How to get rid of the villain mentality of knowing that you are not doing well, I am relieved ?

You don't have a good time without me, I make your life good, it's a loss for you to leave me, I'm important to you, and the self-denial caused by my separation from you is offset by a sense of existence. ‍‍

Look, let you leave me, let you break up with me, regret it, I'm much better off than you now, if you hadn't insisted on breaking up at the beginning, maybe now we will enjoy it together, no regrets. ‍‍

Getting along with others will inevitably produce contradictions and estrangements, rather than putting it in your heart, it is better to let go, your heart will be relaxed, let go of others, that is, let go of yourself.

The heart is selfless, the world is wide.

This kind of mentality is basically only the weak, we just need to keep an upward posture, with their own ability to grab everything they want, when we reach the peak of their unattainable success, to see the king of the mountains and small posture to look down, see their stupid face because of surprise, unwillingness, anger, jealousy and distorted expression is the most happy counterattack.

People with this mentality basically guard their own small circle all day long, lying in the existing state of existence, drunk and dreaming to death. If you can't tolerate the efforts of others, and when you see that others are constantly forging ahead, you have to think of ways to drag people down and become a stumbling block that hinders others from moving forward. Try not to be too narrow-minded, and it would be better to make friends with some big-hearted people. ‍‍

Why do you feel relieved to know that other people are not doing well? People are not doing well, and you are also living badly, so you can comfort yourself with peace of mind? ‍‍

Happiness is obtained in comparison. The so-called everyone is really good.

It's normal! I'm not the bitter heroine of romance dramas, Mary Sue, if you can't get it, you have to force a smile and say I wish you happiness, and then hide in the quilt and cry, I don't have that kind of skill, I really hit the water at the beginning, I bowed my head and was humiliated, he didn't even give me a chance to vent, in fact, I might have scolded him twice, just slap him twice, but I didn't have a chance. And now, how can he miss this boring gimmick of passing the time if he is not having a good time? ‍‍

If this person didn't have a grudge against me, I would definitely not think so, but if this person had hurt me, then I would definitely think so.

Isn't it better to know that people are doing well, but I work harder, and I live better? People with this mentality are destined to have only an upper limit and no lower limit in their life achievements. ‍‍