Many times I feel that I am very willful to the people close to me, how can I change it?

I am very willful to the people around me, and I do the same because they have their own trust, they will not betray themselves, and they all believe that they will always be by their side, so they can do whatever they want, and sometimes they will get a lot of people, and they sometimes want to scold me and beat me, but they still endure it because we have a good relationship.

It's not good to be too willful, such a character will make others hateful, destroy our relationship, it's better to be less willful, be polite, know what to do, don't do what you shouldn't do, some words should not be said, it will hurt people's hearts, learn to speak, praise others appropriately, others will be very happy, and you will be very happy to get along with you. <>

Do more things to reassure them, know how to be considerate of others, care about them, once they find something, they must appear in time, have the ability to help, if there is money, they will give some money, money can play a big role in reality, don't be reluctant to give a little money, you can give it.

Sometimes in a certain scene, don't talk nonsense, don't talk too much, say too much, you don't know what to say, you may accidentally say what you think, that kind of thought, you think it's nothing, but others will feel very uncomfortable when they hear it, so it's not good, and then others will hate you, and your life will be miserable.

There are a lot of close people around you are very good, you will not feel lonely, you have to cherish them, these people are also hard-won, there are many people on the road of life who pass by, and never look back, and now there are many people with you, you have to take good care of them, maintain a good relationship with them, I can only say one word, cherish all this, all this is hard-won.

We are all the same many times, giving all our bad temper to the people we love, but sometimes when we think about it, it is precisely because they are close to us that we will present our true selves in front of them. Sometimes you are also unintentional, but at the same time you break the hearts of those who love us, so how to minimize the damage?

First of all, give the other person enough tolerance. Every time you lose your temper, think about it, the person in front of you is the person who loves me, isn't this mentality a little better? Do you still bear to lose your temper, saying that it is to tolerate the other party, but in fact, the person who loves you has endured a lot, and it is better to be calm than anything else

Second, restrain yourself and control your temper. Incompetent people will lose their temper, you have to know that you are no longer a child, you should be able to withstand things, so don't be easy to be willful, because there are some consequences you can't afford.

There is also the ability to divert one's attention. There are too few things to do if you are willful, how can people who are really busy have time to be willful, you can go to read books, listen to songs, exercise and sign up for an interest class. Do you still have time to be willful?

In fact, this is not really to keep you busy, but to improve your mind while passing the leisure time.

Finally, after being willful, we must have the courage to admit our mistakes, and the important task of world peace must be completed by ourselves! Sometimes we will feel that we don't have to be like this after being willful, but because of our own face, we will not take the initiative to seek peace, and our temper has already been released, so we don't necessarily have to admit our mistakes after being willful, and we always have an attitude

Life is not easy, and we are eager to meet warm-hearted people.

We are at home, and we hope to have a warm-hearted lover who thinks of you in everything, speaks in a measured manner, and never makes you angry, how good.

In the unit, there is a warm-hearted group, who don't care about everything, don't laugh or talk, and never talk to you, how good;

Outside, there is a group of warm-hearted people, there are people to help them in everything, everyone is kind, and they never blush with you, how good.

If there is such an opportunity, I am afraid that he will be the happiest person in the world. I would like to be such a person, and I don't think anyone would want to. However, looking back, is he a person who thinks about his lover in everything at home?

I always want my lover to treat myself well, but do I treat my lover well!

The ancients said that respecting each other is like a guest, will you treat your lover Sui Lizhao as a guest? Perhaps, it was okay when I got married for a while, but after a long time, my lover's face became wrinkled, not beautiful, and her speech was vulgar, so I got tired of it.

Quarrels are frequent, and it is not pleasing to anyone's eyes.

So when you ask people to be nice to you, first you have to be nice to people. Those who love rotten rulers love to return, and love is deep when the love is true. On the contrary, complainers complain and ...... when they are distracted

In the unit, you are eager to meet a group of warm-hearted groups, everyone is a group of harmonious, empathetic, do not care about things, the overall amount of others, every day smile at you, never quarrel with you.

But have you done that? Do you give your brightest smile to your colleagues every day?

Do you think about your colleagues and leaders every day? Don't you ever take your guessing out of anger at others?

If so, congratulations, you must be the most popular person and the happiest person.

But the fact is that you always put your emotions on your face, one will be sunny and one will be cloudy, one will be bad, one will be that bad, and you will say right and wrong in front of your colleagues, although it is not a big deal, but it makes people feel that you are always a little wrong, colleagues are alienated from you, and the leader does not trust you, such a day can be called a good day.