What if you married him when you were poor, and now that you are rich, you want to divorce?

Such a man is treacherous, you accompany him to start from scratch, but he starts to abandon in chaos, even if you can't bear to divorce, I'm afraid you won't be happy.

For women, the greatest cruelty is to be betrayed by the other party, when he was poor and white, you and him were in the same boat through thick and thin, and it was not easy to soar, but he kicked you away to find a new love. Such men are very cold and cruel, he is simply using you, and he doesn't love you enough in his heart.

When my aunt got married, her husband couldn't even afford to build a house, but she still had no regrets and chose to spend the marriage with him, but when her husband was booming, he liked the new and hated the old and chose to divorce her. There is really no need for a woman to continue to be nostalgic when she meets a man who is unsympathetic, it is better to part ways from now on.

First, when the judgment continues, you will suffer from it, and you must decisively divorce him.

Women should never wait for the scumbag to stop the precipice, because he will not turn back at all, for him you are just a tool he uses, you accompany him to endure hardships and stand hard work, and he kicks you off in turn. You are like a trash can to him, he will only abandon you ruthlessly, such a man really doesn't need to be cherished, because he is a scumbag himself, and he will never change because of your kindness.

Second, you accompany him to start a business from scratch, and after the divorce, you have to fight for your share of the property, including the custody of your children.

You have to fight for your share of the property, because you have dedicated your youth to him and started a business with him, legally speaking, he must give you half of the property. It's a big deal that the two of you face each other in court, and don't have any softness towards him. In addition, the children are all born to you, and you must try to fight for the custody of your daughter, otherwise he will only snub the children after finding a new wife.

Third, you don't have to be merciful to a scumbag, let alone think that he will change his mind about you.

Women must treat scumbags neatly, even if the other party gets back together with you, you don't give him any chance. Don't be pessimistic and depressed because of the scumbag's mistakes, because he is not worth what you do. This world is very beautiful, when you leave the scumbag, you must learn to embrace life and find your own happiness with a new mentality.

Ask him the reason for the divorce, talk to him, reminisce more about the past, and let him understand that only you are good to him.

If you don't want to divorce, you can unite your in-laws and the like, you can't force you to leave without a name, if you want to leave, you should fight for your own interests.

Women often choose love between love and bread, but the reality of marriage may never be as good as imagined, so when love is gone, it is the last word to grasp your own bread.

If he just won't spend money on you, but spends it elsewhere, then you can think about divorce. If he just saved his money and didn't spend it scruples, then talk to him properly.

We shouldn't get divorced, we just shouldn't be lavish in our lives, develop a good habit of being diligent and thrifty, as long as you have no emotional problems, this matter can be negotiated slowly.

If this is the case, then you should divorce immediately, as a man is very poor and has no disgust, he doesn't spend the money he earns now, it's just a wreck.

I don't think a man can agree to marry you when he is poor and divorce you when he is rich, because you spend time with him when you are poor, and you still have to spend it with you when life is good.

Personally, I think I agree! Since he doesn't love you anymore, there's no use in forcing it to stay! It's better to get a share of your own property and start a new life!

Agree, since you can't keep his heart, then ask for more of his property, after all, money will not change his mind, and it will also make his material life better.

Husband and wife can endure hardships together, but they can't share wealth together, if you can keep each other, then don't agree, it's not easy for you to share hardships, try your best to recover, it's really not good, then give yourself a chance to be reborn.

Divorce is OK, but the property must be divided equally. Because I have also made a lot of contributions and sacrifices for this family.

I am the only child in my family, and when I was working in the city, I met a young man whose family was from the countryside.

When I first met him, I felt very eye-catching and enjoyed chatting with him. After coming and going, a spark of love was generated, and we changed from friends to boyfriend and girlfriend. I don't care where he comes from, as long as he's nice to me and I like him, that's enough.

When I brought him home, my mother immediately objected when she heard that she was from the countryside and that the family had no money and that she was a poor boy. She was worried that I would suffer if I got married, but I didn't care about that, the money could be earned together.

I told my mother that if she didn't agree with me being with him, then I would cut off the mother-daughter relationship with her, and under my pressure, my mother would rather than compromise with me.

My mother took out most of her life savings and gave me 130,000 yuan as a dowry, she just wanted me to marry and make my life a little less burdensome.

After we got married, my husband wanted to start a business and promised to give me a happy life. I took out the dowry my mom gave me and added some loans, and he started a small company.

Due to the lack of previous work experience and the lack of connections, the company could not receive orders at all. In order to make more business partners, my husband goes out early and returns late every day, and he is often drunk, I also feel sorry for him, I want to help but can't, I want him to accompany me more, but when I think of his career, I endure it again.

Three years have passed, and my husband has gradually become like those soldiers stationed on the frontier on TV, who go home less than twice a year, and fight less and less.

