw you, a ghost."
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Life needs a little more additives.
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You should respond directly to point 4 by belittling yourself first, and then belittling others.
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If nothing happened, you can reply to her: You guys are clean there? "
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The dog bites you, and you have to bite it back?
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If you don't hear that you have a Buddha in your heart, you see that others are also Buddhas, and it is popular to say that dogs bite people, do people also bite dogs?
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What is Emotional Intelligence? The psychological term for emotional intelligence is:Emotional intelligence。And the emotional intelligence that most of us understand and the emotional intelligence that is wantonly promoted are one-sided.
Nowadays, many online courses teach you how to improve emotional intelligence, but in fact, the course content has nothing to do with emotional intelligence. The so-called high emotional intelligence is not to be able to talk and please others. It's not that others say things you don't like to hear, how can you reply to others.
That's not a sign of high emotional intelligence. Emotional intelligence cannot be equated with being smart, responsive, tactful, and opportunistic. This is a common misconception in our cognition.
Emotional intelligence refers to the ability to monitor one's own and others' emotions and emotions, and to identify and use this information to guide one's own behavior. These skills include five areas: recognizing one's own emotions, controlling one's emotions, self-motivation, recognizing the emotions of others, and the ability to manage interpersonal relationships.
We have to grasp these two words "emotion". When others taunt you, you can feel that your emotions are angry, and you need to know to control your emotions at this time, because when your emotions are out of control, it is easy to do impulsive things or say things that you regret. The social news we often see is that two people quarrel over trivial matters, lose control of their emotions, start to move, and one person misses and kills the other.
In the end, he entered the prison gate for a criminal offense, and when he went to the interview, he said that he really regretted it, and it was just an impulse at that time, and he fell into irreparable consequences. Such news abounds.
Therefore, when others taunt you, don't go and scold him, and use violence to counter violence, which will only make both of you feel more bad, even if you win the argument with him, you will still be angry. Your purpose is to make yourself happy and happy and live your life well. So don't do things that annoy you.
Don't worry about it on the surface, it's always bad to tear your face. But you have to know in your heart who your friends are and who your enemies are. Smiling at the enemy is the master, cultivating the enemy's shortcomings, and one day his own fire will burn himself.
Controlling your emotions is the true manifestation of high emotional intelligence.
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When we encounter ridicule and abuse, many of us are unbearable, how should we choose a way to deal with it at this time? Is it to keep silent about the other party's behavior, or to directly speak out and fight back, well, when we encounter such a thing, we first don't know how to deal with it, such a thing is actually a kind of emergency in life, so we all need to pay attention, we can't always be pointed at the nose and ridiculed and abused, in this case, we must have a certain way to deal with it.
First, what kind of person will humiliate and insult you in front of many people or directly pointing at your nose? Such a person is really very unqualified, if a person makes such a performance, as a bystander, looking at such a person, in fact, it is a kind of psychology to watch the excitement to watch, in fact, there is no interest in the facts, in the face of such a person, we had better ignore it, such a person is really a low-quality crowd, no matter what happens, to people, holding each other's shortcomings is all kinds of ridicule and abuse, there is really no need to pay attention, because the more we pay attention to it, Such people's emotions will be even higher, but will intensify against us, direct reply, it is meaningless, we had better control our emotions, do not because of such a low-quality person and lower their own quality, this is not right.
Second, we can actually think about it carefully, these people do these things are actually meaningless, insults and ridicule such bad words, can not change anything, will not have any impact on both parties, but it will cause more negative emotions, we meet such a person, you can directly reason with him, tell him, what the facts are, they also need to bear their own facts, many people in ridicule and abuse of a person, They are all caught that the other party does not want to admit it, and does not dare to admit the psychology of the facts, once we generously admit it, such a thing is actually very easy to solve, the other party has nothing to say, the words can not continue, at this time, if we are broad-minded, we can not continue to theorize with such a person, if there is some unhappy psychology, it is completely possible to use the other party's language loopholes, actual shortcomings, back to the other, such a method is also often used by everyone, to the other way, It's also the most enjoyable way to give back to others.
In the face of other people's bad words, you should endure it, you can't bear it, you don't need to endure it, we have no reason to admit that people are bullying, but it is still recommended that everyone is the most witty choice to brake quietly.
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This can't help but remind me of such a passage in "The Song of Patience in the Cold Mountain": "In the past, the cold mountain asked and said: The world slanders me, deceives me, insults me, laughs at me, despises me, despises me, hates me, deceives me, how to deal with it?"
Pick up the clouds: just endure him, let him, let him, avoid him, bear with him, respect him, ignore him, stay for a few more years and watch him. ”
This conversation speaks of the wisdom of patience and long-term vision.
When encountering insults and ridicule, don't get angry easily, know that a verbal attack for a tooth for a tooth does not make the other party stop the abusive sound, but allows them to find an outlet to vent, the more you respond to him, the more energetic he is, and he has to scold you to win or lose.
At this time, silence has become the most effective **, when one party is vulgar and-for-tat, and the other party is silent and cold-eyed, the level of cultivation is immediately clear. At this time, the opponent's attack is as meaningless as a punch on cotton, and such a self-deprecating insult will not last long before it will be defeated without a fight, and its ugly face has already been exposed.
If you are ridiculed or verbally abused because of an argument over something, we will silence the fierce part of the argument, but we can analyze the part of the dispute appropriately, and after expressing our own opinions, we can also express a certain degree of understanding and appease the other party's position, and expect further calm communication between the two parties.
But if the other party is angry and can't listen to it at all, or is just implicated because of his own emotions, then you can ignore him.
After all, a dog bites a person because it is provoked, and it may be good to appease a bone twice, but if it is a mad dog, it is completely a matter of catching who bites whom, have you ever seen a mad dog reason with a mad dog?
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