Please tell me about my unhappy marriage?

Do you really think that the money you gave her is enough to live, and there should be a reason why a woman can leave her so young child and run away. Why is it always your dad who takes the lead to solve the affairs of your little one, is it your dad who manages your economy? If you really think that you are not a stingy man, divorce it.

I can't understand what you think of a holy marriage Such a woman doesn't want to live with you at all, she doesn't understand you at all, she doesn't love your family at all, why do you still marry her, everything has a cause and effect, but what is done is done, and what is wrong is also let it pass, if you feel that you can't support it now, then divorce But I think she should not hesitate or ask for some money.

No way, I think it's still you who do it yourself, who told you to just want to find a reproductive tool, you must only be looking at whether the other party can give birth, why haven't you seen anything else, from before getting married, you should have understood that she and her family are money first, why still jump into the fire pit, maybe she can make as much as she can now, even if she is divorced, she can find another home and continue to fish.

There is too much difference in your outlook on life and values, you should be a person who values family affection, but she lacks this feeling, just ask a person who abandons his children for money and disobeys his elders, how can you continue with her. Isn't it a blessing to let go!

This woman seems to love money more than you.

Your statement shows that you are tired.

Why go wrong again.

It may be so unhappiness. Divorce is over.

Leave! What's going on? Is it called living? Dump her! There are good women in the world.

How can there be such a thing, are you getting married in a flash, you haven't found anything before? Don't want such a woman

The so-called happy marriage, in the final analysis, is nothing more than understanding and mutual understanding in ordinary life. Marriage needs to nourish each other, and the best state for husband and wife is to be able to understand each other's difficulties, and when the other party makes a mistake, they can take into account each other's feelings first, rather than abusing and blaming. After all, bad things have happened, and blaming, anger, and blaming will not solve the problem in the slightest, but only make the other person more self-blaming and uncomfortable.

In case of trouble, he will only blame, not only can not make the partner avoid making mistakes, but will arouse the emotions of the other party and affect the relationship between husband and wife;

And choosing to comfort when a partner makes a mistake can not only reduce the partner's sense of self-blame, but also impress the partner more, and the relationship between the husband and wife is more harmonious.

Your attitude when your partner makes a mistake is the litmus test of your relationship.

If you accuse aggressively, the marriage will be crushed in an instant; If you put yourself in your shoes, your marriage will last for a long time.

The partner I chose showed that I was very satisfied at that time. If you often blame your partner, doesn't that mean that you have no vision and are incompetent? In fact, in life, especially between husband and wife, blaming each other is the most hurtful.

If there is a problem, it is often not a one-person problem. Mistakes are never just one person. Between husband and wife, less blame, more encouragement, more tolerance, and more responsibility, the days will become more and more harmonious, and happiness will knock on the door.

No matter how many difficulties you encounter, you should learn to digest them yourself, you should learn to take responsibility, and strive to keep the best side for your family, so that the family will be happy.

The best education for families is to lead by example. If you want your children to educate well, you must work hard to do well, become excellent yourself, and make yourself a good role model. When children have problems, they often have problems first, which is often the result of the subtle influence of the family.

Therefore, reflect on yourself more and set a good example for your children. Giving your children more encouragement is much more effective than blaming.

Before I got married, I was a simple and beautiful girl, a slender girl with ten fingers that didn't touch the spring water. I met a man and I thought I would be happy if I gave the rest of my life to him. So I happily married myself and dedicated my love without reservation.

But the days after marriage are really different from what I imagined, my efforts are not rewarded, I can't get the favor of men, just like flowers have not been watered and wilted a little bit. My heart is like falling into the abyss, and every day is cold.

I hated myself for being so innocent and scheming. My parents raised me too well and made me gentle and virtuous, but they didn't teach me how to resist the bad guys and how to become scheming to fight for greater benefits for myself. My marriage is depressing, there is no warmth, only I am giving every day, constantly doing housework and taking care of the children, and the cycle repeats, and there is no hope.

And the man who said he wanted to love me for the rest of his life, when he came home, he lay down like his master, except that he couldn't do anything, and he had to keep finding faults, which he didn't do well, and the child didn't take care of it. I hate him, I hate him, why does it become like this when I get married, men don't cherish it even if they get it.

I've had a lot of noise, and it didn't work, he'll never realize his fault, he'll always have a good idea. Later, I didn't bother to quarrel with him, so I carried everything myself. The former girl has become the current yellow-faced woman, which is what marriage brought to me.

I never thought that my marriage would bring me such misfortune, and I never thought that I would live such a life one day. I miss the simple and beautiful me that used to be, and I haven't seen the world when the world was cold and the people's hearts were cold and warm. Now I have been through so much, my heart is no longer fragile and can withstand critical blows, but I don't like me now, and I am no longer the original me.

If I had known that marriage would bring me so much misfortune, I would rather never marry for the rest of my life.

1. Is it fate to have a bad marriage1, according to the older generation, if the married life is not very smooth, it means that it is destined, what is your numerology, and what is the fortune of this person's life, which cannot be changed. 2. Now young people don't pay so much attention to the superstitions of the past, and the marriage is mainly caused by the inconsistency of the three views of the two people, and the inconsistent personality and temper, if you want to solve these problems, you can also do it, but you need to make sacrifices for each of them. Therefore, is the marriage that everyone consults predestined, in the current young people's thoughts, it is actually not destined, and as long as the marital life feels depressed and painful, everyone will choose to divorce and dissolve the marriage relationship between the two, maybe the married life can be happy after finding a new partner.

2. How to resolve people who have a bad marriage 1. If you calculate that your marriage is not very smooth through numerology, then it is recommended that you choose to marry later, which can play a role in resolving it, because older people are more mature in their thinking and will be cautious when making decisions. 2. You can combine feng shui to resolve the unhappiness in your marriage, for example, you can place a mascot in the bedroom, and you can consult a feng shui master about which mascot to place, and you can also give birth to a baby to resolve it. 3. You can also change the location of your residence, under normal circumstances, you can choose a southern house, and then place a mascot in the bedroom, which can resolve the unhappiness in the marriage.

4. If the husband and wife are not in harmony, the two should sit down and communicate well, see what the specific reasons for the discord are, and then solve the problem. There is no one right or wrong in married life, the two have to work together for the sake of married life, pay together, when holding a wedding, I believe everyone has made a vow, will be good to each other, care about each other, since the commitment, then to do.