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If it were me, I would not be able to accept it. Not only will it affect the relationship of the new couple, but it will also bring a certain amount of psychological pressure to the children.

Since I watched Chinese-style divorce, I have understood a truth, tolerance, that is great love, just live together, think about it from a different perspective, divorced, also friends, what difficulties can help each other, one day husband and wife, one hundred days, I think it's nothing.

I once read a report, a loving family, but because the husband is seriously ill, the family has no financial **, so the man forced his wife to divorce, but the wife was depressed all day after getting married, and his husband learned the reason and decided to take care of her ex-husband with him.

I've seen cases like this too. It's just because my ex-husband is not in good health. I can understand that.

It's also acceptable. Other reasons are a bit difficult to say. But everyone has their own ambitions.

Everyone's thinking and thinking are different. Whether it's good or not is just a personal idea and opinion.

If it's for the sake of the children, this husband is great, but not necessarily a family like theirs will be happy.

His wife has remarried, why does his husband allow her to live with his ex-husband???

If his husband doesn't have an opinion on this, others shouldn't have much opinion.

I still admire such a family...

This is a mash-up, and maybe it will really become a family after a long time.

Children are the bond of the family.

I think they still have feelings, so that the marriage can also be accepted.

If I remarry, I will definitely integrate into this new family, and I will love every member of this family, and I will, because I love this person, so I love everything about this person, including children.

How to treat both parties in a remarried family with children.

Treat each other's children fairly, and be slightly biased towards each other's children! Remarriage is a rebuilding of the capacity to love. If a remarried person wants to have a harmonious family, he or she must strive to change himself, adapt to his new role, and abandon the following 4 pathological psychology:

"Comparative psychology", that is, in the couple's interaction in a restructured family, comparing the current spouse with the previous spouse is often the fuse of many family conflicts.

defensive psychology", not being honest enough in dealings, "keeping a hand" in terms of economy and property, or wanting to control both parties, being too sensitive in terms of feelings, unable to get out of the shadow of the first failure, and suspicious of everything.

favoritism", such as counting each other's children and favoring one's own children; "Inferiority complex", some people (especially women) think that divorce is a dishonorable thing because of the failure of their first marriage, feel inferior, blindly give to the current one, and lose themselves.

Do you have to have another child if both parties to the remarried family have children?

In a restructured family, most of the time, at least one parent has children. There is a lot of pressure in society nowadays, it is easy to have children, it is even more difficult to raise children, and raising children is more of a responsibility, rather than for your feelings, to become the so-called bond of your feelings. has experienced some emotional ups and downs, and should know how to cherish it.

If the remarried family has its own ghost and has to rely on the children to maintain it, such a relationship is estimated to not last long. Having another child is actually extremely irresponsible. Manage your marriage well. Maintain the relationship between the members of the restructured family.

If you want to regroup, you need to improve yourself first, and you also need to guess to judge the other party's mind.

If you want to regroup, you must contact the feelings of both parties, so that they can only regroup after having a certain emotional foundation.

If you want to start a family again, you should find someone who is particularly suitable for you, you can be introduced by the family, and you can go on a blind date.

I think the best thing to do is for both parties to sit down and have a good talk, and then we can get back together after we make things clear.

I suggest that you can go to some jobs to find someone with the same position as yourself, or you can be introduced to each other through relatives and friends in the family.

You are a niece that your parents got before they divorced, you are the crystallization of their marriage, you are still a member of the family, but your parents are not in harmony and need to re-form their own families, and you don't have much influence with you, your parents are still your parents, and you are still their children.

The children of the reorganized family after the divorce should get along like this: lower their expectations, because in the eyes of the children, the stepfather and stepmother are all bad people who break into their family, and even think that they are the enemies who destroy their family, so they must have a psychological expectation in advance and adjust their mentality in time; Since remarriage accepts the other party at the same time, it is necessary to express love to the other party's children with actions, and care about the daily life of the other party's children from the bottom of their hearts. There are quite contradictions, we must empathize, and we must evaluate them in an all-round way in order to better deal with the contradictions.

In the process of getting along with the children of the restructured family, it is enough to treat each other as one of their partners, and there is no need to fight for too many things.

The children of the reunited family after the divorce should live in harmony and not quarrel. Family conflicts are best handled internally, and mutual tolerance and understanding must be achieved.

must be treated as your own child, don't be partial, use it to be even, and get along with sincerity. When encountering family conflicts, you should first communicate, talk about things, whose fault is to be corrected, and then apologize, it's okay, don't be too careful, you must be tolerant and generous.

After the divorce, the reorganization of the family group, you want to live a harmonious life is very difficult, because they are very car in the car has no way to recognize each other needs a long time to run-in, only after the run-in period can you believe that there is a family conflict, the main thing is to see what the contradiction, must not be eccentric, once the problem of eccentricity occurs, it may cause a greater crisis.

After the family is reorganized, the children are strangers. Everyone is okay on the surface, but they are always thinking about other things in their hearts. The first issue to be dealt with now is the problem of family property. This is the most important interest, and it should be clearly stated.

