Liked a girl other than your girlfriend?!

Updated on psychology 2024-07-14
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If you're in love with a girl other than your girlfriend, it could mean that you're unhappy with some aspect of your existing relationship or that you're looking for a new emotional experience. However, this does not mean that you have to break up with your girlfriend or start a new relationship with this girl right away. Here are some suggestions to help you deal with this dilemma:

    1.Reflect on your feelings: Take some time to think deeply about your feelings for the two girls. How deep is your affection for them? What do you hope for from them? You need to be honest with yourself in order to understand how you really feel.

    2.Communicate with your girlfriend: If you feel that your relationship still has a future, it is crucial to communicate openly and honestly with your girlfriend. Tell her how you feel, but try to avoid hurting her feelings. Listen to her reactions and try to understand her feelings and needs.

    3.Seek support: When dealing with an emotional issue like this, it is beneficial to seek professional support. You may consider consulting a psychologist or counsellor who can provide objective advice and guidance.

    Should you be with this girl? Are you ready to end your relationship with your girlfriend? Make sure your decisions are based on your own feelings and values, and not influenced by others.

    In conclusion, dealing with such emotional issues takes time and care. Make sure you take appropriate action to minimize harm to all those involved.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    First of all, I don't scold you, I have seen a lot of this kind of person. I can be sure that your relationship with your girlfriend is simply maintained by a habit of each other. Because it's been a long time, you may not have thought about breaking up, and your girlfriend is the same.

    First of all, there is a big problem with your view of love. I don't know how you fell in love with the second person since you love her? Explain that you love unclear and even you don't know what kind of mentality you were in at the beginning.

    Maybe it's because I didn't love thoroughly enough from the beginning that it caused today's situation. Even if you started off well, the change in your girlfriend later on illustrates the problems between you. I don't know if the second one is right for you, I just think you should try talking to your girlfriend.

    Leave all the issues open, and I'm sure you'll have a clearer idea of how to deal with it. I think what you have to think about now is what kind of state you and your current girlfriend are in. Love, don't procrastinate!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's really hard. It is recommended that LZ calm down, analyze the advantages and disadvantages of the two with reason, and who is happier to be with. If you really have a good impression of the second girl, talk to your current girlfriend in depth, talk to her about marriage, and see what she says.

    Anyway, no matter how you choose, you must cut through the mess quickly. The longer this kind of thing drags on, the harder it becomes.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Calm yourself down, go out for a walk, relax, you're just too stressed.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The 5-year relationship is not fake, I hope you cherish it.

    I'm from the past, I'm the same age as you, but I'm divorced, I don't know how to cherish, I only know how to play outside, and now it's useless to regret it... I hope you take this as a warning.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    As a man, you also have to be responsible, and 2 months of understanding is actually not in-depth. It's better to calm down and think about it. It's just a seven-year itch!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Dude, I told you, you're not married, don't get entangled, just do what a man wants.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's nothing, as long as you have a good heart, you think you are worthy of your wife or girlfriend, it doesn't matter, because this world is like this, it's not the 70s and 80s, it's 2013 soon! Don't dwell on this, buddy.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I chose the latter because he should be the one who can live my life with me. He's been with me, and he's not related to anyone else. Don't be useless with me, I just look at the facts.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No way, it's not your fault. But try not to hurt others. Falling in love is a beautiful thing. Don't let this hurt anyone. I said I'd rather hurt myself than others!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's easy to get into the ditch with two boats on your feet! My friend really advises you to make up your mind early and put an end to this before your girlfriend even notices! Otherwise, I'm afraid it's a storm, and you'll be tired enough!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can't have it both ways, and it is everyone's responsibility to be a responsible person.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    A person likes too many things, but society has rules, you always have to give up some, this is called can't have both?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I saw a feeling.

    You must know that love is very selfish.

    Who do you like more?

    And who likes you more.

    This kind of thing is actually quite normal.

    Go with the feeling.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You think you're Wei Xiaobao--

    Spend time with your girlfriend

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I, bs, you have time to ask this kind of question here, so you might as well put your mind into it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Is it okay for a man to have a sense of responsibility??!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Actually, in my opinion, this girl said at the beginning that she was going to introduce you to a girlfriend, in fact, she wanted to know if there was anyone else in your heart, and where to put her, but you were also very honest to text her confession, since the day after the confession, you can still chat and eat as always, I think she should also like you, so you have to cheer, bless you both!

    I hope mine can help you out.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Are you old enough to be in love now? You won't be rejected by the other party because you are too young, right?

    If not, can I please: Why don't you just make it clear? If you promise, you will agree, and if you refuse, you will refuse Guess so Isn't it a headache? The girl still has a good impression of you, but it just exists between agreeing or not agreeing.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The analysis is empty talk, and the goddess needs you to be brave enough to pursue it.

