My husband always likes to beat me after drinking and apologize when I wake up, what should I do?

Updated on healthy 2024-07-02
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    He was completely unconscious or unclear, otherwise why apologize and promise after drinking. In other words, since he knows that he is always like this when he is drunk, why doesn't he restrain himself, and he puts you in the ** again. Friends and relatives just give advice, and decide whether to do it yourself, after all, you are the ones who live together.

    Take a brave step towards a better future. , You say you should divorce, if you choose to divorce because of such a thing, it's too hasty, because he himself is not sober, you can not be able to do it, no matter how much a person drinks, there are at least 4 points of sober people who do things, when he hits you to confirm the usual irritable heart, after apologizing do you feel useful, in love with someone, but also learn to love yourself, heart to heart, love is not good to manage, full of violence and tears, it is better to leave as soon as possible to find a new self. If you want to beat me when you're drunk, should I get a divorce?

    I want to say that women who beat men are the least capable of it, and I despise such people. Seeing your description, he has a motive to beat you, please don't give him a chance.

    <> want to beat you, listen to this should not have been beaten yet, don't say that I didn't beat you, just say that I beat you, don't care what the reason, you are pregnant, he still beats you, drunk is just a reason, everyone has a drunken time, what is it like to be drunk, but the body does not obey the call, but the mind is clear, he beats you, that is out of the heart According to you, it should not be beaten, but to be honest, you should teach him a lesson the next day, there is no right or wrong in quarreling between husband and wife, not to mention that you are pregnant, let him remember it at once, and never dare in the future. If you are weak and soft, he will gain an inch in the future, remember!

    I believe that this is also a problem that plagues many pregnant mothers-to-be, so will having a child affect the relationship between husband and wife? A wise mother says the truth!

    Su Li, he drank and beat you, although he said that he was not sober, but that was his hidden violent tendency.

    After he woke up, he apologized and beat him next time he was drunk, for me, if my husband did it to me once, there would be no discussion, and it would be settled, why should I marry him to suffer this kind of grievance.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think you should divorce your husband as soon as possible and stop the loss in time, otherwise you will be hurt even more.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Hahaha, it shows that your husband is very scheming, the city government is very deep, he not only lost his temper with you and beat you, but then he can also make you feel morally guilty, and if you don't know what to do, you should pretend to be crazy and stupid, and return a tooth for a tooth, and then apologize even more pitifully.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Such a violent man must not be tolerated, drinking, apologizing, apologizing, apologizing, and drinking, this is a vicious circle, this kind of life must not go on like this, or choose to divorce. Or give him a chance to quit drinking, and if he quits, this kind of thing won't happen, there are only two ways.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I don't think you should forgive him and divorce him, because hitting you after drinking is actually a kind of domestic violence, and domestic violence is impossible to stop.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Summary. Your husband scolds you every time he gets drunk, then maybe he doesn't know what he is doing when he is drunk, and people who drink too much are sometimes unconscious, so the things he does are also very hurtful.

    In this case, you usually have to persuade him to drink less, because when he gets drunk, he will scold you indiscriminately, and the scolding makes you feel very uncomfortable, and you have to tell him how you feel in your heart.

    What should I do if my husband often scolds me after drinking?

    Dear, here's my advice to you.

    Your husband scolds you every time he gets drunk, then maybe he doesn't know what he is doing when he is drunk, and people who drink too much are sometimes unconscious, so the things he does are also very hurtful. In this case, you usually have to persuade him to drink less, because when he gets drunk, he will scold you indiscriminately, and the scolding makes you feel very uncomfortable, and you have to tell him how you feel in your heart.

    A man who is generally used to drinking alcohol, if he wants to quit drinking, it is very difficult, and he can only persuade him to control himself to drink less, if he can quit drinking, it is better. In short, drinking alcohol is not a good thing, it hurts the brain, damages memory, some people get drunk, and they will beat people indiscriminately, and there are all kinds of situations after getting drunk.

    Your husband likes to scold you when he's drunk, so you just ignore him and stay away from him. Don't scold him, because most drunk people are delirious, and he just needs to stop scolding you when he is sober. Of course, this is not the solution to the problem, the most important thing is to persuade your husband to control himself from drinking less and not to get himself drunk.

    Dear, I hope you can <> these suggestions

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    My husband quarrels with me every time he finishes drinking, what should I do.

    Hello, dear, your husband doesn't know anything when he drinks, and he doesn't know what he has done, it's always like this, as long as he drinks and suffers from sin, it's his own family. So if your husband drinks and argues with you every time, you can record the content of the quarrel with you or if he hits you, you just do it. Call the police to deal with it, you can't keep putting up with it, how many times can you endure it for so long in your life, and sometimes it's not serious at first, and then it's more and more violent, who do you go to when the time comes, so you have to talk to your husband about this matter If he can't quit drinking, he always bullies you by drinking, and if you can't communicate with the two of you, you will have to bear it in the future.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't go to court, you won't enforce the punishment regulations against your husband. It's just to convince and educate your husband. Don't take down an example. Stop beating your wife.

    Did you do <>? Please give it back to me. Don't be weak and indulgent.

    If you drink too much, you will feel comforted if it is because of too much pressure at work. The pressure on men is really greater. If you are decadent for a long time, drink to kill time, and have verbal violence towards yourself, you can prevent yourself from being hurt by ignoring them.

    There is no need to ignore the unconscious person, let alone quarrel and get angry with him. If you've been harassed, say it again. Now marriage is free.

    If you really can't stand it, the Civil Affairs Bureau can solve your problems after your long period of alcoholism and all kinds of violence. The Civil Affairs Bureau can wake up a drunk from a dream. The core of solving the problem lies in how you think in your heart, how much you love, and how tolerant you are.

    If you love your husband so much that you don't want to leave him because of a certain emotion, pretend to leave and let him know how important you are. As a woman, you can't say you're strong, but you can't blindly bend over for perfection. Such a life would be very painful.

    As a wife, you should help your husband recognize his mistakes and help him correct them. If he has a short temper at home, he will not do well at work and with others.

    Women are weak, but mothers are strong. Especially if you have children, do you have the heart to let your children live in such a family? When children see such a scene, there will be a shadow in their hearts, which is not good for their development.

    So, I hope you'll think about it seriously. Either change your husband or change yourself. If you don't feel the need to maintain your relationship, you should resolutely leave.

    That's life. Everyone is an individual. He can only take care of his family if he loves himself and can make himself happy.

    If you are tolerant in many places, it will bring such results. Pay for one's whistle.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    My husband got drunk and apologized to me, how did I reply.

    Hello Lao Chunqin disturbing the teacher, I am happy to answer the teacher for you When your husband is drunk and apologizes to you, you can reply: I forgive you, next time I am drunk, then I am willing to ignore you, we can choose to forgive according to the seriousness of the problem, if it is a trivial matter, not a violation of the bottom line principle, you can try to forgive the other party, the first judgment because everyone is drunk and spit out the truth, he actually apologized to you after he was drunk, which means that he is truly repentant.

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You should get a divorce, but first you have to communicate with your husband, don't talk about divorce easily, after all, this is a big thing, especially after having children, you can't divorce easily, you have to communicate with him, and I hope he can correct it.