What is the right way for friends to get along with each other?

If it's just that there are many kinds of friends, such as friends from childhood to adulthood, acquaintances who talk about everything, and some friends who stay together for a long time because of work and study.

For different friends, we get along in different ways, friends who grew up together, that is, little girlfriends, this kind of person may be the person who has known us for the longest time in addition to his parents, and sometimes this relationship has reached the relationship of relatives. This kind of friend should be honest when we get along, because he is our relatives, we should not deceive them, they are the ones who know you best, even if you tell a little lie, they can know it quickly, so don't lie, treat it sincerely for a longer time.

Knowing what to talk about, sending a little girlfriend is our closest friend, and knowing is the person who can walk into your heart. The rarest thing in life is to know you, because you know the person who knows you best, maybe you don't speak just an expression they all understand what you think in your heart, they may not play with you every day, but when you have something to talk to, he will be the person you want to talk to the most. We don't have to contact each other every day, we just need to accompany him when we need someone to accompany each other, and sometimes we get along with each other, even if they have sad things, we don't need to be comforted, we just need to accompany him, just listen to him talk about his troubles.

For friends who are together because of some environmental factors, this kind of friend is usually a classmate in school, a colleague who is a friendship because of work and study in a place, this kind of friend my advice is to try not to be too communicative, leave some secrets for yourself, such as classmates and friends, you may study a major, you are likely to become a competitor in the future, for a person who may become a competitor is too friendly, if you stand on the opposite side in the future, he can easily hurt you. For example, colleagues, you are already competitors, even if you don't belong to a department, if you are not friendly in the future because of a promotion or some other reason, then they are likely to become a hindrance to your career advancement.

My advice for this kind of friend is to keep a distance as much as possible, don't say too many words that are too confusing, and of course don't know more about other people, just be a friend who can eat together, shop together, and study.

But there are very few people who can grow up with us, and even if there is, they are struggling because of the pressure of life. They can no longer be around us to be crazy and drink and play together. People have a smaller chance of meeting someone who understands them in their lives.

In my opinion, the most difficult thing in this world is the way to get along, to observe words, but also to understand when to say what to say, when it is best not to speak, but also to know how to say a good sentence, this is not something that can be done by reading a book, and it is also the most headache for me.

One of the most headaches is to get along with friends, family he won't worry too much about you, even if you say the wrong thing and do the wrong thing, they will only teach you what to do in the future, but friends are different, if you don't get it right, it will really offend people, friends are not like colleagues, only general friends, that sentence is not good, but in the future, we will work together less, but after all, in a company, everyone looks up and does not look down, and they will not let their faces go over, and they are usually busy with work, and there is not so much time to communicate, So with a little attention, there is usually no problem.

But we do have to keep in touch with friends often, for a city, on the one hand, we have to often make an appointment to meet, eat, go shopping, go out to play, but when we meet, we have to communicate, what to talk about needs to be considered clearly, it is best to talk more about the topics that friends are interested in, if he has encountered something recently, I want to confide in you, you should choose to listen, let friends say, you listen, and then stand in the position of friends to explain or further encourage, A good listener is more likely to gain the favor of the other party, if you don't agree with your friend's approach after listening, you can express your opinion, but you must pay attention to the way you speak, don't be a mess of you who originally came out to enhance the relationship.

There are friends who will inevitably let help, can help those who can help, and those who can't help should also tell each other in time, don't feel embarrassed to be friends, feel that people are embarrassed to refuse since they opened their mouths, such as borrowing money, if you are also very tight, you only need to make it clear to your friends, I believe they will understand, and this money is also within your affordability, in case he can't pay it back for a while, it's good to say, but if he may not be able to change it in his life, Try not to affect each other's feelings because of money.

Also, don't think that you have a good relationship with him and meddle in his private life, this is absolutely not, even if you think you are good to him, but as an adult, he has his own way of thinking, has his own care, you are not him, so it is inconvenient for him to tell you many things, so you have to believe that he can handle his own affairs. Then try to help him whenever he needs your help.

For those who are not in a city, they often contact each other through WeChat, understand each other's lives, and try not to let the relationship between the two people become weaker and weaker because they are not together, now the network is so developed, and the transportation is also very convenient, so maintain this relationship, even if you don't live in a city, you can travel together.

Help when friends are frustrated, don't laugh at them, don't fall into the ground, don't be jealous of blessings when friends are proud, the most important thing to get along with friends is to exchange sincerity, treat friends sincerely, don't take advantage of others' tricks on yourself, and also communicate more and talk more so that the relationship will be better.