What is it really like to be a person who always pretends to be strong?

This kind of person is very fragile inside, they like to hide their hearts with strength, and in fact often hide in the dark and cry.

These people are actually very fragile and very sensitive at heart.

Very fragile, most of these people's psychological state is very sensitive, are very fragile.

We all encounter difficult things in life and at work, and when we can't solve tough problems accurately, we will have a very vulnerable and frustrated emotion. Due to the stressful life of young people, many young people are reluctant to let others know about the more vulnerable aspects, and they always pretend to be strong and pretend that they don't care about anything.

Pretending to be brave all the time is a very tiring experience, and you always show others to be optimistic and cheerful without knowing what you really think. Not only will this not make you feel very happy, but some people will even get a relatively unhealthy psychological state because they have pretended to be brave for a long time, which will inevitably lead to self-doubt and self-distrust.

I once met a friend who was a strong and brave person in our eyes who never showed his vulnerability to everyone. But I feel that my friend's heart is full of doubt and self-restraint, he does not allow himself to show his vulnerable side to others, she only wants to show her strong and brave side to others. As my relationship with my friend got better, I learned that my friend felt that it was particularly embarrassing to show his vulnerable side to others.

This is not the case, and always pretending to be strong is a particularly tiring thing. You can't open up to others, you can't show vulnerability to others. In fact, it is also a very beautiful thing for us to show our appropriate vulnerability to others.

Since everyone's living and working environment is different, not all of them will show people to be overly strong and brave. Some children are particularly psychologically weak, and they are unable to show a particularly strong side to others. Some people may think that this kind of people are very hypocritical, but I don't think so.

I think they show vulnerability to others, and it's also a self-enlightening solution. Finding solutions to problems is key, and when you can't solve a difficult problem, asking for help is also a way to solve it. Not all people can pretend to be strong all their lives, and when you feel tired, you can show your vulnerable side to someone you trust.

Overall, always pretending to be strong is a particularly tiring experience, you can't show the other person your vulnerable side, you can't properly show everyone your unknown feelings. Over time, you will also develop a feeling of self-doubt in your heart, which will inevitably affect your personal development and psychological condition.

It's a very tiring experience, where others don't know what you're really thinking, but you always show others an optimistic and cheerful appearance.

There are many people who always pretend to be strong, I think such a person is a very powerful person, his heart is very strong, otherwise who can pretend to be very strong?

Pretending to be strong for a long time is really strong, because you have a reason to be strong. In fact, it depends on how to think, what life has any good and unsatisfactory life, as the saying goes, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, people are not sages, there is no eternal right, there is no eternal wrong, there can be no eternal dependence, and no one must let you rely on. A strong person must have a self-disciplined life, and it is also himself who improves, there is nothing wrong with it, and his own path should be walked by himself.

Experienced, matured, life is nothing more than that. We are all the same. Respect yourself.

Seriously, we're pretty much alike. You're like me in the past.

Career and relationship are different, first of all, the pressure in career can be bearable, and it is normal to be hesitant and weak emotionally.

Professionally courageous is good for us, emotionally, maybe because you haven't found the right object yet. I used to be miserable, very unconfident, and didn't understand why I was so good in many aspects, but I was alone in the lack of assertiveness and overwhelmed by the disadvantages in front of the cherry blossoms. When you meet the right person, it all comes down with ease.

Believe me. You will be happy. Believe me.

Of course, don't forget to read some books about feelings (romance ** doesn't count), such as about cultivation, about psychology, more contact with men, it can be just a friendship. (Recommended: "Sixteen Types of Natural Lovers" "Men from Mars, Women from Venus") Men like gentle, kind, considerate, and simple girls.

Develop towards these aspects, and don't abandon your own nature and go to the rough. This is a question of "degree", so use your wisdom to understand it.

Besides, before you get the love that suits you, you will definitely fail a few times, which is normal repentance. No one is born with it.

That's right, yes, haha, I feel the same way, I am not allowed to fall in love when I go to school, and when I work, I immediately began to rush to let us go on a blind date.

You learn to be gentle, I think there's an emotional element in your personality, and there's a lot of it. It's just that we're being held back by academics and rules, and we're quite alike.

