What does it feel like to get divorced? What does it feel like to be divorced?

There's nothing special about divorce. It's just that there will be a sense of relief. Since they have chosen to divorce, two people must have a lot of contradictions in their marriage.

Marriage is a very solemn thing, and it will not be casually united, nor will it be casually separated. Now the time for divorce must have been well thought out. Now that you've thought about it, it's better to separate two people.

Don't regret it. Don't regret it anymore.

No matter how much you regret it, how much you regret leaving is leaving, at least now there is no chance to get back together. Maybe after a long time, the contradiction between the two people will be resolved, and there will be a possibility of reunion! Don't be too presumptuous, it's not one's fault in marriage.

Choosing a divorce is definitely the responsibility of both people.

Don't blame one person alone, both of whom have something to think about. Analyze the relationship carefully, maybe there is nothing wrong with either of you, it's just that the timing is not right, or there are some other effects. Since there is no way to overcome it, then divorce will be the best option.

It's better than consuming all the feelings, two people are tired of each other, and even hate each other. After the divorce, you should relax your mood. Don't get too caught up in the past.

Let the past pass, and everyone should have a new beginning.

Everyone's life is not fixed. Just when I got divorced, I also did something I always wanted to do, but I didn't have time to do it. Or something that your partner once disagreed with.

Be a new version of yourself, be a better and better version of yourself. Don't bury your new life for the sake of a bad past. The future is all that matters.

For myself there was a sense of relief, a new start, but for the children I felt a little guilty.

Divorce is a person who dies once.

Divorce is when two people are forced to go down the road to divorce.

It should be relief, bravery, and a fresh start!!

For an unhappy marriage, divorce is also a relief.

The two mountains, facing each other, turned out to be together, leaning on each other, and nature played a joke on each other, and a distance was formed. With distance, there is a bird in the middle to talk about the east and west, and there is a wind to deliver the message in the middle, and they stand silent.

Not divorced is painful and happy, divorced is happy and painful

I remember that I felt like I was out of breath at the time of the divorce, and it was dark. I can't swallow anything, and I don't want to eat all of a sudden. In the past, I was gluttonous, and I didn't want to stretch out my chopsticks when I saw the red-like pork belly, and I didn't want to be hungry for worms to rise up, and my mouth drooled.

I lost forty pounds of flesh at once, as if the wind blew and fell, my face was long and black, like a dry man, I was only in my early thirties at that time, but I gave birth to a lot of white hair, like a fifty-year-old aunt, how can it be described by just an old word!

Life has to go on, and the son was robbed by her ex-husband's family. Night and day, I miss my son in a daze. I didn't write well, and I still missed Lao Shen, so I had the courage to write an article "Son, I Miss You" and sent it to a local newspaper.

Words are also difficult to describe me, and I miss my young son as if I were scratching my heart. His smile and cry are engraved in my heart. Who is the poorest person in the world?

I think, it's me. A mom who lost her son. Missing, made my tears fall in strings, almost crying blind ......, I miss the smell of the child's milk, and I reminisce about the son's milky voice!

But I can't get angry with his grandfather, grandmother, and his father, and I can't afford to raise him, looking at him, I can't make money, and my parents are in their seventies, and they can't take this little grandson with their poor health.

The days passed, but the trauma of divorce was difficult to heal in this life. I can't forget my son, and I can't forget my son. After more than ten years alone, he is worthy of his son.

If there is an afterlife, if you can't make a tree, you can be a cloud, and there will be no more thoughts and sadness! In short, divorce, especially couples with children, is really sorry for the children. For the sake of the children, divorce carefully.

Since they are married, they must be loyal to each other and give their children a warm home.

First: Some suggestions for those girls who are married for the first time, the mode of getting along with the two people before marriage and after marriage is completely opposite, women pay more than men after marriage, especially for those who are not mature enough men, they must pay more than them, so that they can generally be balanced. Don't insist on some things by your own temperament, you must tolerate others to the greatest extent, everything should be tactful and not more serious, and there is no need to worry too much about things that are unfavorable to you, anyway, you can't lose meat.

Second: It's good to say some bad things once, don't mention it repeatedly, this will only make the other party disgusted, and it's useless to mention it.

Third: I have to weigh how many pounds and taels I have, I ignored this, and the other party's feelings for me are not so deep, you have to know how many pounds you weigh in the other party's mind, and then see if you are qualified to be willful. Originally, it is the nature of every girl to be willful, but if someone who does not have deep feelings for herself is willful, it will only make the other party feel that you are unreasonable and unreasonable, not knowledgeable enough, and generally ignorant.

