After the divorce, should the two remarry for the sake of their children? Why?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-27
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    It shouldn't be, because if you choose to remarry for the sake of your children, there is no way to solve the problem between the two people, and you will eventually get divorced.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    After the divorce, it is impossible for two people to remarry for the sake of their children, the three views of these two people are inconsistent, and the two people have become very stiff, and it is impossible to remarry.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Personally, I think that after the divorce, you should remarry for the sake of your children, because if you don't remarry, then your children will definitely lack a complete family.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Remarriage, the inner thought is to hope to give the child a complete family. But if it were me, I don't think I would choose to remarry for the sake of the children.

    First of all, a broken mirror cannot be reunited.

    If two people choose to divorce because of something in their married life, there must be something wrong with their relationship. But if two people remarry because of their children, the gap in the relationship cannot be repaired, that is to say, the broken mirror cannot be re-rounded. Even if two people remarry, the relationship between those two people will not return to the past.

    Secondly, improvisation is not life.

    In fact, if a divorced couple chooses to remarry because of their children, the feelings between the two people will not return to the same as before, that is to say, the two people are living together. It's just that because of the bond of children, such a relationship between husband and wife will not be very good. Therefore, in such a life, two people cannot live well together, and of course, the family environment for children will not be very good.

    This kind of improvising life is not the life that everyone wants at all.

    Again, children will not be happy.

    In addition, if two people are improvised, the relationship between husband and wife will not be so harmonious, and the whole family environment will not be warm and happy. In such an environment, in fact, the child will not be happy, and when the child grows up, his heart may change because of such a family environment. It is extremely detrimental to the growth of children, and children cannot experience the happiness of the family.

    So, if a couple divorces and then remarries because of their children, if it does, I don't think I would do that. When two people are separated, there must be irreconcilable contradictions, and if they choose to remarry, another irreconcilable situation may appear, which is a kind of torture for each other and extremely detrimental to the growth of children.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There are many things to divorce in married life, but there are not only husband and wife but also children in married life. So, should we remarry for the sake of our children? Let's look into it.

    It depends on the child and the attitude of both parties. If both parties feel that the child is okay, they can remarry. At most, after getting married, the parents are a little dissatisfied, if the children think it's okay if you don't get married.

    Think about it. And who is the child? Or, when and with whom, both parties can find another partner and spend the rest of their lives together.

    Remarriage must listen to the opinions of the children. Because the divorce of parents hurts children the most. So be sure to listen to your child's opinion.

    You can remarry for a while and discuss with your children when they are older.

    When many people get divorced, do they want to divorce their children? So should you remarry for the sake of your children? The premise of remarriage is that the problems you encountered in the previous divorce have been solved, or there is no better way to deal with it, I think this is the premise of remarriage.

    Remarrying for the sake of children is an unwise choice. If there is still love between two people, it is better not to divorce the children. Whether I have children or not, I will remarry.

    If the love of two people disappears and hurts each other's hearts, no matter what the circumstances, they will not choose to remarry. Even if the remarriage is ruined, it will not become a happy marriage for Pei Huibei. Still, it won't be mixed with gray hair.

    If the relationship between husband and wife breaks down, it is better not to remarry. It's fair for everybody and good for everybody.

    In fact, divorce hurts the child Biqi very much, but if the two of you are disgusted, or you have someone you love, don't remarry. Because an unhappy marriage is also very bad for the growth of children. Try to communicate with your child so that he knows your love and difficulties.

    It's better than arguing every day.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No.

    Divorce is something that every couple does not want to encounter, and if it is really for other reasons and has to divorce, then I hope to think it through.

    And some couples may remarry again for various reasons after divorce, remind you that remarriage is not child's play, you must think clearly. Think about whether the other person is someone you really want to work with for the rest of your life.

    And some couples may remarry their ex-husbands for the sake of their children after divorce, so for this situation, everyone has a different statement, if it were you, would you remarry your ex-husband for the sake of the children?

    I know that there are many women who may remarry their ex-husbands for the sake of their children, and the rest of this situation is that she thinks it is for the good of the children.

    But if two people have no feelings and are only together for the sake of their children, life after remarriage is actually very sad.

    Because there is no affection between two people, it means that there is no common topic of communication, so there may be some embarrassing situations when doing things.

    So I won't remarry my ex-husband, if I really want to get married, I must make sure that he still has me in his heart, in this case, I will remarry, if it is nominally for the sake of children, I don't think I will make such a mistake.

    To be honest, I remarried for the sake of my children. After the two of us divorced, it had a great impact on the children. Some friends in the school always say to her that your parents are divorced, and the children are sad to hear it.

    No one wants to grow up in a single-parent family, so I can clearly feel that there are some differences in his heart.

    Well, in that case, I don't want him to continue to live like this. For the sake of the child, I am also willing to remarry him.

    I may be like this in my life, but the child is still young, and I don't want the child to cause some psychological damage to him because of some mistakes of others, in that case, I will feel guilty for the rest of my life.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Summary. Hello, my advice is no, since you can divorce when you have children, you should not remarry for the sake of children, unless there is still affection between you, I hope that your marriage is to love each other, not for children.

    After the divorce, for the sake of the children, should I remarry?

    Hello, my advice is no, since you can divorce when you have children, you should not remarry for the sake of children, unless there is still affection between you, I hope that your marriage is to love each other, not for children.

    I still love each other, and I want them back.

    But the other party now has a girlfriend outside, and I don't know what to do.

    I also hope to give my two children a complete home.

    But I don't know why the two quarreled as soon as they met, but I hoped that the two feelings would be the same as before, but the other said that we couldn't be together.

    Hello, sorry for the late reply, with all due respect, I also feel that it is impossible to be together, because your husband obviously does not love you as much as you love him, and the relationship between the two is not equal, and they cannot be together for a long time.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The basis of remarriage is that the relationship is still the same, two people can live happily together after reuniting, instead of remarrying for the sake of the child, no matter how old they are, divorced, and finally remarried for the sake of the child, after all, it is not advisable and unhappy, because the divorce is because it is not suitable, even if they are reluctant to get back together, they will part ways because of the disagreement between the three views, and the harm to the child will be greater at that time.

    After the divorce, I found out that there were many good pasts between myself and my ex-husband, and those good memories have been cherished in my heart, and the bits and pieces of my ex-husband can never be erased in my heart, and I can't let go of my heart, even if he is divorced, he still occupies a large position in his heart, no one can replace him, always thinking of his goodness and afraid that he will never find someone who is as good to him as he is.

    Even if I have a lot of other people of the opposite sex, I still can't find the feeling of being in my ex-husband, so I thought it would be good if I renew my relationship with my ex-wife.

    It is precisely because of this psychology that when interacting with others, he will not be distracted, always absent-minded, always compared with his ex-husband, always trying to find someone better than him, but always defeated by what he has lost, and the man in front of him is always compared to the lost ex-husband.

    So I always think it's better to be an ex-husband, and I don't forget it, thinking about remarrying.

    Maybe after you divorced, you don't have the time and energy to fall in love with others with your children, or you are worried that you can't find a man who is really good to your children and treats them as your own like the child's father.

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