If the relationship between the two is like this, they should not be together

Quarrel with this thing. At different times, on different objects. There are always different results.

For friends, quarrels are called quarrels.

For lovers, a quarrel is called a breakup.

For people who are already married, a quarrel is called divorce.

Perhaps, your relationship has always been misaligned.

It is because you are good to you that you can't get over it in your heart, so you decide to look everywhere, which can be regarded as a reward for his behavior.

He should like you very much, but he may not have noticed the gap between you.

It's soon, it's almost time, I'm going to decide to get married, but I suddenly feel that I can't cross it.

Maybe it was too hasty.

You have all tried to change, but it is still the warmth that exists on the surface.

And what about your hearts. Maybe it's still a murmuring ravine.

Getting married is a very, very important thing.

Don't be ashamed, don't be reluctant to do things.

and ruined your days for decades to come.

Think about it, if you continue to absorb it, get married, and maybe have children.

This is very happy in the eyes of others.

Because you are good at disguise.

And what about the heart, emptiness, regret.

Do you want a divorce?

Consider, or take the long term.

If you come up and ask a question, you may receive a different question, but I still think that maybe it is in the things you said.

There are also some that are not expressed, that cannot be expressed.

So, it is advisable for you, to tell your friends, to your parents.

Let them decide for you and let them help you refer to it.

After all, the people around you know you better than the people on the Internet.

Remember, love is a matter for two people

The two of them have to accommodate each other

You can't be self-centered

That hurts the other person and hurts you at the same time

Why bother? That's your case

Whatever you lose, you should work hard for your future

Don't lose your temper

Hope mine is helpful to you

What don't I understand.

Who knows Yu Chou.

It's not that you don't love it, it's that you're too tired, and no matter how good your character is, it's hard to chase you for a lifetime

You chose him because he had been good to you in the first place, and all you need is to be loved and cared for.

Now his attitude is different. There are many reasons for this, such as losing patience after getting along for a long time or having a third party intervene.

But no matter what the case may be, you should not wronged yourself, or you will definitely regret it in the future. Whether it's worth it or not, only you can weigh the gains and losses.

Now that he doesn't accommodate you, you want him to accommodate you. But it often backfires. Shouldn't you be wary of yourself, why is this happening?

Are you in love with him now? So you care about his attitude towards you, you are afraid of losing ... That's too bad, you go from being a queen to a commoner, and if you continue like this, you might still be reduced to a slave, right?

Adjust your beer!

Adjust your temper at the right time.

The personality is not very compatible, if you really love each other, you must know how to give in and tolerate, the most important thing is communication, love to death but can't express it correctly, and in the end you will definitely lose both.

Most people's first reaction will be that it is too quick to determine that the relationship will not last long, but whether the relationship can last for a long time actually has a lot to do with whether the two people are both careful to manage the relationship. The disagreement of two people's views also plays a decisive factor, and if one party does not have a strong ability to solve problems, then the relationship will not last long. How can you manage a relationship for a long time?

1. Common progress, two people want to manage their feelings well, they must have a sense of common progress, if two people do not progress together, then the party that makes rapid progress will get rid of the other party who is standing still, one person is moving forward, the other party is not moving in place, the gap between the two people is getting bigger and bigger, and the distance will become farther and farther, which is not conducive to the development of feelings.

2. Don't be too filial and dependent on each other, even if you love that person again, you are an independent person first, love yourself first, and then love each other. Have your own independent personality, no matter how much you can handle all aspects of your life, you can handle it well.

3. Trust each other and learn to give yourself a sense of security. In many things, leaving the choice to the other party will have unexpected gains. If you restrain the other person in everything and let the other person do what you want, so that you can feel at ease, it is a big mistake.

Some things can never be controlled, and they will only add unnecessary contradictions to the two of you.

Defining a relationship too quickly can reduce the value in the relationship of one of the partners. Two people do not know each other deeply enough, which will lead to crossing the adaptation period and directly entering the love period, and the conflict outbreak of the later breakup contradiction will also come extremely quickly, burying a deep hidden danger for the breakup or the breakdown of the relationship, at this time, we must make a careful decision based on the actual situation of the other party. Therefore, it is generally recommended that you can take your time in the process of establishing a romantic relationship and not be too rushed.