Later, he finally went home, and he said that the company had received a large order and had a large amount of income, and I felt that all the years of hard work had paid off. He lived at home for a week, but this week he was not the same as before, he didn't like to talk to me, and often played ** at night, I asked him if there was something wrong, but he shook his head and didn't say.

In the end, he finally couldn't hold it anymore and told me that he came back this time to negotiate a divorce with me. He was able to receive an order today because of the girl he knew, her father helped to contact him, but the premise was to marry this girl.

After listening to what he said, I couldn't stop crying, is he going to abandon me? I've been waiting for so many years, and what I'm waiting for is not a return, not a happy life, but a divorce!

Tell me, what kind of sin did I create, I met such a scumbag, I regret that I didn't listen to my parents and insisted on marrying this poor boy, what should I do now?

In this case, you can choose to divorce him. He also has half of your money. You can defend your rights and interests through legal means.

Since there is no emotion to speak of, it is necessary to fight for some more interests for yourself, and you must divide the property equally.

I think it's okay to get a divorce, but he has to give you a share of the property, and if you get out of the house, that's not possible.

I am 30 years old this year, which is the year of establishment, but I have failed, not only have I lost my career, but also my family. Sitting in the empty home, thinking about his failed life, thinking about his husband who had just slammed the door in a rage, tears suddenly couldn't be suppressed, and tears flowed down his face.

When I first met my husband, he was a positive and sunny teenager, even if his family was very poor, but the poor were ambitious, full of enthusiasm for life and work, I loved him, including his poverty. In order to marry him, I did not hesitate to give up my family, my own career, broke with my family, and finally married him as I wished.

But after only 3 years of marriage, it seems to have come to an end, ask me why, I can't seem to think of a specific reason, I can only talk in detail, my feelings in the past few years, maybe you can find the reason for giving up.

All women have a good vision of marriage, no matter whether they are poor or rich, whether they are sick or healthy, regardless of wind and rain, we can hold hands and walk together, suffer all the hardships together, and enjoy the happiness together, but just after a year of marriage, reality gave me a resounding slap in the face.

Because it was a naked marriage, we lived in a rented house, and we had to calculate and buy firewood, rice, oil and salt, no wedding dress, no diamond ring, no new clothes, and even no happy words, I still have no regrets. Finally got through to the end of the year, we all paid the year-end bonus, and together there was 40,000 yuan, which was an astronomical amount for me at the time, but my husband didn't think about it, and all of it was remitted to his house, along with my share, I didn't leave a penny. When I asked, he only had one sentence, the family is poor, we can endure hardship, but they can't.

Okay, I can suffer with you, after that incident, I am still full of hope for life, but I originally thought that you wanted me to suffer with you for a while, but I didn't expect that you wanted me to suffer with you for a lifetime.

Even if you don't send money to your family, you will take care of the money to death, what does my salary card look like, I almost forgot, I want to buy a pair of shoes, don't let it, last year's shoes can still be worn, I want to buy a piece of underwear, don't let it, who will wear the underwear, just make do with it, I want to buy a birthday gift for my mother, don't let it, your family has money, do you still lack your two hundred yuan?

Finally, on the third anniversary of my marriage, when you saw a small cake I bought with the lunch money, and questioned me about spending money indiscriminately, I filed for divorce!

When you hear me say divorce, your first reaction is not to reflect on yourself, but to say that I dislike you for being poor and want to find a rich man. I sat on the sofa and said in a very flat mood, you are wrong, after the divorce, I don't have the courage to love anymore, although I am only 30 years old, it seems that half of my life has been over.

Women, you must know that no matter what time it is, the first thing to remember is to be kind to yourself. In marriage, don't lose yourself and live the way you want to live, so that you will be happy and happy.

The wife can reply to him: If you want to find a rich man, you left when I was in my twenties, mainly because you are a cold-mouthed person, poor in your ability to do things, and you don't know how to be considerate, and you live with you, there is nothing desirable, why do you want to spend the rest of my life?

I can only say that what you did was right, his ideas were too extreme, not suitable for you to entrust for life, and you deserve to have better people.

When I meet this kind of man, I don't think there is really any need to cherish it, such a man is very irresponsible, and he doesn't know how to consider your feelings, so I think it's better to stay away as soon as possible.

"Aren't you divorcing me because you think I'm poor and want to find a rich man? "Met this kind of husband. You should directly refute him, if I wanted to find a rich man, then I would not have married you in the first place, and the reason why I divorced you was because I couldn't stand your character.

This kind of man just can't do it himself, and he attributes the responsibility to others, and when he encounters this kind of husband, he decisively divorces.

When you meet such a husband, there is no other way, just divorce directly, and it has nothing to do with what kind of person you find in the future.