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Not motivated by this issue. Reminds me of a letter from a guy that a certain moderator reads. This audience member also complained that his wife had no future and couldn't make money, which made him feel very shameless.
And the audience who scored ** basically condemned this woman for not being motivated, and only one man said: She can be by your side well, better than anything else. (The man's wife died).
So, cherish her and don't ruin your relationship for these things. It's okay if a woman can support herself, at least she didn't let you raise it.
In addition, you should take on more of the heavy responsibilities of life. As a man.
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It's okay to have you there.
As long as you have a future.
Do you want to eat soft rice?
This kind of girl is very good.
If you don't like it, you'll have to change it.
Because this kind of girl is destined to be the kind of carefree person who lives a lifetime.
But in fact, she also has troubles.
Just not in this aspect.
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Girls like an ordinary and secure life.
Therefore, she may choose to pay a lower salary.
But if she insisted on that, she wouldn't.
way. You must change her words.
Then you can only negotiate with her by breaking up.
But. Ordinary is also a kind of beauty.
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Hey, girls are all going to be petted, but you have to plan for it.
I don't think she's going to be like that without any pressure.
Doesn't she need to support her parents?
If life is stressful, I believe she should be motivated.
Are you capable now? I think if you have your own children, you should be stressed and motivated! It will make you happier ...
I don't know much about girls, I can only tell you this...
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Now that the employment form is so difficult, how do you know that she is satisfied? Maybe she's helpless, who wouldn't want to be better? Now this society is not what you can choose, but what life can give you, alas-
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One is that you raise her for the rest of your life.
The second is that she knows the hardships of life, and the average woman will know how to live when she gets married.
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You go teach her a lesson, give her a slap in the face, and tell her if you want the next generation to go back to your path, make sure it works.
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Anthracene. He said to her: "If a person is satisfied with what she does, then there is no point in her life, and in the same way, if a person is never satisfied, then he will become greedy."
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It seems to me nothing, it is a man's responsibility to provide for his family, and she is still working.
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Women are not responsible for supporting the family in the first place, they also have to give birth to children, take care of you as a man, and be filial to their elders. In addition, I have to work, do housework, and educate my children. I think it's better for you to push yourself to be more motivated!!
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The Tao is different, and it is not conspiratory. If you don't go the other way, change it!
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Maybe you don't feel the pressure of life.
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If you don't get motivated because you don't have pressure, in the same way, she doesn't ask for you, so don't be satisfied. I think she's already very good, much better than those who don't make money and spend men's money lavishly!
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If you can't change her, change yourself, or change another one, and don't regret it when you get married.
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You're going to have to hit her hard, psychologically.
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What should I do if I am not self-motivated, super practical dry goods tips to share with you!
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Reason with her and guide her, only play with her and love you, you will listen to you, and you will become positive and become a woman who is praised by everyone.
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Then you should try to guide, secondly, she is your girlfriend, and she is not motivated because she has always had a boy by her side who loves her deeply!
The child's situation is directly related to the family of origin and her previous experience. It is recommended that parents find out the real cause of their child's problems, or find a professional psychological counselor to help you analyze and adjust your child's situation, only then can your daughter return to her proper life and learning state. If you still don't understand, you can ask us.
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According to the law, there is no offense, you are a C-class man, Chinese men are divided into four levels of ABCD, D is a rural hukou farming, C is a phoenix man and a rural person who comes to work in the city, B is an urban hukou, A is a frequent trip abroad with a high salary, according to what you said, you and your girlfriend are C-class, women will tend to find a man of higher rank than themselves, D women look for C men, C women look for B men, B women can't find them, A women look for A men, D men have no partner. Having said so much means that your girlfriend may dislike you for not having the ability, she has been poisoned by the brain-dead *** for a long time, and has lost the ability to judge in this regard, thinking that it would be good if you were a B man or even a man, but this is impossible to achieve in a short period of time, the best way is to talk to her and ask him if he is not satisfied with his achievements, if so, see if there is any way to change his mind, change the best to work together, if you fail, divide it, you two have different values will not be happy. However, there are a large number of self-esteemed and incompetent B girls in the city for you to choose from, provided that your achievements are also higher, and you can achieve the position of designer or engineer (I don't know much about this), which is definitely worthy of your future achievements.
Hehe, at first glance, it is a person who has not experienced wind and waves, you can send him to the countryside to do farm work for a few days, and it will be good to be tired for a few days, and you will cherish the sweetness when you know that it is bitter, and you will strive for not to be bitter in the future. You can also take him to listen to inspirational lectures and recommend Li Yang's, that kind of madness can hit the heart, shock people, and make people realize.
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