There is a need for a run-in between two people, and it does not mean that the relationship is determined from the beginning. However, there are also those who were determined to be related from the beginning, after all, it is less.

Feelings need to be gradual and gradual, too fast, there may be a lot of things that are not clearly understood, once the relationship is determined to be high, there may be a very sharp blind and mostly contradictions and small problems, need to understand each other's various things.

When people get along with each other, it is inevitable that various problems will arise, but in fact, they are not afraid of problems. Because this in itself is a very normal phenomenon. The key is how to deal with the problem, or how to deal with some problems after the relationship problem occurs.

Once there is a problem of emotional rift, there are two outcomes, one is to reconcile, and the other is to break up directly. If you want to reconcile, you must boldly reach out to the other person to express your intentions. If there is a mistake, learn to admit it.

Only correct communication can effectively avoid emotional rifts. And be decisive. Because there are too many variables in the process of hesitation.

Don't beg too much. In fact, no matter who is right or wrong, don't put yourself in a relatively low state when choosing an emotional rift, admit your mistakes if you are wrong, and don't beg from the other party too much. Because no affection is obtained by begging, but both parties need to be well managed.

Begging too much for the other person will make the other person feel completely unworthy of love. Don't pay too much attention to the other person's every move. Because, in the process of getting along with others, you can pay attention to the details of the other party, especially after the quarrel, but don't pay attention to the other party's every move too much, and even don't let go of the clues, your heart will be particularly uncomfortable.

This is also not conducive to the recovery of the relationship between the two.

It's really not easy to find someone who likes you or someone you like in the vast sea of people, but after two people become lovers or husband and wife, they must cherish each other. After all, it is not easy for two people to be together, and if they can achieve positive results, they are more likely to have emotional problems, so don't magnify it, try to shrink it, turn big things into small things, and guess the same applies in the process of emotional management. Emotional management is not an overnight thing, but requires the joint efforts of two people.

Managing feelings is actually like striking iron, especially to learn the right way, everyone is a primary school apprentice on the road of emotional management. In the process of studying, you must study hard to avoid some misunderstandings. This can reduce a lot of trial and error on the road of two people's feelings, and make the relationship between two people stronger.

So you have to relax and learn to deal with some problems correctly. It is not terrible to suffer from conflicts, but it is more important to learn to deal with various things correctly. If it is not handled well, there will be a rift in the relationship.

Let the feelings be less separated, and make the feelings more warm. So that two people can get along for a long time.

There is the possibility of reconciliation, because two people can't avoid friction in getting along, but there is an emotional foundation, and reconciliation can be solved through communication.

I think it's possible. As long as two people still have each other in their hearts, it is possible that they will continue to be together.

Yes, because there is no problem with the relationship between the two people, it may just be that the way they get along is not quite right.

1. It may be that you are used to the previous relationship of friends, and you suddenly want to change to a lover relationship, and you feel a little uncomfortable.

2. You may also feel that you don't like or don't like each other very much, and you insist on dating as lovers, which is a bit contrary to your inner thoughts.

3. In addition, I am not used to falling in love and feel uncomfortable in the face of love.

This may be because the relationship is usually good, and each other knows their shortcomings, and because it is not a formal boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, they don't care much about each other. Once you develop into a boyfriend and girlfriend, some things can't be willful and casual, such as relationships with other members of the opposite sex can no longer be intimate because you have to be responsible for each other. Otherwise, the relationship between the two is not an awkward problem, and it is very likely that they will face a breakup, and they will not even have to be friends at that time.

When you are not together, you are in the stage of good brothers, you can know everything, and you can flirt with each other, once you are together, your goal will be achieved, the topic will be reduced, and your face will be thin.

It's not necessarily, but if the two of you like each other, I don't think it's a particularly embarrassing thing.

It's okay if the two have a very good relationship together, but if the relationship is very average, then don't be together, after all, there is no chance to have a good relationship.