Are men who remarry after divorce really happy? What do they really think?

There are standard answers to relationship questions! Many divorced people are very concerned about whether they can be happy after remarriage, and they are also eager to know the real feelings of some people who have been there before. However, no matter how good or bad a person is, it is the experience and life of others.

Listening too much can affect your judgment. Maybe you don't want to believe in the relationship after the divorce, and you don't want to hear some remarried couples say that they are not doing well and believe and admit it. I have said a lot about the misfortunes of remarried couples.

Today I will talk about the happiness of remarried couples. For women, they may be more worried and hesitant than men when remarrying. First, I am afraid that I will be disappointed again.

Second, they are biased against divorced men. In fact, some divorced men are very good.

It may be an exaggeration to say that she is spoiled as a little princess, but at least this time she enjoys being a woman. Yes, it's not that couples who remarry won't be happy. It is often the case that we ask too much and want too much.

In fact, as long as you can be understood, tolerated, accommodated, cared for, and loved in marriage, this is already the greatest happiness. What's so good about a divorced man? Let's listen to the real summary of this remarried woman!

is also her true evaluation of her second-married husband!

What's so good about a divorced man? Listen to the real summary of remarried women First, divorced men know how to cherish. Men mature late.

It cannot be ruled out that some men divorce because of their immaturity. However, after the divorce, they seem to have undergone a baptism, and they will understand and know a lot of things. So as to truly shoulder the responsibilities and obligations of a man, and cherish this hard-won marriage even more after remarriage.

Second, divorced men understand women's hearts better. How so? It's an experience too!

At first, men tend to ignore women's feelings and thoughts and don't know what they really need. Once divorced, they begin to truly understand a woman's heart. Third, divorced men are good caregivers.

In his last marriage, maybe he was used to being taken care of and didn't know how to respond to a woman's efforts. After the divorce, I can realize and reflect on my selfishness and learn to take care of and pamper women in my next marriage. And those men who have always known how to take care of women have more experience and ways after remarrying.

Fourth, divorced men know how to manage their marriages better. Most men are rational, and a failed marriage will make them think and recognize a lot of problems. Like many people who don't know how to manage a marriage, after a divorce, they can realize how important it is to manage a marriage, and they can solve problems rationally after remarriage.

Fifth, divorced men are more aware of what they want. Only when people lose once will they know how to cherish and understand what they want. In the first marriage, everyone will inevitably have some "ambition", want everything, get everything, and be too perfectionist.

Never understand what you really want. After a divorce, most men want to live in peace and harmony.

In fact, if they are not happy, their real idea is that they will just live their lives, as long as they have someone to take care of themselves and accompany themselves, it is enough.

In fact, most of the men who divorce and remarry are unhappy, and they all think that it will be good to change the other, but this is not the case.

Personally, I think that many men who marry after divorce will not be really happy, and their real thoughts are not really wanting to divorce, but because the contradictions in marriage have not been resolved, resulting in two people unable to continue.

Many men who remarry after divorce are also happy, and their real thoughts will be that they are afraid that their current wives are the same as their ex-wives, and they are also afraid that the marriage will fail again, so there will be changes.

First of all, it is not that a man after divorce must remarry, it must be 100%, this is not the case, it can only be said that the vast majority of men remarry after divorce. The reasons for divorce and remarriage are as follows. life needs.

The need for a woman in life is the most intuitive. Although more and more men in modern society help share household chores and raise children, in most families, women still play this role in the family. Divorce means that no one is responsible for this part of the housework and child-rearing.

Physiological needs. This point exists objectively, and adult men, and even older men, have physiological needs. Remarrying after divorce and marrying a wife is a more convenient and stable solution to physical needs.

Many men remarry soon after divorce, mostly because of the biological attraction of the opposite sex, or to satisfy sexual needs. Life companionship and spiritual companionship. The need for companionship is especially evident in older men, who get older.

Loneliness, when children are facing life pressure and do not have much time to spend with them, marrying a wife is the most intuitive way to dispel loneliness. The house is empty, I want to have a little popularity, I want someone to talk to, this is a relatively ordinary life need, and I can't suppress it. I have seen some old people, the wife passed away first, they live with their children, they don't have to worry about food and clothing, but the whole person is wooden, sitting for an hour or two, their eyes don't move, this is a very deep loneliness.

Constrained by the ideas of the people around him. In Chinese tradition, the so-called happiness must be the state of a happy family. A family with a husband, a wife, and children can be called complete.

After a man divorces, whether he has children or not, in the eyes of his parents, relatives and friends, your family is incomplete, and you cannot be happy. Therefore, in order to meet the expectations of the people around you who care about you, men will choose to remarry, regardless of whether the remarried marriage is happy or not, but in the eyes of the people around you, at least your family is already complete, and only when it is complete can there be happiness.

