Friends just like that for the sake of profit? What kind of person would betray a friend for profit?

Well, I feel that friends are a combination of feelings and interests.

If you don't understand it well, you can also understand it this way Feelings + Interests = Friends Feelings "Interests" Interests = Iron Buddies Feelings "Interests = Interests Partners."

In fact, the decisive factor is feelings, and interests are an invariant, which can be calculated and measured.

Feelings are different, he changes with personal values. It's like you ask how much is a human life worth? Some people tell.

You are priceless, and some people tell you that it is only worth 20w.

And it is very unwise to exchange money for affection, because they are not of the same nature.

It's a bit of a stretch, let's move on to friendship and interests. As the saying goes, like gathers like, and the same is true for friends, who have similar identities and are the same.

Hobbies, common ideas will become friends basically.

I mean, you're a millionaire, your friend is poor, and you see that your friend is always helping him. 1 time 2 times fine, 10 times.

What about 8 times? What about one hundred and eighty times? If he is grateful to you, what will he give you in return? After a long time, he will feel guilty and become a person towards you.

Be polite until you grovel, is this still a friend? If he doesn't appreciate you, it's still business as usual. After a long time, you will feel.

I don't think he is grateful at all I don't know what to do, is this kind of person still worth paying?

So friendship and interest go hand in hand!

Of course, friends also have to be classified, and I divide my friends into 3 categories: iron buddies, general friends and interest partners.

Iron buddy: It is someone who can willingly sacrifice a part of the interests to help you when you need help. (Such a friend.)

You need to pay with your heart, and usually think more about each other. ）

Ordinary friends: people who usually greet each other with a smile and can ask for help by inviting guests to dinner when needed.

Stakeholder: A person who comes together for a common purpose or interest. (Such a person needs to pay attention, see his character clearly, and beware of bad character, since you can become friends because of interests, then you can also become enemies for interests).

The reason why your friends abandon you because of your interests, you should find the reason from yourself, it may be that you have not done enough to reach your friend's heart.

, and even the iron buddies can't always ask for it without paying, which will make your friendship fade. Life is in.

There are really many things in the world that are involuntarily self-controlled, and you must be strict with yourself and lenient with others, so that you can make friends all over the world. Willing.

Giving Sometimes you have to give up something if you want to get something. (The above is just my personal opinion, don't spray me.)

To put it bluntly, there are interests between friends!It's just that the interests are different, and I generally feel that I have no interests with my friends, but this kind of interest is a spiritual interest, and when I am sad or encounter something on my mind, I can find a companion who can put my heart in my heart. This kind of interest does not hurt both parties, but makes each other feel happy.

If there is only money and snobbery, then it is hateful, and at least one party will be hurt. So there is a saying, one more friend and one more road. This sentence proves that there are interests between friends.

The premise of human interaction is within the scope of interests. Just look at whether the benefits that your friends have achieved in you are harmful to you, if it hurts you, you have to consider whether to give up this friendship, if it doesn't hurt you but makes you learn a lot and be happy, then please cherish this person. Because apart from your parents, who are selfless, other people's kindness to you is only a blessing that you have cultivated, and no one other than your parents has the right to be selfless to you.

Therefore, people who are good to you must know how to cherish.

Human love is really fragile. Because every human being is self-centered. The love of father and son, when hatred is not made of steel, love disappears without a trace;The love of husband and wife, when the other party does not obey their will or even betrays themselves, love turns into anger;The love of friends, when there is a conflict of interest, love becomes self-interested.

This is the fragile love of man.

We can't ask others how and we can't ask for it. However, we can restrain ourselves to be so stupid that I can love when everything is going to shake my love.

Although you see it, you understand it, but don't imitate this world, but guard your heart and mind. Because, you know, the most precious thing in this world is affection, that is, love. If you don't waver, you will love maturely.