    There is a pursuit to achieve results, and you should now think about how to confess to her in person and establish a friendship.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I can't bear to call her hypocritical

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think she's implying that you can only be friends, because if she wants to be with you, even if it's because she's reserved, she won't introduce you to someone else That's just my idea, maybe she thinks differently.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If she clearly knows that you like her, and she still does this, it means that she doesn't like you and wants you to shift her "target".

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Weak as I can't bear this heart-rending pain.

    I know that I will not be happy whether I give up or not, that I am powerless to change the current situation, and that no one will know, let alone understand, how much I have suffered in silence.

    Family, friendship, love, I don't want this, solve.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    She probably doesn't want you to look for her all the time. I want you to divert your attention. If you are tempted, she doesn't have to shirk it if she asks her to meet.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Does she know you like her, have you ever confessed? If there is a confession, there will be no drama, and if not, then there will definitely be a drama.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Ask yourself: You really love your current girlfriend. Still love that pretty girl out there vase.

    You're not bad, it's the essence of a man, but you have to be sensible, don't lose yourself, and don't be impulsive. Let's get in touch with this girl.。。 Men are impulsive, and they will do a lot of stupid things.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Euphemistic refusal, there is a difference between ideal and reality, euphemistically rejecting her, giving others a step, giving yourself a way out. Love your current girlfriend well. Be a dedicated man.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Not paying attention to it is normal for everyone to have an ideal lover in their minds. You're not a bad man either. You and your girlfriend are a couple.

    The beautiful one who came into contact with you. It should be a passerby in your life ... A small episode.

    Try not to think about it. Surf the Internet less. Or stealth.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    What about that man who doesn't like beautiful women?

    So it's not too guilty to live in the building, isn't it nice now?

    At least you'll be able to come to your senses!

    So you're a bad man!

    What you want now is to keep your heart in check and stop teasing that beauty! Be a regular friend.

    Talk to your friends and then be firm about what you think.

    Well, the most important thing is for people to know what they are doing and not to get lost.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If your girlfriend doesn't mind, just don't wait for your girlfriend to dump you and regret it

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You are sensible, whether the man has concentration or not, the test begins.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's a bit dangerous, you're not a master of love, so it's not recommended that you eat the bowl and watch the pot and continue to have an ambiguous relationship with her. In the end, it will only provoke your own hair.

    It's better not to get so close to that girl.

    You are very unconfident in yourself, or you are self-aware, maybe that girl has other plans.

    Believe me, since the relationship between you and your current girlfriend is so solid, don't break the beautiful silence because of the momentary novelty and infatuation.

    Maybe that beautiful girl likes you, likes your honesty, likes you love your girlfriend so dedicated and loyal, and is not moved by her beauty, but if you abandon your girlfriend to pursue her, it is conceivable that all the advantages she liked before will also be wiped out, and then you can only lose both heads.

    A stable life is actually good, and it also takes courage and momentum to ride the wind and waves. It's not easy for you to stay with a beautiful girl, but you still have to put your heart into it.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Some women like to play love games to seduce men, and when the man hangs himself, she refuses, which is very hateful.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You can't drive two cars at the same time!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you have a good feeling, you can't count it as a flower.

    The condition for becoming a friend is also to have a good feeling.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    As long as you feel right, you have the right choice.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I've been struggling with relationships lately, and I'm in pain between two guys!!

    But I think that since you are already working, you should be realistic, and you feel that which person you have more hope of going long or even getting married in the future should not only consider the type you like but also consider many factors such as family. And is this liking of yours because of freshness and curiosity? If you decide to pursue it, you should be brave enough to go, if not, you should die and not have a living mind.

    There has been a rift in the relationship, even if she still loves you, she can still accept you, and you are not the same as before. Happiness to all of you!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Refuse directly, why do you want other people to do when you have a girlfriend.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    If people do not do it for themselves, the heavens and the earth will be destroyed.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    There are two possibilities:

    1. She has a crush on you, or deliberately said that she introduced you to a girlfriend to test your reaction to see if you are serious about her;

    Second, she didn't feel that you didn't call, so she said that she wanted to introduce her girlfriend to you, which is a very euphemistic refusal, I suggest you confess to her, see what her reaction is, don't miss it. good luck !

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Brother, let me tell you something, if you don't take the initiative yourself, don't you wait for the girl to tell you that we are dating. How good do you think about that?

    There's a 50 percent chance that you say it, and if you don't say anything, you won't have it.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Don't do anything about it, this girl is very smart, she must have sensed that you like her, and when she says that, she is actually telling you that she doesn't like you, and she just wants to be ordinary friends with you, and since this makes you don't confess to her now, now that you confess, it's just a blow to you.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    You better confess to her, if you don't say it, she won't say it, and if she goes down, she will be robbed by others. Introducing you to a girlfriend may also be to see how you react, even if it is a joke. Let's be bold and say that you have no regrets no matter what the outcome is.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Tell you, find someone else.

    It is possible to joke with you or test you.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    You go on, maybe he hasn't read his heart yet.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Confess directly, or be robbed by others.

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