What do my parents think? Will people with a stable income necessarily give me happiness?

Updated on healthy 2024-07-28
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    It can be seen that you love him very much, and the two of you have also experienced ups and downs together! Family care can sometimes be like a cage for you! Man is a higher animal, thoughtful and intelligent!

    Thirty years to the east of the river, thirty years to the west of the river"But your life's work cannot wait for the day when he becomes famous, and I believe that love is great and the most powerful tool to persuade your family! I wish there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    The people in the family must want you to live a happy life, and their mood is understandable.

    But their feelings aren't necessarily right. So you should work hard to prove that you are happy together, and he is doing his best to give you happiness, I think your family will definitely not break up your happiness, they still want you to be happy. Try to prove with your actions, don't go to extremes, otherwise good things will become bad, don't leave regrets for yourself, and don't leave regrets for others.

    Good luck! :)

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    As long as you really want to love, as for the future life, I think since he loves you, he will definitely take care of you, and will work hard and earn money for your family. Love is not good without a material foundation, and your family is not bad, so you should respond to your family's attitude with actions. Bless you both!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Anyway, money is a great help for the quality of life, and you have to admit this, since the conditions are not yet ripe, it is recommended that you wait until you get married, and when your boyfriend has more money, it will be easier to do work.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I bless you all. You have to listen to your parents, but you also have to be skillful to make them accept your ideas. I believe that such a self-motivated and capable boy, parents will not bear to refuse, come on.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Personally, I feel that I like someone and I do want to take it for myself, but sometimes after I have tried and worked hard, it may be the best choice to make the other party happy if it is impossible.

    Everyone will find the other half of the circle that belongs to him in this world, and there is an opportunity to fight for, but forcing it is not necessarily happy.

    Whether the other party is worth your effort, try not to give up. Bless you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Is it that you love her too much and feel that if she has a fixed income, it means that she doesn't rely on her, and you have a sense of fear, afraid of losing her, so you will be unhappy. That's because you care about her too much. There is also the fact that you are machismo, thinking that a woman should be raised by a man, and she has a fixed income, and you don't look good.

    Believe in yourself, since you love her, you have to think about her everywhere, you should be happy for her, the main thing is to believe in your feelings, believe that you are the best, and you will have no worries.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you like someone, you should respect her choice, not to mention that she has a regular income, that is to say, she has a job she likes, you should be happy and blessed for her!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Oh, don't think about it, it's nothing, it's that you're thinking too much, it means you're mature again.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Change yourself and expand your circle of friends.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Be what you love, be true and happy. Believe in the future.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think I should work and do some more stable work, go out when I have time, and relax with friends.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't know, 22's love blindness floated by

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, you must treat yourself as a normal person, and you can submit a resume for positions that do not have special requirements in the society for your own major. If you are rejected, it is a normal thing, and it is not uncommon for normal people to be rejected. I think there are still units willing to accept it.

    Secondly, not many jobs are very high wages at first, at first they get a very ordinary salary, first find a job, and then seek development, and the salary will be gradual.

    Finally, you can also get in touch with your local Disabled Persons' Federation to see if they can help you make a recommendation.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    People with disabilities in society are generally not given very high wages. Unless you have a strong specialty. The general unit of the disabled does not like to ask for it.

    Even if they are exempted from a part of the tax, they don't like to ask for it. If you don't have a good job search, go to the local disabled persons' federation and ask them to help you, but they may not be able to help, and you may not have a good job to do. I'm hard of hearing, but it's difficult, I rely on my own, and the state is very inactive in this regard.

    I mean, it's good that you have faith and hope for the future, but sometimes, you still have to face the ruthlessness and cruelty of reality. You have to learn to be strong.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Your hukou is **, what major do you study? If you can, come to our company.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    As long as you have the ability, it should be fine!!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Improper work is higher than yours, and work is not just a matter of words. It's not a one-step climb. Take your time in everything....Even if your family needs money a lot, you should take it one step at a time, otherwise you will hurt yourself...Believing in yourself is the best....Come on!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It depends on how many years of work experience you have...

    Many salaries have 3500

    But you're also worth the price.

    It depends on what you will do and what kind of work experience you have.

    And then it's a matter of looking for a job, and if you really can't survive, you see if you can find a job during the day, and then go for a job at night, and work a double job.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There is no salary to start with.

    How much do you have to educate? What is your level of foreign language? How many certificates do you have?

    Wait for the decision, let's be down-to-earth, it's very hard at the beginning.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    3500 is hard a month, it's really hard, if you don't have a high level of skill.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It depends on what education you have and what skills you have......

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Happiness is not measured by money, even if he has money, if he doesn't love you, then you will never be happy, I think as long as he truly loves you, you will be happy, because even if he is suffering, he will suffer himself, and he will never let you be wronged.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Ideally, you should not care about money, but that is not realistic, two people together even if they love each other and drink the northwest wind every day is not good, from a realistic point of view, one to two times in the early stage, slowly develop, after marriage, it is good to have savings every month.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's not right to say that upstairs, feelings are based on materials. Without a material foundation, it is difficult to maintain a relationship. The world is too realistic.

    It must be that our lives are not a matter of two people. Of course, it is a good thing to love and get married, but there are a few couples who are happy because of love and do not have a good material foundation for marriage. There must be no love in life.

    If the salary is several times higher, you don't need it, if the girl is more powerful, it is difficult for you to be several times that of him. It's okay to be a little better than him.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Happiness has nothing to do with money. The poor can be happy, but many rich people are not.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't be fooled by money, two people who are safe and happy together is the greatest happiness.

    More money has more money to spend more money, less money has less money and less happiness can not be compared.

    People are more angry than people. As long as two people are happy, it is a blessing!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There's no end to it, it's better that you're the big boss and then captive a whole bunch of mm

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Do you think love is measured in money?

    Wrong, sharing weal and woe, this is happiness

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Happiness doesn't have to be material!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    What do you still have the mood to do when your energy is overdrawn Poor days are not necessarily unsweet If there is only one apple You give him half or all of it He is touched Isn't it very happy You watch him eat the only apple Are you satisfied If there are many apples that you can't eat Oh my God, that's unfortunate.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Being busy at work will definitely affect the family.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    China and the United States are okay, and the salary is okay, but it's a little ......

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Happiness is determined by one's own mentality, and family harmony is also a kind of happiness.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    First of all, you have to be confident, to have courage, and then to figure out how others act, pay may not be successful, but there must be a lot of gain, seek shortcuts, and successful people, you will get twice the result with half the effort.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Some things don't pay off for hard work, and my opinion is that you don't pay too much attention to the results, as long as you find the right direction, or what you like to do, then do it well, God rewards hard work, even if there is no reward you want, the process is also a kind of gain.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Change your mindset and many problems will be solved.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Of course, there is no conflict between love and physical defects, of course, normal parents want their children to live well, so their thoughts will be understood when you become a mother or father. Now the best thing for you is to do the ideological work of being parents, and when the raw rice is ripe, they will accept it (hehe, bad idea). But it's better to wait until your parents agree to get married, after all, a marriage without the blessing of your parents is a lifelong regret, and you think about it, if it brings pain to your family, even if you get married, you will quarrel because of it.

    Three or four later.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I think it's painful under normal circumstances, because the world will think that they are not a good match, and if two people ignore the world's views after marriage, it's nothing, and once one of them has soft ears, it's painful.

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