After three and a half years of dating, we broke up, and a year later we messaged each other

Whether it's subjective or objective, I want you to let go. From her reply, you can tell that she can almost let you go. After putting it aside for so long, even if I start all over again, it's not what I felt at the beginning.

Besides, you haven't graduated yet, and there are still many unknown possibilities, so I really hope you can let go of the past and have the courage to start a new life. Let the past pass and let the future come.

Make a ruinous confession and ask her to think about the sweet times in the past. Tell her that love is not only sweet, but also bitter and bitter, bumpy and bumpy, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar tea! Although they hurt each other so much, you must know that what can make the two of them feel heartache for each other is great love!

Tell her that you are miserable without her. Tell her I love you! Tell her how much she regrets every time she hurts you.

Tell her that he will value her more and cherish her in the future. Tell her you don't want to lose her again! Ask her to give herself a chance!

Well, what do you mean? Does it mean that you want to reconcile?

If you want to reconcile, as long as you still love each other, there is still a place reserved for each other in your heart, and the two are still single, then reconciliation is still very possible. At this point, you have to behave well and make sure he understands what you think.

But if one of you has a partner, it's better for you to let it go.

That means that they are relieved of each other? If it hurts a lot, you can still be friends after a breakup, it may be that you are not in love with each other, be cautious.

Since I can't let it go, maybe it will be better to get together again.

If you still like it, then reconcile.

Summary. Hello, it's been a year since we broke up, what kind of messages are you sending, I don't think it's necessary. I think the greatest respect for each other after a breakup is not to disturb each other, if you really want to send a text message, you can ask the other party how they are doing, a year has been so long, people will not necessarily reply to your messages, even if they reply to you, they are polite to you, and there will be no more.

It's been a year since I broke up, what message to send.

Hello, it's been a year since the world was divided and what message did you send to Qingku, I don't think it's necessary. I think the greatest respect for each other after a breakup is not to disturb each other, if you really want to send a text message, you can ask the other party if you have been in the hole recently, it has been such a long time, people will not necessarily reply to your messages, even if they reply to you, they will be polite to you, and there will be no more.

Because the other person may be angry and start a new life, your unintentional offense may disturb the other person's life. It's best to be well-off, you both have your own lives, and since you've long been separated, there's no need to say more. Another is that so much time has passed, and his best friend Ling Qi should not try to contact him again.

Or send a New Year's greeting text message.

The Year of the Rabbit is here, and it will be shipped. One is good luck, the other is good fortune, and I wish you good fortune and wealth in the New Year.

Summary. Hello dear, if you have been with the object for 7 years, your relationship should be relatively deep, which will be a bit abnormal to break up with you because you haven't sent a message for 3 days. Either it's angry talk, or it's a long-planned reason.

Hello dear, after being with the object for 7 years, your relationship should be relatively deep, which will disturb you because you haven't sent a message for 3 days, and it's a bit abnormal to break up with you. Either it's angry talk, or it's a long-planned reason.

Thinking about it from another angle, he didn't send you a message for three days, he didn't care about you for three days, and he didn't show any more enthusiasm.

I'm going to ask him what he thinks.

It's that I haven't messaged him for 3 days.

Well, yes, 3 days of not sending a message is still a short time compared to your 7-year relationship.

He may be angry, just talk to him about his thoughts.

Later, I also messaged him, and he said that he had moved his things.

So suddenly, he just moved the things away.

Didn't give me a chance to communicate.

Doesn't give you a chance to communicate.

Every time I quarrel, I am used to it, and I take good care of myself after moving out.

It's not a good habit<>

Maybe one day it will be taken seriously, and if there is a contradiction, it must be resolved through good communication.

also said that I had a bad temper, and I let him not contact him for 3 days, and said that there was someone outside.

Your object looks a little childish and cute<>

You are also a little accustomed to his feelings, so let him learn to communicate and reason with you.

Had a great time.

In life, as long as it is an adolescent, both boys and girls fall in love. Falling in love is the process of getting to know each other and getting to know each other. With a long time, both of them have thoroughly understood each other and feel that they are very suitable for each other, so they can continue to develop and talk about marriage in the end.

But some people talk for a while, they feel that they are not suitable for each other, and then they break up.

In fact, don't worry about each other anymore after you break up, because you have been together for a while, you both feel that it is not suitable, so you finally separated. So if you divide it, divide it, don't worry about it anymore, life is like this, there is harmony and there is a share, believe in yourself, the person you like is waiting for your arrival.

Precautions for girls in love.

Clause. 1. Don't confess too early.

But when you have a good impression of a boy, don't confess it too early, it will make the boy think you are frivolous, it is best to get to know each other more through friends and other channels, and through some preliminary contact, have a deeper understanding of him, and then choose a suitable time to confess.

Clause. 2. Don't keep mentioning your ex-boyfriend.

When many girls talk about love, they will compare the current with the previous one, especially when they find that the current one is not as good as the previous one in some aspects, they will complain or be unhappy. No one likes to be compared, always mentioning the previous term will make the current boyfriend very uncomfortable, and mentioning it too much will only affect the relationship.

Clause. 3. Don't take love as everything.

Many girls will make this mistake after having love, taking love as everything, so that they can not remain independent outside of love, so that they will soon lose themselves, if they lose love one day, they may lose the whole world.

After talking about love for a long time, but finally broke up, I think it must not be because of impulse to break up, it must be broken up after discussion, basically it must be a good get-together and a good breakup.

In this case, most of the parties will get married quickly after breaking up, and the other party may not understand until they lose it, but it is too late, and they choose to be single all the time, the person who taught him to love, left, and he finally learned how to love someone, but she will never come back, so a person lives alone with the memories they once had.

After talking for a long time and falling in love and breaking up, in the end, they broke up and became the most familiar stranger without contact.

Two people have been in love for a long time and finally broke up, if the two people have a more resolute attitude and have chosen to break up after consideration, then they may now have their own lives.

Later, they slowly lost contact with each other, disappeared from each other's worlds, and became the most familiar strangers.

Later, they both married someone else, which may be a pity, but life may often be like this.

To be honest, I really talked about these relationships for a long time, but I broke up, and I regret it very much if I want to talk about it later, but regret is useless, and I can't go back.

If you have already decided to break up and can't hide from the sadness, it is better to focus on how to get out!

Some people say that the best way to face a breakup is: don't meet, don't be cheap!

But who can do that? How many people are not sunny on the surface, but have already burst into tears in their hearts?

Those who have been talking for a long time finally choose to break up, which means that he gave up at the last moment, what does it mean? Explain that you know that this is not suitable for you, or you are forced to break up, there are only these two situations.

First, the two of you have formed a relatively stable mode of getting along with each other, second, you are also used to each other's existence, and third, you both feel that you can't do without each other. As a result, it can be difficult to come out after a breakup.