Girls must see the situation of a family clearly, don't be stupid, and must be clear about their position and weight in this family, because marriage is like a scale, the weight of both ends should be the same, for example, if one party is not so good, you must find a way to fill the weight of this piece, such as improving yourself or paying more than the other party, so that the scale is balanced.

First of all, divorce is harmful to both, no matter who is right and who is wrong, but in the end it is both parties who are hurt, and it will also complete a certain amount of damage to the child's mind, and secondly, it will also have a certain impact on the surrounding parents, relatives and friends. It may cause some prejudice and bad perception of them by the people around you. After the divorce, the man may feel very helpless, lonely and emotionally depressed.

For the woman, it may be more of an emptiness, loneliness, and a feeling of being unaccompanied when uncomfortable, very difficult. Especially the woman is the weaker party, divorce is very painful for a woman, so if there is no irreconcilable conflict between the husband and wife, it is better not to divorce.

Finally, help all couples in the world to be happy and happy forever.

.No matter what the divorce is, the most difficult thing is to make this determination, I lost 8 pounds at this stage, and I accidentally reached the peak of my appearance, but unfortunately I am fat again. At that time, I thought that I was a girl, and I always felt like a blank piece of paper being crossed out after divorce, but in fact, the divorce was not scratched, but the paper that was full of holes was turned over, and the next person who loved you would not mind your past!

2.Tell my parents that this is actually much easier and simpler, maybe my parents are more enlightened people. The first is to tell them that the marriage is definitely divorced, and the second is to discuss whether the house or the division of property is included, after all, the parents of the house also pay for it.

It doesn't matter who is at fault in the matter of feelings. As you asked, is divorce good? Does it have anything to do with good or bad?

If you can live it, you can live it, and if you can't go on, you will disperse. The road is on your own, don't think about who can accompany you all the way. Liu Qiangdong's wife has not gone on with him, who do you think you can go on with?

Don't be reluctant to have feelings, reluctant feelings will only make you lowly and incompetent. If you have time, it is better to let yourself grow and make yourself more valuable.

First, for the hopeless marriage, divorce is a relief, although a lot of loss, but a lot, as the so-called: there is a loss, there is gain, even regret is temporary, people can not live in the past, the future of the good will wash away the past regrets, marriage is like this, a happy marriage will bring people the taste of honey, a painful marriage will bring people the taste of Coptis chinensis, the original absurd choice, and then talk about marriage, I don't know whether the other party is confused or has no beads.

Second, without psychological preparation to enter married life, perhaps because the original expectations are too large, resulting in their first arrival in married life will have a strong disappointment, followed by firewood, rice, oil and salt will make you feel depressed, especially in the economic aspect, no matter what you do, no matter what you say, just because you don't know how to solve and vent, the gap between before and after marriage is bound to cause ups and downs in life, divorce is just an inherent hidden danger exposed.

It was a feeling of heartbreak, from the decision to divorce, or to be divorced, at the beginning I would try my best to keep it, until the last moment of the four dead hearts, during which you may experience something you can't imagine.

The result of divorce is not due to one's own fault, although it is very unwilling in the heart, but the party who is not at fault will be more free and easy, changing the state of a marriage, and only liberating the party who is not at fault, which is not so great to hurt the soul. After all, it's better to hold on stupidly than to let go resolutely.

After the divorce, you will face an empty room and will go to dinner alone. Once you get used to the life of two people, you will start to feel a little uncomfortable. There will be some nostalgia for the days when we got married together.

But it's just that I'm not used to it, and I don't feel bad. There are two situations of divorce, one is that you want to divorce yourself, and the other is that the other party wants to divorce you. It is definitely not temporary for you to divorce, it will be carefully considered, and it will be brought up again and again in disappointment, so you will not regret it.

And if it is proposed by the other party, then you must try to make yourself happy.

After you get divorced, your next-door neighbors will soon find out, and strange to say, they can always get the result of your divorce from some wind and grass, and regardless of whether they will sprinkle salt on you, they ask you with a very curious expression, are you divorced? After getting an accurate answer, they will immediately kick the door, and probably the whole neighborhood will know that you are divorced.

After divorce, both women and husbands feel relaxed. Women will feel that they no longer have to get up early every day to prepare breakfast for their husbands, they can get up whenever they want, and they can order takeout by themselves. You don't have to be very diligent, for fear that your mother-in-law will see that she is not diligent and count herself down in front of outsiders.

Men will feel that they can play games when they want, sleep at what time they want, and occasionally watch a ball all night, without having to face the dissatisfaction of women's chatter, and spend the money they earn by themselves.

After a divorce, men and women usually want to fall in love. Then they will be more rational and will know what kind of object they want. No longer have to face the yellow-faced woman at home or the husband at home who is becoming more and more uncomfortable, and feel that everything is getting better.