I got married right away, but I was given such a problem

It is estimated that your wife is guilty of premarital phobia, take her to see a psychiatrist, many women have more or less this symptom of ...... before marriagePremarital blues ......

Alas, it's hard to say

But I think it's better to separate as soon as possible, you know, marriage is not just a matter of two people. It's a matter of two families! Now that she's not married, she's done this to your dad, and then it's going to be returned!!

Besides, don't you feel sorry for her to treat your dad like this?

If my girlfriend does this to my dad, I'll go up with a slap Honoring the elderly is the most basic courtesy

Think about it!

In other words, she looks down on your dad a little bit, are you spoiling her? Or is her family rich? How can you break the heart of your future father-in-law! This is a great rebellion

It's hard to say ---, it depends on what the quarrel is. Perhaps, though, it's premarital stress. Emotional and temperamental, I have also seen such a woman, if it is not for nothing, you should coax her more.

As for breaking your dad's heart? I think it's an exaggeration, she's just scaring you because she's angry with you and can't get married. A woman's normal thoughts, because she is afraid that you will quarrel more after marriage! As for the reason for your quarrel, it's hard to say who is to blame

This. Not much to say. I don't understand this.

Your love, your way!

Just let it be, you can't get ahead, and there's no need to lag behind!

Don't let your age and the opinions of your parents (including relatives and friends) sway you, follow the natural laws that come naturally, and let your relationship grow, mature, blossom and bear fruit naturally.

<> "I haven't thought about these three things, don't be in a hurry to get married."

If you don't think about these three things, don't rush to get married, especially the last one, 90% of people will ignore it.

Clause. 1. Where do you live after getting married?

Are you ready to marry a house, or are you ready to rent a house, or live with your parents?

Marriage means that two people are independent from their original family and start a new family. If you want to live with your parents in order to save money after marriage, it means that your economy and thinking are not yet independent and you have not grown up, so you can't leave your parents to live alone.

Clause. Second, how to distribute the expenses of the mu of pure pulse at home.

Water bills, electricity bills, gas bills, property fees, etc., two people living together, there will be countless bills, large and small. Therefore, before marriage, it is necessary to negotiate a way that is comfortable for both parties, rather than leaving all the pressure to one of them, and the adult world is to dare to talk about money.

Clause. 3. Ugly words ahead.

Before getting married, you must dare to talk about divorce, if one day you inevitably want to divorce, can you divorce rationally and amicably? Marriage is very quick and easy, as long as you find someone who is willing to take the bait, go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to line up together, pay money, take a photo, and get a marriage certificate.

But divorce is much more difficult than marriage, and you have to deal with all kinds of divisions and tears in life, emotionally, property, and custody.

Marriage needs to be completely voluntary, although I am already married, but not because everyone else is married, but because I have met the right person. If I hadn't gotten married, I wouldn't have chosen to get married blindly because everyone around me was married.

Because everyone has the idea of self-improvement, everyone is also living for themselves, you don't want others to be like you, it's not good to blindly follow the trend, not to mention the problems that involve your own future happiness and two families.

I think that since you are going to get married, you must consider whether the other party is what you like, whether the other party is compatible with your personality, whether the three views can also be compatible, and whether the other party also loves you based on your own experience with the other person.

The word marriage is not so light, because there are too many things to consider after marriage, such as if you don't have enough money to buy a house and a car, and what to do if you don't have time to take it after having a child, etc.

But if you are still single, don't be embarrassed to think that you are still single because everyone around you is married, so you fall in love for the sake of falling in love. This is the worst hand sock model, because it delays others and yourself.

Since you are still single, you must find a suitable person you like to be your future marriage partner.