I like cats very much, and I gave it away after 4 years, what should I do if I am so sad?

Even in your description, I feel that a cat who has been with you for four years is more like an old friend who has been with you for four years, because of his sudden death, you will feel that you have lost a partner in your life, sad and sad, this emotion is worth understanding, if it is particularly uncomfortable, you can also try to talk to others more, or find a quiet place to cry.

In fact, we are not veterinarians, or an all-round person, for the sudden death of the cat around us, what we can do is to try our best to do what we should do, and why the cat died suddenly, whether it is because of your behavior caused it to lose its life further, this is not reasonable.

Actually, you blame the cat's death on yourself, but in fact, you think more about what if I do? She may live, but people and everything in the world are moving towards one goal, and that is death. What you need is to slowly make yourself uncomfortable, maybe after a long, long time, you still can't accept the death of your partner who you get along with day and night, but, at least you won't have a lot of guilt.

If you want to commemorate him and let him stay in your heart forever, you can try to build a memorial for him that belongs to you and him, or a small book, or a separate space between you and him. The day of his departure can be regarded as a day of remembrance, and you can think about him every day, but you don't need to think about it for too long, so that you can have time to remember him. It is to slowly ease and express your emotions.

You can try to go outside more and do more things you can, such as helping some of his kind to make his life better in heaven. We will experience welcoming a new life, watching him grow up, keeping each other company, watching them grow old, and finally leaving this world under our watchful eye. We will do our best to accompany them and take care of them, and at the same time we will learn to separate.

I think you can think about this matter from a different angle, maybe the family that took over the cat also loves the cat as much as you, and under their care, the cat will grow up very well. So, if you think that after the cat left you, it didn't lose your love for it, but gained the love of another family, you won't be so sad.

After 4 years of having a cat, you will have a lot of affection for him, and this is when you should make self-adjustments. If you have time, you can also check it out.

Alternatively, find another animal, such as a puppy to take home, so that your joy will offset the sadness.

After raising it for a long time, you will have feelings, so don't send it away.

Since you have raised it, it is recommended that you should stick to it, in fact, it is also a kind of good fate to meet, you are sincere to the cat, it knows. I chose to get a cat in the first place, not because I like cats very much, but because there are rats in the place where I work, and I am very afraid of mice, so I can't help it, so I adopted a kitten and came back.

Raising and raising, unconsciously, will pay a lot of love, unconsciously give it the best food, give it the most comfortable to live, eat and drink Lazar are taken care of, my family said, I take care of cats than take care of them much better. In fact, if you get along with cats for a long time, love will overflow, go to the supermarket to see if there is any good canned food, and go to the market to think about buying chicken breast for them.

After getting along with cats for a long time, people have become much gentler. It's not so much that we're taking care of cats, it's actually making us better versions of ourselves at the same time.

Benefits of having a cat:

It is like the pistachio of life, with an innate magic that can always pass on joy to those around you.

Domestic cats have slowly become the first choice for pets at home, especially in cities, where more and more people have cats.

Owning a cat can regulate the pace of life and relieve stress.

The main group of cat owners is "office workers", and the busy pace of life and a single life routine will make life very depressing.

Cats are like regulators of life, making black and white life full of color ......When you have cats in your life, you don't have to deal with empty rental houses alone.

Having a cat can make you more attractive and have a relationship with the opposite sex.

There are generally more girls who have cats, and fewer cats that boys have.

When a boy with a cat communicates with a girl, he will be more topical and easy to get along with.

According to a survey by the World Cat Lovers, more than 80% of women think that boys who have cats are more attractive.

Having a cat will make you more disciplined and better.

Having a cat will make you no longer lonely, it will always be there for you.

Cats are excellent companion pets, and although they are quiet, they will always be by your side.

Although a cat is not as enthusiastic as a dog and knows how to please its owner, its emotions will be more delicate.

The cat can read the changes in the owner's mood, and when you are down, it will do its best to comfort you.

If the cat that has been raised for a long time is sent away, it will miss the owner, and when it sees the owner again, it will take the initiative to rub the owner and spoil the owner. If the cat has not been raised for a long time or has a not very clingy personality, it may not miss the owner after sending it away, because the feelings for the owner will not be very strong.

