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This kind of thing can be encountered but not sought, it will be fate, some people meet it early, and some people may not find it in their lifetime. <>
You need to know what kind of person you want to find, what kind of personality this person has, what kind of temper, and even what kind of family he needs to have, etc. I don't believe in cultivating feelings, I think the feelings cultivated are not real feelings, cultivating feelings is two people with inappropriate personalities together and then changing each other, in order to cater to each other, in the end there is no temper of their own, no character of their own, this is not the right love.
I think true love is when two people are really suitable for each other, even if there is a little problem, as long as there is a thing, then the other party will know what you will do and understand you very well.
If you want to find the destined individual, you need to make more friends and meet more people of the opposite sex through different channels. It is destined to be love at first sight, and you feel that one of his actions is something you like and feels very familiar. If you want to find the right person, you can't settle for it, you can't think that a person is good, maybe you can find out that he is right after being together for a while, this kind of thinking is not right.
When I met my boyfriend, I felt like déjà vu when I met him, we went to dinner, we watched movies, we went shopping, every action met my inner standards, for example, we ate hot pot, I think the boy must ask me how to eat sesame sauce, and then help me tune. And that's what he did. Another example is that I think he should hand me a piece of paper when I go to the bathroom and come out, so he waits for me outside the door with a tissue.
I feel that every action of him is what I want, this person is my destiny, we are very in love with each other now, and we are very happy together.
I feel like I'm lucky to have found what I think is a good boyfriend, but with perseverance, I believe that everyone can find the perfect fit for themselves.
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In our lives, there are many people who always fantasize that the road of affection can go smoothly and find the destined person to stay with for a lifetime, but in fact, this idea is somewhat unrealistic. In love and life, there is nothing destined, everything is just a matter of whether it is suitable or not, whether it is loved or not. If you want to find the destined and suitable person, you only need to wait quietly, and take the initiative when necessary, happiness is actually in our thoughts.
When the person we love does not show up, we have to wait and not be sad or too sad because there is no love or being single. We must have an open-minded view of love, people for a lifetime, come alone, and go alone after all, no one can always accompany them. Love is just a coloring agent for our lives, why force it, maybe the right person just hasn't met it yet.
During this period, we only need to work hard to improve our cultivation and talent, and believe that if you are in full bloom, butterflies will come, and the best will always be in the end.
But just because we're open-minded doesn't mean we're indifferent to all our feelings. When necessary, it is still necessary to seize the opportunity. If you meet the one you like, you still need to work hard to know if this person is worth it and whether it is the most suitable one for you.
In other words, some people may not be able to find her or the person he was destined to do in their lifetime. The world is so big, with a population of seven billion people in the world, the fate of two people being able to walk together is very small, not to mention the so-called: fate.
To put it bluntly, in this world, except for death, nothing can be predestined, and fate is in your own hands. In love, there is only whether it is suitable or not, and the right person is the one you are destined for. We should not be overly superstitious and overly predestined, and ignore the people around us.
In fact, whether it is suitable or not is the ultimate motivation for two people to be together.
Just like Mr. Lu Xun said"There is no road in this world, and when there are more people walking, it becomes a road"。The same is true of the concept of destined, there is no destined, but the ancient people's longing and yearning for love created the word. We just need to wait quietly with the same yearning for beautiful love as the ancients, and finally find the right person for us.
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I think it still depends on fate.
Fate is a very mysterious thing! The person who is destined is still quite imaginative. Have you ever wondered what you look like yourself?
Have you ever fantasized about your destiny? It's really very mysterious, because this kind of thing is ethereal. If you want to deliberately look for it, you don't necessarily know, because you don't know where your destiny is?
And you don't know what he really looks like.
If you are really desperate to find your destiny. I can only give you an opinion to go out more! Go to more activities and meet new people.
Your life has been fixed, and there are no waves in Pingi. Your circle of friends is also not updated. In such a situation, it is very difficult to find your destiny.
You don't know exactly where your fate will be, and there is a good chance that he should not be in your current circle of friends. If you knew each other now, we should have been together a long time ago. So there's a good chance you don't know him yet.
Or maybe you're not familiar with him yet. So you need to have an opportunity to expand your circle of friends, to participate in more activities, to experience more things, to meet many people. That way, there's a good chance you'll be able to meet like-minded people.
Such like-minded people often coincide with your three views, and you have a common goal, so it is more likely to be destined. So it mainly depends on fate.
Don't be too anxious to find your destiny, don't recognize the wrong person, or take a good look. The destiny that should come must be yours.
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I'm relying on fortune telling, hahahaha, I'm just a scumbag physique, I feel like I've lost confidence in love, I found someone to count the peach blossoms, and said that my fate is not far away, but now I met my boyfriend, and now we're engaged, it's good.
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The most important thing is to find the self you dreamed of.
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In fact, everyone's fate is destined, and everyone you meet is the person you are destined to meet. Who you marry is actually predestined, so we don't have to look for it anymore, we just need to wait seriously, and one day someone will love you more than ourselves.
