Filial piety in my heart after reading the feelings, about the perception of filial piety

Filial piety is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. Filial piety comes first, this is a good story in the history of the nation. To be a good person, a kind person, and a successful person, you must first be filial.

Losing filial piety, just like a person has lost his heart, only a body standing in the world, has lost the value of life, not to mention standing up to the sky, breaking out of the world, in history, there are many touching deeds about filial piety, among which in 24 filial piety, there is a "Min Ziqian persuaded his father to feel his stepmother". Deeply moving.

Min Ziqian was a native of the Zhou Dynasty. lost his mother when he was young, and his father married a daughter with a certain surname as his stepfamily. Min Ziqian is filial piety and treats his stepmother as filial as his biological mother.

Later, the stepmother gave birth to two sons one after another, so she began to hate Min Ziqian. always speaks ill of Ziqian in front of her husband and provokes the relationship between Ziqian and her father.

Winter is here, and it's very cold. The cotton clothes made by the stepmother for her two biological sons are covered with very warm cotton; And the cotton clothes made for Ziqian are covered with reed flowers that are not warm at all. The reed flower is the reed grass that grows in the water, and the light flower that flies everywhere can keep out the cold?

Therefore, Ziqian felt very cold when he was dressed, as if he was not dressed. And the stepmother said to her husband instead: "Ziqian is not cold, and the cotton clothes he wears are also thick."

It's too arrogant, deliberately called cold. ”

One day, his father was going out, Ziqian drove the carriage and horse for his father, a cold wind blew, Ziqian was so cold that he couldn't hold the horse's reins steadily, and the reins fell to the ground, and the horse almost pulled the cart off the cliff. The father was so angry that he raised his horsewhip and beat Ziqian violently. Ziqian's cotton clothes were broken, and the reeds on the inside flew out.

Only then did my father understand everything. Immediately go home and scold his stepwife, and want to drive the vicious woman out of the house and divorce this evil-hearted woman. The stepwife stood like a log, dumbfounded, ashamed and speechless.

Ziqian knelt in front of his father, crying and persuading his father: "Mother is cold in one son, mother goes to three sons, please don't drive away mother." ”

A good sentence "The mother is cold in one son, and the mother goes to the three sons". I don't know how many people were moved by this sentence, even Min Ziqian's stepmother was also moved and regretted, and treated Min Ziqian like a parent and son from then on, this is where the influence and greatness of filial piety lies.

As the saying goes, "the back waves of the Yangtze River push the front waves, and one generation is stronger than the next". Now we should be more filial to our parents, not to mention that filial piety is our long-standing culture and traditional virtue, but the fact seems to be a bit the opposite, the precious wealth of history has not been recognized by some modern people, and even some people want their parents to "honor" them, in their hearts only parents are natural to raise them, to be cattle and horses for them. It is enough to live happily and ignore the suffering of others.

But can they ever think about the pain of carrying a baby in October and the hardships of pulling a small baby into a big one, and can this also be forgotten? If none of this can influence their hard-heartedness, then they can only be scolded and abandoned by society.

Filial piety is priceless, as the descendants of Yan and Huang, we must always remember that we must first achieve filial piety and carry forward our traditional virtues.

The words of a family, the humble opinion of a person: in human society, filial piety is a responsibility and a necessary requirement in harmonious social relations; In terms of family, filial piety is inheritance and virtue, especially in Chinese families; Personally, filial piety is instinctive and determined by personal quality.

I can see that you have some confusion and your own thinking, I think, talking about filial piety or from the individual thinking of natural people, it is more simple.

Filial piety and unfilial piety are normal, if you say right or wrong, it may be caused by parents, children, and ......societyI think that as a parent, raising children is your own choice, loving children is the pouring of your own emotions, it should be nothing, if you educate your children properly, your own words and deeds, your children will naturally be filial to you, but even if you are not filial, he, she is still your child, parents can only face reality; As a child, no one is born destined to be filial or unfilial, if from the family and parents inherited the virtue and spirit of filial piety, then he, she is a filial son, filial daughter, otherwise, of course, not filial piety, so there is no need to sigh and entangle which unfilial children in the world, what you have to do is whether you choose filial piety, how to practice filial piety, whether you consciously do filial piety regardless of returns, which can almost determine whether your children are filial, whether your descendants have the virtue of filial piety, whether to spread the family style of filial piety.

My parents are like this, they never deliberately taught us to be good to them, but silently honored and obedient to my grandmother, grandfather, and grandmother, and when my grandfather and grandmother were seriously ill, they selflessly sacrificed themselves to take care of the elderly, even when the elderly were dying, my parents did their best to let them leave us with dignity, with gratification, with countless happy memories and good hopes for the younger generations.

When it comes to how I am filial to my parents, I feel that I am not enough, because my parents have no worries about food and clothing, know how to enrich their old age, have an excellent mentality, and are in good health, so they don't seem to need me to do anything.

So I think what I can do is to be more obedient to my parents, and in my family, filial piety is obedience first; Develop more of your own career, pay attention to your own health and the harmony of your small family, and don't spoil the hard work of my parents to nurture me (a bit extreme, such as whether I am healthy, optimistic, whether I have a good attitude, etc.), otherwise my parents are the most painful.