How to make new and interesting friends Have a heart to change

I'm also very honest, and I have three good friends, two of whom are men and one is female.

It should be noted that; These friends are very honest.

I used to have a few smart friends, but I found that I often suffered and was often ridiculed and bullied by them, so I didn't associate with them.

One of my three friends is a colleague, one is a motorcycle repairer, and the woman is a netizen, and the relationship has been maintained since meeting until now (two years).They don't have many words.

We often chatted together, drank, hung out together, and anyone could help out with anything.

We sometimes don't distinguish each other, you wear my clothes, I wear your hat, and we don't care who spends more and who spends less, in short, who has the money and who spends.

I think; To make friends, you should make friends with people with similar personalities, and the difference in personality should not be too big. Be easy-going, not calculating, and generous. Helpful.

You have to take the initiative to help others, take the initiative to talk to others, and deepen the relationship on the basis of getting acquainted with them first and then making friends.

I hope you make good friends soon.

Change don't let others change you, it's best to change yourself psychologically, sometimes learning from others will backfire, what is personality, what is cool, it also depends on who you use it for. Suitability is not suitable, excessive pursuit of personality that does not meet your own conditions will make your friends farther and farther away from you.

Never give up what belongs to you, and be yourself! Your character will make friends who are genuinely right!

Participate in social activities and travel when you have time.

I suggest you take a look at the EQ book. It's important to be helpful and walk the talk, which is the first step to gaining the trust of others. It is also the longest-term step.

Being humorous and funny can make you more acceptable to everyone and help you integrate into the group. Broad-minded, broad-minded is not easy for everyone to do, scarce is expensive, so this is a very valuable personality charm, whenever as long as it does not hinder the safety of life, we all look at others with a tolerant heart (to empathize) and understand others. Foreseeing good and discarding evil, thinking about the interests of others as good people (in the case of wishes, this is a manifestation of love for society), and abandoning the idea of treating others as bad people (even if he is a villain, we don't look at him through the eyes of a villain).

I recommend a book to you "One Minute Philosophy of Life" The stories are very short, you can read them every minute, but the refraction is very wide, suitable for people of all groups to read. Finally, I would like to add that if you want to have a good relationship with people, it is very important to be attentive.

1.Be natural and be yourself 2As long as you are sincere, you will definitely succeed.

3.True friends are made with the heart 4Making friends is also a matter of learning.

The most basic thing is to empathize and think more about other people's positions. There are some things that people say to you that you will be unhappy, and you will not be happy if you say something else. Even if you are sincere and have no malicious intent.

After getting to know others, do you feel that others are disgusted with you, and if so, ask yourself why they are like this. If there is no disgust, it is very common, it means that it is not interesting to be with you, remember to adopt it.

Find common topics, such as junior high school studies or something, and talk about family life.

You can join a travel club or something, and everyone organizes trips or meals and drinks together, so that you can also meet a lot of people, but you have to rely on yourself to determine what kind of friends you can make.

First, you have to treat your friends with your heart, and only think of calling your friends when you have nothing to do, which will make others feel very bad. If you have nothing to do, you can play more ** to communicate and communicate feelings.

Second, don't be afraid to talk about the convenience of communication, you can find some topics to talk about, such as news, trivial things in life, etc., and then observe the interests of others by yourself, and talk to him about what he likes, so that there will be endless topics. And be a attentive listener. Because you don't know what he's thinking until you listen to it.

Don't interrupt him easily, and occasionally ask a question or two, which means that you are waiting intently for him to speak.

Third, in terms of activities, you can make an appointment with a few friends to go out to play during the holidays, and ask them to bring some friends you don't know much or friends together, so that you can make new friends and deepen your relationship with old friends, if you are eating and drinking at the dinner table, don't refuse when you have new friends to toast you, even if you really can't drink it, even if that cup will not be good, if it really doesn't work, drink it, spit it out when you go to the toilet, and if you don't drink, it will make everyone feel embarrassed and disappointed.

Making friends is still a concern from the heart, so that when you need help, as long as there is a **, I believe there are many friends who will help you.

Fourth, if there is any specific contradiction, you are asking me, I can help you come out of the main one.

Everyone has to learn to grow up slowly You will meet a lot of people on the road of your life Those who really know will stay Be your lifelong buddies and sisters These people are the kind of people who will not be unfamiliar even if they don't contact each other for a long time Remember that you can't be delicate It's too tiring A few simple greetings are fine The life circle between you and your former friends is changing You will meet more new faces It's normal to be unfamiliar You have so much energy It's important to enrich yourself more Insightful enough There will be more topics to talk about with your friends It's not a problem of your poor eloquence Maybe it's really the new environment you're in that makes you uncomfortable Change your original thinking pattern Get in touch with something newer So don't waste your time in college And don't change your original personality in order to please people who are not important to you This will only make you have fewer and fewer friends around you No one likes to be with someone who has no personality and goes with the flow I think the most important thing is to make friends sincerely Less complaining and more positive Maybe your life will be different These are some of my small experiences in the four years of college I hope it will be useful to you Don't be depressed about these things Happy people will naturally be liked I think you should be in a university in an environment that you are not familiar with These phenomena are very normal When the environment changes, people will become more sensitive Just get used to it Cherish your college life.

The landlord and I were in a similar situation at the time, and I was a sophomore.