His jealousy is too heavy, this is also an abnormal psychological manifestation, it is unconscious, don't be surprised, it is impossible to make such a friend, don't make such a friend, you don't pay attention to him, it's not good to make friends. People have a psychology called.

A true friend is when you are sad and for you to share your worries. It's up to you to see if the friends you make are for something in you, and the real friends won't betray you.

There's only interest between them, that's not a real friend, isn't it, so don't care.

Money always hurts people like this!

That's what friends are, and for some people, new brothers are all used to take advantage of them, let alone friends.

There are no eternal friends, only eternal interests.

o( o Alas friends?? I don't know what he doesn't want to know. Why do people need to dig deeper?

If there is nothing in the first place, where will there be dust? Hehe, calm your mind, think about it, let go of your heart, some things, some people, some items will eventually disappear, so we don't need to explore, that will only cause us more harm. Let's live happily!

If you make (confidant) friends, don't make friends and interests, and if you have no friends in front of your interests, your brothers will settle accounts.

Some of my friends are like that.

Ignore him. Make a nice friend.

There are many kinds of friends, and those who have a heart are called confidants.

1。In order to achieve the goal, unscrupulous means.

The so-called gentleman loves money and takes it in a good way.

Whether it is for the pursuit of wealth or the pursuit of a position of power, you must sit upright so that you are not afraid of ghosts knocking on the door in the middle of the night. But human desires are endless, and desires are like a bottomless pit, and if you don't control yourself, you can't fill it at all. Some people will do whatever it takes to achieve their own interests, using all means and methods, not hesitating to sacrifice the interests of others, or even hurting others, betraying friends, and unscrupulous means to achieve their goals.

If such a person gives you benefits and benefits, please be sure not to accept such benefits, since he can betray others for interests, he can also betray you for interests, and he will not treat you as a friend, but only use you as a tool to achieve his goals. If you have such a person around you, try not to have deep friendships to avoid getting into trouble. Bright beats.

2.The world is hot and cold, and the treatment of people is like paper.

The speed of urbanization is getting faster and faster, and the pace of everyone's life is getting faster and faster, and gradually, we find that there are fewer and fewer friends who can speak, and there are fewer and fewer friends who can make sincere friends. So many times, we are eager to make friends, to find someone to share joys and sorrows. But don't staggered your sincerity with others, because you may have a pure heart, but others may not care.

Especially when you meet some people, you are very good to him, you can pay for him, but he doesn't think about you, he always only cares about his own interests and feelings, you pay more and more sincerely, and in the end, you will find that others treat you as a monkey. So if you give too much and still can't warm the hearts of others, then don't warm them and love yourself well.

3.is scathing and mean, and never leaves a way back for others.

Many people hurt others, and they kept saying: Don't blame me, I am a knife-mouthed tofu heart, straight heart. How did you feel when you heard that?

When someone hurts you and says with a smile that he is that kind of character, do you want to slap him? Everyone is an adult, if you can talk, you can talk more, and if you can't talk, don't talk.

That kind of deliberately hurting others, and finding words to say that it is because of your own reasons, you don't even have to accept an apology. Some people have a sour smell as soon as they speak, and they do things regardless of the occasion, and they are ruthless in doing things early and do not leave a way back for others. Often force people to a dead end, as the saying goes, take a step back and leave a back road for others, that is, leave a road for yourself, after all, the future days are not accurate, so behave outside the world, don't block people's back roads.

Selfish and vain.

The relationship between friends can be of a beneficial nature, which is embodied in the following:

First of all, friends can help each other financially and share benefits. For example, when a person is struggling or needs financial support, a friend can help, which may include financial, material, or emotional support. At the same time, in daily life, friends can share benefits together, such as spending together, sharing resources and experiences, etc.

Secondly, friends can use each other's resources to promote their own interests. For example, when a person has certain resources and information, he can share or exchange these resources with his friends to gain more benefits.

In addition, the benefits of friends are also reflected in the fact that they can help each other in networking. For example, when a person needs certain connections, his friends can help, and this help may include introductions and referrals, networking resources and experience, etc.

