I m about to get married, but I found out that she cheated on me a lot! What to do!

Updated on society 2024-02-09
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I can understand your feelings. But if you think about it, don't love you? Will you have a baby?

    If I don't love you, how can I marry you? Everyone, has a past. Let's not think about her inattentiveness at that time, think about now, she is pregnant, and what parents expect from you.

    Be a man and be generous. You've won. Forget her past and forgive.

    You will be happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It is fate to come together after so many ups and downs, talk to her, and let go of the knot in your heart.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Since it's so painful, it's better to give up.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It is unrealistic to marry this kind of woman, and if you reluctantly get married in time, your previous affairs will erupt through a very small platform after marriage.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You've all got kids and got married. I really can't leave.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Since I don't know the specific information, the suggestion is also based on the situation you expressed:

    Objectively and realistically, family is crucial in any case. The life period of love is short, but family affection will last a lifetime.

    I advise you to calm down and think about your children, because the damage to your children once divorced is immeasurable.

    You and your wife have no love, but they don't necessarily have no affection. Even if you can get together with the girl you meet now, how long will this love last? Can you guarantee that the two of you will be happy for the rest of your life? It's impossible.

    Weighing the pros and cons, you may not be happy with the girl you have newly met, but your wife and two children will inevitably be hurt, even you yourself will inevitably be hurt; You break up with the girl, and the only one who hurts is the girl, but she has an unlimited chance of meeting the next stop happiness. Why not choose the one with the least damage value.

    And emotional crises are sometimes unsuccessful communication. You can check if there is a problem with the communication between the two of you.

    But no matter how you choose, you must decide as soon as possible, otherwise it will be a great harm to everyone if it drags on.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's good to think more about the other party, if she really loves you, maybe she won't look at you in the past, don't force yourself to make the other party unhappy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    True love is when you can love, know how to cherish.

    True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

    Because, letting go is the ...... having everything

    When you cherish it, please love it well.

    When you let go, bless ...... well

    No one can say anything about love, but one thing I can be sure of, because this incident is my personal experience, love can make you do anything for each other, say anything, love is to give unconditionally for each other, do anything to do meaningful things! Even one person will not be alone!

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