Should the husband and wife continue to maintain close contact after divorce? Why?

Whether the husband and wife can contact or keep in touch after the divorce or whether it is normal for us to analyze it according to the actual situation.

First, the ex-wife is divorced and has no children, so it is not recommended to keep in touch with the ex-wife.

<> if the couple does not have children in common, the outcome of the divorce is similar to the outcome of the breakup. In the absence of children, the two are not related by blood.

As long as the property is clearly separated, there is no common language. How to deal with this relationship is divided into two situations.

Do not start a new relationship. If it is good to get together and disperse, and both parties can let go of the divorce, then it is not impossible to treat the divorce as a mutual friend. If you still have an obsession with the other person.

It is advisable not to contact again. This kind of looks like the predecessor"Ambiguous"The connection is very detrimental to the search for new love. Of course, if you want to get back together with your ex, that's another story.

Start a new relationship or family. In this case, it is not advisable to keep in touch with your ex, whether you can forget about it or not. Keeping in touch with your ex is a very sensitive relationship for your current spouse.

It is easy to cause your current spouse to misunderstand you and become anxious about your relationship. The best way to maintain your current relationship is to cut all ties with your ex-wife.

Second, the ex-wife is divorced, but there is a common child, and it is inevitable to maintain normal contact.

When there are no children in a marriage, two people are not related by blood. But when a child is born, an indirect kinship is established between the child's father and mother.

It's a relationship that can't be changed. As a divorced ex-wife, the first thing to do is to face up to this relationship, which is unavoidable. In a sense, it is a kinship.

Of course, the relationship between ex-wives is still a sensitive and delicate relationship, and if it is not handled well, it will affect the relationship with the current one. However, in addition to avoiding suspicion, we also have to fulfill our responsibilities to our children (visitation, upbringing, serious illness, etc.), which will inevitably lead to some necessary contact with our ex-wife, which requires us to do a good job of communicating with our current spouse to minimize the possibility of misunderstanding.

It is important to note that even if you want to contact your ex-wife, you must pay attention to boundaries and proportions. After all, there was a marriage with his ex-wife, who used to be the closest and most familiar person, and even had some feelings after the divorce. A little indulgence at this time will make the current betrayal.

In life, it is not uncommon for you to remarry your ex-wife and become lovers.

In short, after the divorce, the relationship with the ex-wife should be handled correctly and reasonably. If there is no coincidence, try to minimize contact. If you have to contact your ex-wife, you should exercise caution and keep your distance from her as much as possible.

At the same time, communicate well with your current partner to gain her understanding and trust.

You should keep in close contact, although the two people are divorced, but there are children between the two people, you should give the child enough security, so that the child can grow up happily.

No, you don't. Because two people are divorced, there is no need to maintain close contact, they should live their own lives and should have their own lives.

If you don't have children, you don't need to keep in touch, and the two are already strangers. Because if there is a child, the child needs to be taken care of, and the two people must bear the responsibility of raising the child together.

If the couple does not have children between them, there is no need to keep in touch after the divorce, and letting go is the best thing for each other. If you have children, it is still necessary to keep in touch, after all, the healthy development of children is very important. Divorce has caused a lot of damage to the children, and if they hate each other, and let the children not get along with the other party, it will have a very big impact on the children's growth.

The relationship between the two people fell apart, and it was not a momentary thing. This is also formed after a long time of getting along, and the so-called freezing three feet is not a day of cold. Two people enter the palace of marriage with good wishes, but because of various problems in life, there is no way to continue with each other, and many times it is not because they don't love, but because love can't withstand the toss of life.

Since marriage has no way to bring warmth to each other, divorce is the wisest choice for each other, and since divorce has been chosen, the most important thing is to let go. The end of a relationship may be heart-wrenching for each other. Some people may hate each other from love to hate, constantly pestering each other, and may also take revenge on each other.

But constantly pestering each other or protecting each other, this is not unwilling to let yourself regain her life, nor is she willing to let go of herself. It may be very difficult to choose, but people always have to move forward, not based on the past, and only by giving can they gain.