Yes, it's all pretended on the outside, but it's actually very fragile on the inside. You can pretend on the outside, but you can't on the inside.

Everyone has a vulnerable side.

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Life may make him like this, the things he has experienced, the blows he has endured, he has formed a protective shell of himself, to try to be strong, not necessarily a disguise, just an adaptation to the outside world, a kind of prevention, maybe the heart is really broken at a touch, or it is possible to get used to this way and let yourself be patient.

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Yes, the strength of the outside hides the fragility of his heart!

Because of the forced nature of society, if you are not strong, you will fail.

It's normal to be strong on the outside and vulnerable on the inside. The key is to give yourself a place to release, a place where you can show your vulnerability, and wait for you to pack up your mood before going out and fighting. If you don't be strong on the outside, you'll suffer. Even if you pretend, you have to pretend to be strong.

Man is such an animal! Love to hide your fragile heart with a false appearance!

Libra is a sign that pretends to be strong, but people of this sign, they are actually very vulnerable.

Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius, Libra, Aries, these signs are actually very gentle in their hearts, but in order not to let others see the stupid source of their own weakness, they often pretend to be strong.

Scorpio, Capricorn, Taurus, Sagittarius, Gemini, they are particularly strong, but in fact they are pretending to be strong all the time.

Summary. Usually they look like they don't care about anything, and they often tell small lies, but after they finish speaking, they seem to forget about it. They look really big-hearted, and they don't care about anything at all.

It seems that nothing can affect their mood, they are like the kind of people who are born happy, but in fact it is not like this, they are actually very lonely inside. They are just pretending to be strong on the surface, but in fact, their hearts are not so strong, and they may be more fragile than ordinary people.

Dear, hello, I have received your question here, please wait a moment, I will answer it for you Usually they look very grinning, as if they don't care about anything, and they often tell some small lies, but after saying it, they immediately seem to forget. They look really big-hearted, and they don't care about anything at all. It seems that nothing can affect their mood, they are like the kind of people who are born to be happy, but in fact this is not the case, their hearts are actually teasing and very lonely.

They are just pretending to be strong on the surface, but in fact, their hearts are not so strong, and they may be more fragile than ordinary people.

Because he didn't want others to see his vulnerable side, he could only put on a layer of empty cherry blossom mask for himself. But what they don't know is that this not only isolates outsiders from hurting them, but more importantly, it also isolates the kindness of others to them, and also isolates them from contact with the outside world. In fact, there are many people who are kind in life, and we can have a good heart.

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According to the title, whether a person who is strong on the outside is fragile on the inside.

Strong 1. A person with a strong appearance must be someone who has experienced a lot of things. If you are not nervous and treat things calmly, it shows that you are strong on the outside, but in fact, you are generally a little worried or uneasy in your heart.

2. Generally speaking, people who are strong on the outside also have a fragile side on the inside, but they just have to find the fit point that touches their hearts, otherwise they will not easily confide in their hearts.

3. A strong appearance does not necessarily mean that the heart is fragile, why do some people say 'hard-hearted', in fact, they are very strong and tough people on the outside and inside. This is a long-term exercise, and the inner firmness is produced through the run-in of society.

4. Of course, there are also people who are strong on the outside and fragile on the inside, who are pretending to be firm and strong, and are unwilling to easily expose their inner feelings, so they can only hide them.

5. Strong on the outside and fragile on the inside, such a person, even if there are things that can't get over or something bad, the speed of self-healing and self-regulation will be relatively fast, and it is not easy to be easily disturbed by the outside world.

The above is a personal opinion, thank you!!

Yes, sometimes, a person who is strong on the outside actually hides a fragile heart. Moreover, the stronger the appearance, the more fragile the inside, because they don't want others to know their bad side, but they just endure it silently, so they will give people a very strong appearance.

People who are strong on the outside also have a fragile side on the inside, but they just have to find the point of fit that touches their hearts, otherwise they will not easily confide in their hearts.

