-
The key is to make your husband understand your thoughts, everyone has parents, you also have them, and you also need to take care of them!
Let him talk about it, if you buy a four-bedroom house, take your parents over, see if he can accept it, don't do to others what you don't want, not to mention that you love each other very much, you want to accompany each other in this life, don't affect each other's feelings and normal life for the sake of your parents!
My husband's home is in the countryside, his parents are old and stubborn, don't want us to buy a house in the city, afraid that we won't take care of them when they are old, I have been explaining to my husband that he is also doing family work, family problems, emotional problems need to be communicated, don't make any decisions alone without communication, let's discuss it.
Believe that if he loves you and will understand you.
Your parents are still young, and they don't need to cook for you when they are alone, so that you can cultivate your life ability, and you are free for each other, tell your husband that you want to exercise your life ability and not trouble his parents to take care of it.
It's not unfilial, when his parents are old, you can take care of them, chat with them, and even ask a nanny, let your husband talk, but don't let your husband misunderstand you, when you say it, you must show that you love him very much, care about him, and then add your feminine charm to make him wake up! Got it?
Give him a "crispy" feeling!
-
Don't live with your in-laws, it's annoying to death the trivial things. We used to live together, because we had children, so we couldn't help it. Now that the children are older, they are often not together, and it is polite to occasionally eat together or play **. How nice!
-
The most difficult thing in the world is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
It depends on how you deal with it.
What we're talking about is just advice, we can't help you.
The key is yourself.
-
I am also a woman, I think that not living with your in-laws does not mean that you are not filial, sometimes the husband is a filial son is very scary, and his filial piety is likely to ruin your love.
-
Discuss it with him and use a coquettish method, hehe.
-
Don't think about it so much, just live well.
-
In China, if you marry him, you marry their whole family. Marriage is not a matter of two people, love is for two people.
-
Of course, he is married to his whole family, and his parents can't ignore it!
-
Of course, if you marry him, how long can your parents stay with you.
Yes, if you truly love each other, you will be able to stand the test of time. While I am still young, I will work hard for a few more years, and I will earn enough money to honor my parents, and it is not too late to remarry, I love my parents and want to honor them, I will not get married very early, unless he is very rich, I think so.
It is impossible to marry someone without a reason. If you love him, you will find his merits to convince yourself, and if you don't love him, you will find an excuse to go. You don't have to ask anyone else to find a reason, because it's yours! >>>More
Honest man. Although marrying such a man is not prosperous and rich, it will feel very down-to-earth. Because an honest man is loyal to his marriage and will be genuinely good to you.
Well, there are some things that don't like you, and you don't want to look at them, but I still want to say them. >>>More
His son Wang Yan wrote a poem "Eye Charm" after he knew, which was indeed a strange story in ancient times, so it was recorded, because at that time his son Wang Yan and his daughter-in-law were separated from each other, and in the ancient society with more outdated ideas, it was already a relatively rare existence, not to mention the news that the old man personally married his daughter-in-law to others, but this is indeed Wang Yan's own death, Wang Anshi can't stand it, and will marry his daughter-in-law to someone else. Later, Wang Yan admitted his mistake and had no way to change it, so he could only write this poem to express his regret and sadness. <> >>>More