In short, whether it is a first marriage or a remarriage, marriage should be cautious. Especially if you remarry once, you have already failed once, and if you are not cautious and thoughtful, you are likely to face a second failure. Remarriage is a personal choice, others have no right to beak, do your best as a son, the responsibility of a father, you who are single again, have the right to pursue your own happiness!

Because this is a need for life, a physical need, and a spiritual need, a man must marry another wife and take care of his own food and daily life.

It is because there must be a woman around the man to take care of his daily life, and if there is no woman around him, the man will become very decadent.

Because many men's self-care ability is very poor, if it is difficult for a man to live after divorce, he will definitely marry a wife.

Because men also need the companionship of their other half and the care of their other half, they can't do without a woman to take care of housework in their lives.

Because if a man after a divorce no longer marries, his life will be very bad and he will regret the divorce.

I want to marry a woman to take care of my life, take care of my daily life, and make my future life happier.

In order to maintain the stability of the family. Because men are ambitious, the family needs a hostess to help with the housework.

That's because they don't want to live alone and want a partner to be by their side.

Because they can also be lonely, they also need a companion who can take care of the household for them.

It's never too late to find the right person.

It's better to be late than never.

Be hopeful and be kind to others.

Divorced and married are also eligible for happiness.

Are you happy to marry a divorced man? Only after getting married do you know that if you don't have common hobbies, have common aspirations, and like each other like this and divorced men, you will be happy after marriage.

As far as I know, there are not many people who live happily after divorce, good men will not marry second marriages, and strong women will not marry second husbands.

In addition, because men are strong, they must have a woman when they get married, and they are more beautiful than a woman and more liked by men.

Because men have money, they can change everything, especially marriage, men have a greater advantage in money, and Shen Kaiqian is a lifelong happiness for men, as long as a man is rich, he must start with his marriage first, looking for a person he admires the most.

Women can't do it, they get married once, once they get old, they are not old, they are not old, as long as they are married, rich men will not reward them.

If a woman has been married once and has children, after the divorce, she is even more difficult to marry with children.

In the past, the parents ordered the matchmaker to say that they would marry a chicken and a dog and a dog.

Nowadays, people pursue a high-quality life, and their feelings are unwilling to settle, and if they have the capital to divorce, they will leave the marriage if they want to.

In the past, marriage depended on fate, and the current partners were all chosen by themselves, why did they still jump and fight after marriage? Is it because we chose the wrong one? Would it be nice to change one?

With dissatisfaction with the status quo and expectations for the future, many people choose to divorce, but are they happy after divorce? Has the original problem been solved? None of the same.

Since you are divorced, you have found your own happy lifestyle, and since you have left, you should be quiet and live your own life!

If you are unhappy, you will divorce, and after divorce, you will only be happy and happy.

Life after divorce may be better, and the chances of happiness are greater.

Here's why:

First, after the divorce, the economy is independent, and there will be no more conflicts over economic issues. There are many reasons for divorce, and some of them may be due to financial problems. When the economy is independent, the financial power will be theirs.

You can use your money however you want, and you can buy whatever you want.

Second, after the divorce, his personality can be brought into full play, and his habits of life are free. I will no longer be angry because of the difference in my three views. You can do whatever you want with your lifestyle and habits, and you don't have to look at other people's eyes.

Eat as much as you want, drink as much as you want, and take a journey that you can take as soon as you go, and you can achieve it immediately.

The third is that after the divorce, if you want to love, you will love, and your feelings may have a good home. Because I once loved, because I once hated, after all, it has passed, and there is no good ending. Now is your chance, take advantage of it!

When you meet someone who is destined, love boldly! Enjoy life!

Therefore, there is no need to regard divorce as so important, do what you should do, cherish the people in front of you, cherish the things around you, and embrace life with a positive and sunny attitude, so that you will have more happiness and joy; There is no need to immerse yourself in the grief of divorce all the time, it is not worth it, whether it is because of the person you can't forget, or those things you can't forget, you shouldn't continue to dwell on it.

We should continue to stride forward with our heads held high, why are we stagnating in one place when the road of life is so long. If you have been stagnant, you will miss out on other scenery on the road of life, and there are better people and better things waiting for you ahead.

The road of life is long, what kind of people and things you meet, it is very possible, you may meet someone unladylike and lead to the failure of marriage, but you can't take this as the end of your life, you have the right to continue to pursue your own happiness.

In this way, when you meet someone you like more, you will have the ability to get acquainted with him, and don't be decadent, so that you will miss your own happiness again; If a man is divorced, there is no need to be discouraged, thinking that he is not capable, in fact, you are really just not suitable, not on the same channel.

You should make more money, drink less and smoke less, exercise and improve your ability to attract better women to you. Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower.

Men can also find true love after divorce, and it is right to be confident in life.

If you find a good woman, it is possible, and if you can't find it, it won't be it, mainly depends on the man's personal conditions, economic situation, if nothing works, which good woman will find a second marriage.