The problem of having children is not so simple, divorce is a very simple thing for adults, and it is also a very common thing, but in the minds of children, a home collapses. What really hurts the child is not because the parents are divorced, but what kind of state the parents are in after the divorce, and what kind of state they are in for the children。It is normal for children to be connected after a divorce.

If the husband and wife can handle the relationship with each other properly after the divorce, the harmful impact of divorce is only a short-term impact on the child, and if it is not handled properly, it may be the biggest shadow for the child's life.

It mainly depends on whether you have children, and if you have children, you still have to keep in touch. But only if you don't disturb the other person's life. And the contact is about the child's situation, and it's better not to say anything else.

After the relationship between husband and wife broke down, you are not used to being together, and I don't like you either. They often quarrel over trivial matters. They are intolerant and understanding of each other.

Even if they are divorced, they are full of each other's faults. If they contact again, it will only increase the disgust on both sides. Therefore, couples are advised not to contact each other after a divorce.

1.If you don't have children, then you can tell clearly, go back to the state of strangers, and don't deliberately touch. Because both parties will have their own new lovers and new circles, this is the most basic awe of divorced couples for marriage, for a good marital state, and for the state of selflessness in the ring after divorce.

Only by maintaining reverence for life, marriage, and family can everyone calmly start a new life. It will not affect later life because of previous relationships.

2.If both parties have children, it is inevitable that they will meet because of the child's problems, but everyone must remember that she is only the father or mother of the child, and it has nothing to do with you. and try to talk about your child's affairs without involving others.

Since everyone has chosen to separate, the previous relationship has also been broken. If the other party has a new friend of the opposite sex or starts a family, pay more attention to the proportion, don't offside, don't compare, a person has given up on you, it's pointless to do all this, it's better to do your part, manage your own life, and play your best. This will also have the most positive impact on the child.

Minimize the impact of divorce on children.

3.If there are children, although marriage does not exist, the responsibility of the children is the responsibility of each parent. Be a responsible parent!

It's not that divorce is irresponsible. If the relationship can't go on, changing the relationship is your biggest responsibility to your children.

If you still can't let go of this relationship, you can try to redeem it, establish a connection between the two parties, give yourself a certain amount of time to improve and change, create a new self, and then contact him and her to improve and change. Attraction, although love fades, but the feeling remains.

I don't think we should keep in close contact anymore, unless we have children who can create a harmonious atmosphere for the healthy growth of our children, and if we don't have children, we should not meet again, because it can make each other feel more comfortable.

It depends. If you have children, you still need to maintain communication and educate your children together. If there is a big contradiction between each other, it is better not to keep in touch, it is a sign of respect for the current one.

If you have children, you can, after all, the child's education and child support need to be discussed together.

Personally, I don't think it's necessary, I'm already divorced, no matter what the reason is, there will definitely be an estrangement, no matter how much contact is useless, the two families have no relationship, if you have children, you should contact, but don't contact if you don't have children. Long pain is better than short pain.

It depends on the situation, such as whether there are children or not!

Two people ended their marriage, and since then they have been classified as strangers, in fact, the best state is to no longer keep in touch, there is no need to contact things, it is best to deal with this relationship like a stranger, after all, it was a husband and wife relationship before, and if you still keep in touch, it is not much good for the two of you to choose a relationship again.

In addition, the reason why I chose to divorce before must be because there are big or small problems with each other to the point where we can no longer continue, so this relationship will be ended, so my personal advice is that couples after divorce should not keep in touch anymore, which is not good for each other, but there is a sense of disconnection, which is easy to misunderstand that you are still entangled with each other.

Because someone may want to find their new relationship again, then if you still keep in touch, this is a kind of disrespect for the newcomer, but also a manifestation of the new relationship, so no matter which aspect is considered, in fact, it is best not to contact the divorced couple, so how to deal with the husband and wife relationship after the divorce, that is actually to see it as the most ordinary friend in their hearts, after all, they knew each other before, if it was a chance meeting, then they can also make a simple greeting, Or a simple greeting, but there's no need to keep in touch or greet unless necessary.