If the cat has been raised for a long time and has a good relationship with the owner, it will miss the owner after sending it away, and this emotion will affect the cat deeply, resulting in its poor appetite, poor spirit, and lack of activity.

When the longing owner reappears, the cat will take the initiative to run over and rub the owner, spoil the owner, and become very clingy. At this time, you can soothe the cat, pet and hold it more, and don't ignore its feelings.

If the cat is not raised for a long time and is given away, or the cat is usually not too clingy, then it will not miss the owner very much after sending it away, because their feelings for the owner are not very strong, and there is not much emotion after leaving the owner.

Sending the cat away will make the cat sad.

It's usually sad. The cat's personality is scattered and more delicate and sensitive, although it is also a solitary animal, but it will also establish a deep friendship with the owner after living with the owner for a long time. When the owner sends it away, it may not show a very noticeable state of sadness like a dog.

But it's actually more hurtful. It's just that it doesn't show it outwardly.

Giving your cat to someone else can lead to hunger strikes, becoming aggressive, insecure, and running away from home.

1. Hunger strike. Many cats will not eat or drink because they are not used to it or are sad because they are not used to it.

2. Not friendly to the new owner. After sending the cat away, many cats will become very irritable after being sad, and may also have aggressive behavior, which is not very friendly to the new owner.

3. Escape. Some cats still think about the old owner and want to find the old owner, but when they arrive at the new home, they can't adapt to the new environment, so they want to run away and change their purity.

4. Damaged self-esteem. A cat is an animal with strong self-esteem, and if you give it away, the cat will think that it is not good enough and be abandoned.

5. Stress reaction. Cats are very prone to stress reactions, if you give it away for no reason, then it will have a stress response because of the unfamiliar environment and things, and the heart is also very insecure.

Sending the cat away can be sad.

In particular, cats that have been slow to recognize their new owners will feel sad with their original owners. The cat mind is not as rich as the big cat, it is easy to adapt to the new environment, it is recommended to adopt a cat, better choose the kitten, you can better cultivate feelings with the kitten, so that the cat gradually depends on the cat owner.

If you only have a kitten for three or four weeks and send him away, the kitten will not be too sad, because after all, I haven't been with you for a long time.

Yes, the kittens of three or four weeks old are still very dependent on the cat mother, too small.

Is it sad to give away a kitten that has been raised for three or four weeks? Cats who know are also emotional.

<> if the cat has feelings for the owner and sends the cat Cong Song away, it will also be sad, and it may be that Zheng Yi will ignore the new owner and be not interested in food and toys. But if the cat is not familiar with the stove seller, even if it changes the season, the cat will not react, and it will be able to adapt quickly.

If the cat has feelings for the owner and sends the cat away, then the cat will also be sad. If the cat is not familiar with the original fushimoto, even if it changes to a new environment, the cat will not react, and it will be able to adapt quickly.

In fact, this has a lot to do with the cat's personality, if the cat's personality is more optimistic and cheerful, adaptable, able to accept new things, after giving away, it will soon be able to adapt to the new owner and new environment. After giving the cat away, if the owner of the new home is very patient and gives the cat enough care, then the cat will soon be able to pass the adaptation period, and the future will be happier and happier, the key is to find a reliable owner.

If the cat is unhappy at the original owner's house, has been ostracized by other cats, or has been slow to let go of its guard, then sending it away may be a relief for the cat.

Other situations

If the cat is having a good time at the original owner's house, it is best not to send it away. Because it is already familiar with the original owner, and its original living environment, it likes a stable cat, and it will make the cat very sad to send it away suddenly. This kind of cat enters a new environment, it will take a long period of adaptation, and at this time it will be very restless, anxious, if there are other cat members, it may be excluded, causing it to have a stress reaction, in severe cases, the cat will be depressed.

After many cats are given away, they will not eat or drink because they are not used to it or are sad. After many cats are sad, their temperament will become very irritable, and they may also attack people, which is not very friendly to their new owners. Some cats still think about their old owners and want to find their old owners, but when they arrive at their new homes, they can't adapt to the new environment, so they want to run away.