It's not like that, it's just that some people may like to disguise themselves and don't want others to see their inner vulnerability, in which case they may be ridiculed by others. So no matter what, he will pretend that he is very strong in front of others and doesn't care about anything, just to tell others that I work hard no matter what the moment.

Generally speaking, this is the case, because the stronger the appearance, the more it is to hide the fragility of the inside.

It is not necessary that some people are the same on the outside, strong on the outside, and strong on the inside. And some people do the opposite. Can't judge a book by its cover.

Showing strong on the outside is just the side of what you show in front of everyone, but in fact, everyone can be vulnerable and helpless! But you can't be fragile all the time! Everyone has their own worries and concerns, and when you are strong, you are brave, and when you are vulnerable, you are alone.

Today I would like to invite you to explore one of the following issues: a question that I have heard countless times in my consultation: Shuangyang, how can I make myself stronger?

I usually ask: what does it mean to be strong? What makes you want to be stronger?

How will it be different when you become stronger? Many people tell me that to become strong is to no longer be influenced by others, that is, if others hurt themselves, they will not feel sad, or let their emotions not be controlled by others, and they can do it like water. But my dear, if we don't react to the words or actions of others, if they can't influence us, if our hearts are really like water, then we are probably not far from the state where some people are alive but already dead.

We are afraid of being vulnerable and we are afraid of seeing others vulnerable. Many times, we feel overwhelmed when faced with our own vulnerability and the vulnerability of others. But fragile and strong, what the hell.

There is no such thing, and whether the heart is strong or not is not necessarily related to the appearance.

No, no matter whether the appearance is strong or not, the heart is fragile, no matter who it is, it should be the same.

It depends on the personal situation, this kind of thing is not necessarily, mainly depends on a person's quality and connotation.

I'm also strong on the outside, but I'm not fragile on the inside. In this era, it is necessary to be strong.

It depends on the personal situation, this kind of thing is not necessarily from the education and living environment, please understand.

Not necessarily, it depends on the specific person.

I think this problem is certain for most people, the appearance of strength is just a manifestation of people to hide their inner vulnerability, they need to protect their fragile inner world in this way, I don't know if you have heard or met a kind of person, that is, when you laugh, you have no heart and lungs, and when you cry, it hurts. This kind of person is the best example.

1) Inexplicable emotional outbursts when you are alone.

When there are outsiders, no matter how painful and tormented the heart is, how great the psychological pressure is. It still looks breezy on the outside.

Only when I am alone, I will think of these things unconsciously, and then I can't control my emotions and cry silently in an instant.

Such people often have two-sided personalities. The first is to be competitive, unwilling to show your weakness in front of others, and suppress all the emotions in your heart.

But in fact, their psychological quality is often very poor, and their ability to resolve emotions is almost non-existent, so the suppressed emotions will eventually explode.

For such a situation, the solution is to accept your weakness and inadequacy, stop the confrontation of your personality, and learn to release your emotions reasonably.

2) Ease of social interaction and lack of actual intimacy.

In reality, there is such a type of person, they have a good relationship with the people around them, and the interpersonal relationship is good. But if you dig deeper, you will find that an important link in their lives is missing: intimacy.

They often never have close friends and lovers. And their own conditions are not bad, and not having intimacy is their own choice.

This condition is known in psychology as a lack of intimacy. The reason for this is often that they have been hurt in an intimate relationship (parent-child majority), leaving a more serious psychological shadow.

These psychological shadows make them reject any form of intimacy in case they are hurt again. Moreover, such people tend to be particularly good at handling interpersonal relationships. Because the injury gives them a sensitive character.

Through superficial ease, they hide their inner fears. The solution to this psychological problem is to find the source of one's own fear and eliminate it.

3) Busy on the surface, but empty inside.

Some people are busy every day, so they make their time very full and actively participate in various social activities. But when I return home, I feel extremely empty and lonely.

This kind of person is often uncertain and very afraid of the future, they want to be a better version of themselves, but often due to reality or personality reasons, they are unable to change.

Add to that the fear that the uncertainty of the future brings to them. Therefore, they will fill their time with a lot of meaningless things to achieve the effect of camouflage and disguise to relieve their anxiety.

The key to solving this psychological problem is to increase confidence in yourself.