In addition, it is enough to deal with the relationship between husband and wife after divorce without discrediting each other, and there is still a state of mutual respect, which also shows that each other has put down this relationship and does not entangle anymore, which is the best portrayal of the relationship between husband and wife after divorce. After all, it doesn't matter, it is to look at the separation of your relationship with a calm mind, and then do not disturb each other, do not interfere, and from then on there are two people who do not have any relationship, and there is no need to keep in touch, this is the best way to deal with the relationship between husband and wife after divorce, and it is also a more ideal state.

Of course you can Although the two people are divorced, but after all, the two people used to be so sweet together If there is anything, you can still ask each other for help, although you can't be a husband and wife, but you can be friends, you can still contact each other in the future, and you can still ask each other for help if you have any difficulties.

Just don't know each other anymore, and don't interfere in each other's lives. No, this has a great impact on the other party's finding the other half.

It is difficult for the husband and wife to have contact in a short period of time after the divorce, because the husband and wife have just divorced and are still very angry with each other, so it is impossible to contact each other at this time. It's better to still have a while. Between husband and wife, contact each other.

After the divorce, the relationship between husband and wife can be as long as they communicate on an equal footing, they can get along as friends, and the two people can continue to contact, but they must keep their distance and scale.

The two of them can also be regarded as normal friends. Of course, two people can continue to keep in touch, and they can treat each other as friends, although they are divorced, friends can still do.

When you go back, you don't necessarily sleep and ignore anyone, you can continue to contact, after all, the two people have lived together for so many years, and they are still friendly and affectionate. If you have a child, you still need to check on your child.

I think that after the divorce, if there are children to be raised together, it is inevitable to keep in touch because this is to raise the children well, but if the two parties do not have children, then the possibility of contact will be relatively small.

After the divorce, the husband and wife continue to maintain "contact", and often have a bad time, not because of unfinished fate!

Speaking of which, there may be a lot of divorced couples who don't want to admit it, but that's just the way it is. You must know that there are many reasons why two people can get divorced, such as: no love, cold war, long distance, betrayal, domestic violence, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflict, etc.

These reasons are enough to make it difficult for divorced couples to continue to maintain contact, even if one party said: After the divorce, we are still friends, and you can find me if you need help in the future.

Being friends after the divorce and continuing to contact each other is a polite word.

But you know, it's impossible, even if you need help, you won't go to your ex-husband at the first time, but to your current or relatives and friends, and you also understand that what your ex said is just a polite remark, how can you be serious.

are all divorced, and then ask their ex-husbands and wives for help, isn't it just a broken thread?

Some people will deceive themselves into thinking that this is an unfinished fate, thinking that there is still a chance to remarry, but the matter of remarriage is not unilateral, it requires both people to have the intention to remarry, and the contradiction of the previous divorce is fundamentally resolved to have a chance.

After the divorce, the couple should maintain boundaries and avoid misunderstandings between the incumbents.

There are also many divorced couples around me, and their attitude towards their ex-wives is, "You take your single-plank bridge, I will cross my Yangguan Road", and there will be less contact or no contact in the future, except for the children's affairs, don't bother with anything else, after all, they are all divorced, or you still have to maintain a sense of boundaries, and it is not good for you to always cross the line.

If after the divorce, the other half quickly finds a new love, and you always contact and bother, then what will the other party's current person think?

At this time, you have to make a clear line with your ex-husband to avoid the current misunderstanding, what is the misunderstanding?

Misunderstanding that you are still in contact now, it must be that you have broken the thread, and you have not let go, and the current mentality will think that you are a third party, since you are always in contact, then I will simply quit, and you will get back together.

In addition, the above-mentioned divorce is still in contact with the couple, how much the relationship is not tense, and there is a point of relaxation, the reason for divorce may be personality incompatibility, maybe it is Ma Bao, or some contradictory impulse to divorce, but if the reason for divorce of two people is because of the betrayal of the other half (a matter of principle), then this kind of basically will not maintain any contact after marriage.