For those who have re-established a new family after divorce, as children, it is necessary to let them get along with each other with family affection and brother and sister, so that their relationship will be more harmonious.

In fact, it is about mutual respect and understanding. It's best to empathize with each other, everyone has their own troubles, their own difficulties, and understand each other, and it feels like they can still get along amicably.

As long as there are people, there is right and wrong; As long as people have mouths, there will be opinions and criticisms.

I no longer want my parents to maintain a relationship that is not there because of me, and that kind of family atmosphere hurts me more than if they are separated. Every child does not want their parents to be separated, so many times we will exaggerate the impact of parental divorce on children, but I look at my friends and classmates, there are not a few parents who are divorced, but this does not affect their healthy growth at all.

The second is because you are afraid that your parents will forget or even leave you behind after forming a new familyBut the truth is, even with a new family, it is still an immutable fact that you are their children, and you just become a father and a mother in two spaces, not under one roof. If they abandon you because they have a new family, then such parents do not deserve to be called parents.

Parents who choose to divorce because of emotional discord should also understand them, although they are not husband and wife anymore, they are still your father and mother, and they want you to live well.

It mainly depends on whether you are with your father or your mother, and if you live with your mother, you will live with your mother, and if you live with your father, you will live with your father.

In fact, these are all things of your parents' generation, it has nothing to do with you, live your own life.

If you are already an adult, go and live your life without disturbing the happiness of your parents.

Try to be self-reliant, don't bother, I think so, there is really no need for you to exist.

Great, since you choose to divorce, it means that your last relationship was not happy. You have escaped an unhappy marriage and embraced better happiness, and there will always be someone who will be willing to be nice to you again. In fact, getting married is like two companies talking about cooperation, after the negotiation is completed, they will continue to cooperate, if the negotiation is not appropriate, they will run in with each other, and finally if the negotiation is still inappropriate, the cooperation will be terminated.

Don't believe in love, love will never exist, love is just like people, it will be born, old, sick and die. Many people live happily because they have a good "mentality" and firm "beliefs".

Perhaps busyness and running for life have become the most realistic appearance of many marriages, so two people in a marriage as husband and wife will be reluctant to be romantic after being tired, and they have no intention of falling in love after being trivial. Every woman is inseparable from the watering of love, no matter how busy the marriage is, they need to get a few sweet words from their lover, a little warmth. When love comes, it is always beautiful, romantic, and vowed, so it will be easy to compare it with your bland and slightly lonely marriage.

Men's fragile women can't understand, often see men as shelter from the wind and rain, and men have to block anything difficult, but men's psychological pressure will become heavier and heavier, so men would rather avoid than go head-on, would rather not choose to remarry, and will not ask for trouble. Unless, this woman will educate the child and handle the relationship between the child and the father, and the man is very confident, has good educational means and Hu, and will handle the relationship with the child, or the remarried parties have a child together, then the remarriage will also be very happy.

Hello dear, in response to your question, Mr. Mao has sorted out the answers as follows. It can be said that a reconstituted family is formed by the remarriage of a man and a woman from a divorced family. But a reconstituted family is not a divorced family, and the two cannot be equated.

Everyone longs to have a sincere relationship, hoping that the relationship will last for a long time, but most of the time it backfires. In today's society, divorce is becoming more and more common, and it can even be said that everyone has become accustomed to it.

As far as marriage itself is concerned, it is not so easy to get married, and it is not easy for two people to come together. I don't think many people think about divorce when they get married, but the reality is that divorce is becoming more and more common as conflicts between husband and wife accumulate.

I think everyone has heard of such a saying, called a broken mirror reunion. While the mirror, which sounded broken, could be put back together, its cracks were already there and could not be changed. Therefore, even if you get back together after divorce, it is impossible to completely return to the previous state, and the divorce has left a deep trace in the hearts of both parties.

I think for every couple, if it weren't for the fact that they couldn't get by, then the cheating might not really come to the step of divorce. Since they have decided to divorce and now plan to get back together, does it mean that the problems between them have been resolved?

So let's idealize it a little bit, the problem that once prompted their divorce, that is, the conflict, has now been resolved, so that both parties can get back together and start over. If that's the case, they'll probably be better off than they were before. Because after such a period of cooling-off period, they must have a better understanding of what each other means to themselves.

Chunlun clan. Especially for those families with children, it is also necessary to continue living together for the sake of the children. After all, for children, it is still the original family that is more conducive to their growth.

If the reason that once led to their divorce has not been resolved, the two parties are just because they have not found other suitable ones, so they will be together again. So for them, in fact, the current situation is just a matter of the future. It can be said that once there is a little friction between them, it is easy to remember the old contradictions, that is, old accounts.

And this old account has become a time bomb in their lives, once touched, then the two may have to divorce again.

I don't think it will be the same as it was, because this kind of relationship will not be very happy at all, so I don't think it will be the same as before.

Definitely not, because the people I met were different, and the two people got along in different ways, so it wouldn't be the same.

Not necessarily. This also varies from person to person, and then it has to be decided according to the actual situation, and some families in the same group are also very happy.