My first love, a long distance relationship, what it s like to be in a long distance relationship ab

Updated on psychology 2024-07-20
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Hehe, you're just like me: first love plus long-distance relationship. But we're not relatives, we're not familiar friends.

    He met me through a friend of mine (it's actually kind of like online dating) and I broke up with him the other day because I realized I didn't really like him, so I didn't want to play with him. At the beginning, I agreed to date purely for fun, and I felt that the long-distance relationship was very romantic

    Judging from what you have said, it may be that you have more feelings for him than a particularly deep love. If you really like him, you will feel very sweet and enjoy it as you said, "first love will have a wonderful feeling". You'll love to see him and worry about him without news from him

    In addition, he never takes the initiative to call you, it may be that he doesn't really love you, or it may be because he is a very conservative boy. I think you should calm down and think about whether you really love each other.

    I think love and marriage should be seen separately. You can't fall in love just because you're married, and you can't see love as an obligation. Falling in love is a feeling, and you must find what you like, so that you will feel that the process is enjoyable

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Keep the emotional connection But the appropriate choice to be with the people around you If you still have deep feelings for him, it means that you are sincere, but don't be responsible for the people around you, in this way, if you are still together after experiencing other relationships, you will be more experienced and will cherish each other more, because the general first love can not have a result because of no experience, or feel that you have not experienced other feelings and are unwilling, in this case, the problem can be solved.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Distance and test love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's a test for you, and if you two really love each other and are willing to give, just wait

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Let it be, I'm thinking too much now, and it's not too late to talk about breaking up when I really can't talk about it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I feel bad when I see a long-distance relationship.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    That's good. It's better to be newlywed after a long absence. Brothers. You've earned it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Let's take one step at a time.

    Don't overthink it now.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Forget it. It's too idle.

    I don't even have time to think about it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    [Manage emotions and be a stubborn grass] The three difficulties of getting along in a long-distance relationship, desolation, worry and helplessness. These three conditions are easy to produce and the most intuitive. But when you figure out the meaning of the current long-distance relationship, you will bring yourself stronger beliefs.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Personally, I'm not very optimistic about long-distance relationships, I'm not hitting you when I say this, long-distance relationships don't produce beauty because of distance, and slowly two people won't like it, this is a very real problem.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It can be difficult to endure the first love in a different place, especially when one person is sick and one person is eating, and at this time, the two people need to communicate more.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    First love is a long-distance relationship, which is a feeling of unhappiness, watching others in pairs, I feel very bitter in my heart and want to cry.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's a painful feeling to be in a long-distance relationship for the first time, with others holding hands and strolling around the campus while I just watch others thinking about us.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The first love is a long-distance relationship, this feeling is not very good, I can't feel the warmth of love, and I can't enjoy the romance of the moon before the flower.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    My boyfriend and I met in college, and he only confessed to me at the end of the semester, and we are also in a long-distance relationship, although I will miss him very much, but I still think it is very beautiful.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I feel a little hard, I also feel a little helpless, when I want to see him, I want him to accompany me, to take care of me, but he can't come to me.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's more difficult to accept, think about it in the future, only have a mobile phone to accompany you, it's better to find a new one, and be by your side can also promote each other's feelings.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's a little difficult, but it's still quite fun, although the two of them are in different places, but they can still chat online, and it feels good.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If he had just started playing with friends, I don't think he would have understood women.

    The heart of a child, my first love is the same, no.

    I understand girls, I don't understand what female respondents think and want! Long live understanding! If he's played friends a few times, it's a bit of a problem? And what did you do to him? If you're nice to him so he has a problem, and if it's not good, there's a problem with both?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First of all, I think your bai question is a little more dudu, a zhi man, I don't care if you're hungry or not, it's not strange to go back, and besides, the answer to the business trip may have been arranged, but for some reason he can't take you there, so he's also a little angry, and it's understandable. If you imagine that the relationship between two people is that he has to rely on you and think about everything for you, and you don't have to do anything, then you are completely wrong. The Bible says:

    Love is giving, love is not asking for anything in return, love is perseverance, love is perseverance.

    Secondly, when two people are together, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts, but it is not that there are already contradictions to break up, even if there are contradictions sometimes, but the basis is that you have love and are willing to pay for each other, so as to resolve the contradictions.

    Finally, if there is a man who is willing to take care of you and is willing to do everything for you, do you think you still have room to be picky?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Alas, you and he have problems.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    1.Breaking up now doesn't mean that you won't have a chance in the future, and if you're together now, you may not be together one day.

    2.When two people fall in love, the first thing to look at is the degree of love. If you love each other very much, you can break through the magic barrier of long-distance relationship, if the degree of love is not enough, it is useless to be in the same city even if you are in the same city.

    Secondly, looking at the reality of the situation, most people are realistic, although it is not too obvious on campus. But one day we have to face reality. If it is not as good as society, work, family, living environment, etc., whether you are suitable to be together.

    3.If you love her very much, you will chase her desperately. Strive to compound. Tried hard, no matter what the result is, it's good.

    4.Tell us about friends, long-distance and non-long-distance relationships. *A and B were in a long-distance relationship during college, far away, and only met during winter and summer vacations. There are no points during the school period. After graduating from college, due to real life, work pressure, broke up.

    C and D junior high school classmates, acquaintance, love. High school in different cities and schools. Universities in different cities, schools. After a few years of long-distance relationship, I got married.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    First love, long-distance relationship, pain, nostalgia!

    Persistence only requires faith and always pay attention to yourself, but in the future, if nothing changes, you will never be able to get together.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't worry too much, first love is just the beginning of your relationship. There are many more opportunities to come.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Give her enough care, it is best to go to a place, people in two places, time will dilute feelings, the landlord remember: distance can not produce beauty. (I hope the landlord adopts).

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The reality of the data is cruel, friend.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Persistence, I will definitely be able to go on.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    How did you develop after she came to Guangdong.

    What can you do when you go to Shanghai, I think you need to plan first and see which one is more feasible.

    Otherwise, you can't make a decision.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Love needs courage, ask yourself if you really love her, really willing to pay for her, if the answer is yes then you go to the brave pursuit of it, happiness sometimes needs to be chased, otherwise it is very likely to miss the real happiness, I hope it can help you!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I also know that [i] online dating [ i] is not real, illusory [ i] [ i] but I still fall into it [i] first love is generally [ i] is also fruitless [ i] [ i] how not to fall into the mud feet useless [ i] [ i], it is easy to kick you away with [i] a [ i] foot Then you really [i] [i] understand you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    One party has to make a sacrifice, otherwise it must be broken up, it depends on whether you love her a little more or she loves you a little more First of all, you can't be too selfish for love If your parents don't stop it, you have to do a good job at home, and if you want to and have the courage to come to Shanghai, you can gamble for her.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    At the very least, you should tell her what you are thinking, and you should not solve this matter alone. Find a suitable time to talk to her

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You should talk to her about it and see what she thinks, and you can't be hasty

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    She is going to settle in Shanghai, and I think it's better to let go of her feelings.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I think this relationship should end as soon as possible, because online dating doesn't end well. Because you haven't gotten along in real life, have you hung out together or met, isn't it**, if not, then you shouldn't continue. When you really get along, there will be a lot of contradictions, love will make people blind, so now you are reluctant to her, you must know that what is around you is the most important, no matter how bad a person is, he will eventually find the person who will be a partner!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Ask her how she feels, and you'll decide.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You can really discuss with her and say what you think in your heart, and where to go depends on the meaning of both parties.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's not all the way, so think of it as a strange road.

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