I believe that there are such people around everyone, they believe in love, yearn for love, and are sparing no effort to pursue love, but love does not treat them well. Deliberate pursuit often does not lead to true love, and quiet waiting will allow you to meet true love. Everyone has no way to choose their own family, and many people may miss a love because the family is not wealthy, because the door is not right, this is your destiny.
No matter how hard you try and persevere, you can't break the world's view of you.
Yiyi thought that the loss boy could give herself a better future with her enthusiasm and hard work, but reality still defeated her. After graduating, she worked a 9-to-5 job, with a basic salary, and lived an ordinary life.
Within a few years, when she was older, the family began to urge her to get married, and arranged blind dates for her one after another, at first she also resisted, not wanting to bow to fate, but it didn't take long for her to accept. She began to hate herself, hated this fate that she couldn't get rid of, but she couldn't do anything about it.
In the end, she married the blind date that her parents fancied, and no one cared how she felt, and no one cared that there was no love at all in this marriage.
What kind of person do you want to marry, in fact, the source of fortune has already been arranged, if your family is not so rich, and you are not hard enough to persevere, then one day you will be defeated by fate and marry someone you don't love. In fact, everyone has countless ways to escape their own destiny, but they just don't have the courage to take that step.
Many things are predestined, such as your family, your marriage. Fate is very unfair to everyone, and some people can get a lot of things they want without much effort, and they can stay with the person they like.
And some people still bow to fate after hard work. If you really like someone, you must work hard to chase it, how do you know that the person you are destined to be is not the person in front of you?
If this person hasn't appeared yet, don't worry, fate will eventually be arranged, and one day he will come to you across thousands of mountains and rivers, gently hold your hand, and write a better future with you.
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See if it is in line with your own mind, whether it is similar to your hobbies and interests, if it is destined to be blocked, you can't hide, there is a force in the dark to push forward, I wish you good luck!
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Finding a suitable partner is a journey that requires serious thought and time. While there is no specific "instant" that can be an absolute difference between a good match and a good match, here are some signs to help you better understand whether you have a potential good match with someone:
1.Shared Values: If you share similar values and goals in life, this is a wonderful place to start. Shared values can help build stronger relationships.
Mutual respect: A good partner should treat each other with respect, including respect for each other's opinions, feelings, and personal space.
3.Good communication: You are able to communicate openly, understand each other's needs and expectations, and resolve differences together.
Common hobbies: Having common hobbies helps you have a great time together and get to know each other better.
Support and understanding: Good partners will support and understand each other, and experience joyful moments and lows together.
6.Similar lifestyles: If you have similar lifestyles and habits, it will be easier for you to adapt to each other's lives.
7.Trust: Trust is the cornerstone of a good relationship, and you need to trust each other.
Sincerity: Being able to authentically present yourself without hiding or pretending. Wash the potatoes.
9.A disparate way of dealing with conflict: A good partner is able to deal with conflict maturely, rather than by attacking or avoiding the problem.
10.Planning for the future: You can plan for the future together, including shared goals and plans.
While these traits can help you determine if you're a potential match with someone, building a healthy, long-lasting relationship takes time and a concerted effort. The most important thing is to understand, support and respect each other, grow together and manage a good relationship foundation.
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Hello, it may not be time for Hand Min to meet the destined person, you need to be patient and wait for Bi Renzhi. But if you're good enough and dazzling enough, you'll definitely attract the person you're destined for. There is a saying that if you bloom, butterflies will come.
When you are confused and helpless, you might as well stop looking for it, strive to change yourself, and let your life bloom like a flower as soon as possible. The one you were destined to be will come.
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I believe in fate because I've been through something like this. Although this is a little superstitious to say this, I still believe that something is destined for something.
I have a small hair, when I was a child, I may have watched too much, and every time I saw the maple leaves, I felt very romantic, and then secretly swore that the person she was going to marry would definitely be the first man to take her to Xiangshan to see the maple leaves.
Fa Xiao's first love, talked for three or four years, has discussed the marriage date, Fa Xiao wanted her boyfriend to take her to Xiangshan to play a model of the first sail, to realize her childhood wish, but her boyfriend said that he didn't want to go, and the last two broke up for other reasons until the end, and they didn't go.
Later, she met a few travel friends, and the first time she participated in the event, she actually went there, and the person she is now married to is the one she met when they participated in the event together, and she herself felt incredible.
Although I often laugh at her, saying that she is superstitious, because the people she contacts are deliberately looking for groups with the same interests as her, and the subconscious thoughts, including the friends she contacts, are moving closer to this aspect, and it is just a coincidence with a high probability, but she herself is particularly convinced that it is fate, in fact, there is indeed such a probability in it, but she is happy, which is the best hail game.
In fact, it is often said that three points are set by heaven, and seven points are artificial, even if there is a certain probability of fate, but if you don't do anything at home every day, it is estimated that there will be no destined pie to fall, for example, someone wins the lottery, you think it is fate, but if you don't buy it, it is estimated that you will not be able to wait until the earth is desolate.
Of course, I'm just a metaphor, not to let everyone buy lottery tickets, which means that even if you believe that something is destined for something, the general direction is still in your own hands, and your own efforts are more important.
The Queen of Defeated Dogs is also starring Ruan Jingtian.
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