First of all, everyone has their own place in society and has your own things to do. So it's normal for the contact to decrease, I have three dead friends in high school, two of them went abroad, and one was separated, and we basically didn't have contact, but every time I got back together, I felt that the relationship had not changed at all, or even better, this is the so-called light as water, real friends don't need contact to maintain, and shouting a brother is a lifetime.

Secondly, I don't have any friends at all in this university, but I don't have the idea of the landlord to deliberately know, my point of view is to be yourself, like-minded people naturally walk together, different ways do not conspire with each other!

If the landlord really wants to get to know, it is suggested: don't talk too nonsense, so grandstanding, others will be nice to you on the surface, and scold you stupidly behind your back. Don't be too silent, then you give a sense of distance.

Always have a smile on your face, remember to learn to listen, don't interrupt others, agree with other people's views even if you don't want to agree, don't be stingy, don't remember a few yuan or ten yuan, just be your best friend.

Actually, it's really hard work.,I can't do it.,But a few people I know are like this.,So there's always a group of people around.。。

The landlord chooses for himself.。。。

Friend, you can't go on like this, it will make your personality introverted and autistic, and it will not be conducive to your future development, daily life.

I suggest that you think of yourself as pure, you know that you have no ill intentions, so you don't have to worry about what others think when you interact and communicate with others. Open your heart and speak boldly. In fact, other people are just like you, they are craving friendship.

In a new environment, everyone is eager to listen. Tell and understand.

Also, don't neglect to listen when you speak, and be serious when you listen, which is respect.

Then there is to observe, to care.

To observe is to have eyes. It's not for you to shoot anyone's ass. It's to see if your classmates need help, and don't hesitate to help if you can. Helping each other is the foundation of friendship. That's all. Finally, I tell you that if you want to make a brother, you have to use your 'heart'.

In fact, in society, it is difficult for people to come together without interests, even if they are very good classmates, if they are thousands of miles apart after graduation, go their separate ways, you think about it, even if you can always maintain the relationship between you in college, after 1 month, 1 year, 2 years, 5 years. The environment you experience when you go to work will make you miss the innocence and simplicity of university, but only nostalgia. At that time, you will know that the troubles you have to deal with at work are often unclear, and you will confide in your old classmates, just afraid that others will be more annoying, after all, they themselves are facing the same situation.

It's tricky to manage your relationships. But if you want to make more friends, you have to learn to try to sell yourself, and here are some key points for you. Life is a series of sales pitches.

We sell a product, we sell a plan, and we sell ourselves. Selling yourself is an art, a talent. When you learn to sell yourself, you can sell almost anything of value.

Not everyone knows how to market themselves, but it can be learned. When it comes to marketing ourselves, our appearance is very important and can never be overlooked. Be a patient listener and listen to your own voice.

Try to forget about yourself and give your whole attention to the other person. Always remember that faith is an important factor.

Recognize the meaning of life and the goal of your life.

Why so desperate? Because you have to be worthy of your conscience.

If you want to become a good interpersonal master, the first step must be to confirm your values; If you can't even figure this out, it's hard to see through the meaning of life, let alone a sense of accomplishment.

You must be cheerful, because any master negotiator has a very good psychological quality. Treat your friends sincerely, sincerely, and care for each other, and give a ** blessing on his (her) birthday, close, you can attend the party in person, and the more you contact, the more you will naturally slowly expand your relationship network. First of all, you should remember the name of others, this is respect for others, and it will slowly get better through contact, chat, and communication FYI!!

For old friends, you can often go to the door without having anything to do. Go out for a walk, talk about how each other is doing, and share your feelings and feelings.

For new people, it's definitely the people you need to reach out to right now. Just tell them more about the miscellaneous things on campus and talk casually. In fact, no matter what you do, you must be righteous. This works better than chatting.

You have to learn to be round, communicate with different people in different ways, when you meet you with your own personality imagination, you will naturally communicate well, when you have a different personality than you have to figure out what kind of personality he is, the right medicine will naturally have a lot of contact with you,. In terms of eloquence, I feel that as long as you let go of yourself, there is nothing that you can't open, people have feelings, when you sincerely call him a friend and pay sincerely, I believe that they will also pay you sincerely, I believe that you will have a lot of friends, brothers, live you happily.

In fact, it doesn't matter how often friends meet, but you must let the other party know that the relationship is not separated, for example, you have to remember someone's birthday, send a text message on holidays, and occasionally contact each other. It's good for everyone to get together when they have time. Temperament, personality these pretend not to pretend, see people's hearts for a long time, be sincere, learn to be lenient to others, strict with yourself, and kind people everyone should like.

Communication is very important, real friends do not mean to be together all the time, getting together once in a while does not mean that you and your friends will get worse and worse, learn to use different ways for different people to maintain your friendship, and make some new friends at the same time, but you have to remember that friends can not be made blindly.

If it's really good friends, you won't have a relationship if you don't see each other for a year.

New friends, in fact, it depends on whether you have a temper or not, you don't want to get along with them too deliberately, just follow your own habits.

Feelings are worthless if they are deliberate.

The main reason is that you have a reason to let others know you, I was pushed by the teacher to be the secretary of the Youth League branch, plus I am a little strong, soon they all know me, they all call me secretary, but the class leader is more powerful, they may be because they live in the same dormitory! Secondly, you have to be able to listen and find topics, don't interject when others are talking, there is no topic because you are nervous, relax, anything can be used as a topic, and you have to be respectful of anyone.