I don t love my current girlfriend, I don t like my current girlfriend, should I break up?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-01
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Think about it first, if you are really with your ex-girlfriend (all the opposition is gone) and start a new life like all ordinary lovers (think of you two bickering over firewood, rice, oil, salt, etc.), do you really feel happy or satisfied?

    If not, it may be your inner unwillingness to do so, and once you get it, you will feel tasteless. So, you can let go and cherish what is in front of you.

    If yes, then you really love deeply. Still, as you say, you two can't. So, first of all, you don't have to force yourself not to love her, because it doesn't work.

    Acknowledging this feeling, letting it accompany you, encouraging you, not binding you and torturing you, love shouldn't be like that, isn't it. With this memory, look at the people around you with an open heart, maybe you will get another love, and find that there is something in her that also attracts you and is worth your effort.

    Of course, this is not a flower, a person has really paid, if you can really forget everything, it is shameful.

    However, you should be honest with your current girlfriend, and there is no need to hide this matter too much. This wound will always heal. But you don't want the future conflict to involve this issue again, so no matter who she is in the future, you must confess.

    As for the scar, let it remain, a big man, only when there is a scar on his body can he smell, whether it is on his body or in his heart.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you don't love, you have to make it clear, and the province harms others and yourself. What a waste of time!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    What you can't get is always the best.

    Keep your ex-girlfriend in your memory and cherish the people in front of you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Choose someone who loves you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Let me send you to Hell (the eighteenth floor).

    I do not like you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Cherish your current girlfriend and you won't regret it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I send you five words: cherish the people in front of you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You should break up, but pay attention to the method. However, don't mention the breakup directly, it is easy to cause greater damage to the other party's heart, and it is best to give the other party a period of time to end your relationship. Find the right time to break up with the other person, such as asking the other person out alone, talking to the other person well, and don't propose to the other person in some public places.

    The reason for breaking up should be tactful, and the reason is best to say that it is your own problem, or a problem that you both face together but can't solve. We can euphemistically say that we are not suitable for love, we don't know what it means to be in love, and we don't have any feelings about love, which often makes our girlfriends choose to break up.

    Tell her that you can find better, that you are not worthy of you, that you are not good enough, that you are not good enough, talk more about your shortcomings, and try your best to make the other party feel that they are indeed poor, so as to take the initiative to choose to break up.

    Secondly, remember not to make taboos with each other, after all, it is a woman who has been together, and you don't want to stiffen the relationship between the two parties. So we have to figure out the key point of breaking up, the reason why men and women want to separate must be because it is clear that it is not suitable for both parties to be together, but one party is reluctant to let go, and the other party wants to let go, but he is afraid of hurting the other party's self-esteem and feelings, but if he does not separate, it will be a long-term pain for himself. Therefore, it is necessary to give each other an emotional closure.

    Don't send WeChat to say break up, this kind of situation like sending WeChat to say break up, maybe you will feel that if you ask the other party out, once the other party does not agree to break up with you, they will continue to pester you, making it difficult for you. But you have to think about it, you break up so casually, the other party just wants you a very clear explanation, wouldn't it be clearer to talk to the other party in person? Is it easier to let the other person know what you really think?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    should break up, since you no longer like your current girlfriend, then you should tell her not to affect the other party to find their true happiness.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You should break up, if you don't like it, tell others, don't delay other people's time and energy, so that you are responsible for yourself and others.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think you should break up, it's for your good and for your current girlfriend friend, since you don't like it, tell the other party clearly, don't drag the other party.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you don't have any feelings for your current girlfriend and don't like each other anymore, then it would be better for you to break up with the other person as soon as possible.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think since I don't like it, let's break up, don't use any reason to drag both of you together, everyone is not a child anymore.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    should break up, if you continue to drag on, it will hurt her even more, breaking up is a responsible performance for both people, and you should be honest in the relationship.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Break up, of course, if you don't like it, you have to be honest and honest, and then break up, otherwise it is also a kind of irresponsibility to your girlfriend.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think since you don't like other people, you should explain the breakup to others, and don't delay their feelings.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Before breaking up, you must first think it out for yourself, if you think it out for yourself and are sure that you really don't love it, then let it go, it's good for anyone.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You should choose to break up, you don't like it, then there is no point in two people being together, it is better to break up early is also a relief for you.

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