It is important to note that although the relationship between friends can be profitable, it is not necessarily based on money or material. In addition to financial help and resource sharing, friends can also emotionally support, understand, and love each other. Therefore, when establishing and maintaining friendships, we should focus on balance and sincerity, and not pursue interests too much and ignore the essence and value of friendship.

In summary, the relationship between friends can be of a beneficial nature, which is reflected in mutual help and support financially, resourcefully and emotionally. However, we should pay attention to balance and sincerity while pursuing interests, and not pursue interests too much and ignore the essence and value of friendship.

There must be a relationship of interest, and there are many kinds of interests, economically, personally, and so on. Those who you think he is really good to you and are very self-conscious, in fact, this is also a kind of interest, this kind of interest is that you feel that he is worthy of your trust, and he makes you feel at ease to make friends and return to the country, this is also a kind of interest, but it is not the interest of the money and his brother, it is the interest of the soul, do you think about it?

Hello, even if a friend has a stake. But not all friends are that kind of interest relationship, some people are not, friends are the wealth of life. Only if you are honest and trembling with friends, then you will also get sincere friends.

Summary. Hello, the person who befriends you for the sake of profit, never become friends with him.

Hello, the person who befriends you for the sake of profit, never become friends with him.

Because the original intention of making friends with you is for profit.

When you don't have any interest in him, he will dump you and not be friends with you.

So don't really treat him with this kind of friend, and don't really become friends with him.

You can just treat it like a stranger.

Because he has a need for you, if there is really no benefit, he will ignore you.

Don't be nice to this kind of person, right?

That's right, you can't be nice to this kind of person, because he didn't really want to be friends with you in the first place.

I feel like that friend will come back to me.

But even if he comes to you again, it is because you have an interest in him.

He's coming to me, and I'm going to ignore him.

That's right. Will he regret it?

No, it won't. Because of the relationship of interests, how can you regret it.

Won't he be sad?

Originally, he wasn't a friend, he wanted to know you for profit.

It's not based on profit.

In social situations, people hand you business cards and chat with you very speculatively, in fact, it is a kind of politeness when communicating, or it is a social routine for them. Those who leave a ** with you, and when they need to rely on you to realize their interests, he will call you, just like going to the Three Treasures Hall for nothing, usually will not play ** care about your recent situation, once you come** must be asking for you. Obviously, this kind of friend is not worth making deep friends.

Because true friendship is based on deep friendship, not on interests.

It should be the kind of person who sends charcoal in the snow.

The friends who are really worthy of your deep friendship should be the kind of person who sends charcoal in the snow, not the icing on the cake, the world has never lacked icing on the cake, what is lacking is charcoal in the snow. When you are successful, everyone is a friend when you are brilliant, everyone will treat you as a friend, everyone will help you and support you, but the person who will not leave you when you are poor is a true friend. If a person can make a few friends in his life, then this life is worth it.

This kind of friend will give you support, support, and comfort when you fall, instead of falling into a well and pushing the wall down. And this kind of friend is often those who are righteous, responsible, and generous. You don't have to be afraid that one day he will be driven by interests, plot against you behind your back, and betray you.

This kind of friend also tends to trust you and your abilities, so even if you fall to the bottom, they will not fall into the trap because they believe that you have the ability to make a comeback. At the same time, they also trust your personality, so when they are in trouble, they will basically be the first to think of you, because they know that you will not stand idly by.

He has a very wise sense of observation.

This kind of friend will believe that you are a potential stock, so he will not look down on you when you are still very inferior. Even if you're bad right now, he'll do everything he can to help you grow and help you succeed. But these kinds of friends are often very, very good people, they have a very wise sense of observation, and if you don't have a quality in him that impresses them, if you approach him just to take advantage of him, they can get along with you very well, but they don't see you as a real friend in their hearts, they won't help you.