The attitude of girls towards feelings, the attitude that girls should have in love

Invest in love For women, once they meet and are tempted, it is like smoking opium, and they always hope to be intoxicated forever and feel its fluttering romance, which they are easily unwilling to get rid of and can't get rid of; For men, when they meet the woman they like, it is like tasting a pot of high-quality wine, knowing that it is the most charming to taste it, if it is overdrinking, it may be followed by the pain after being drunk, so men are not as devoted to love as women.

Affection Women will not easily fall in love with someone, that is because women's minds are always more delicate, and when encountering people and things, they must always put the balance in their hearts to measure, whether they have met their own requirements, whether they have met their goals, and when the two ends of the balance are balanced, she may give all her love. Men are always more emotional than women, so men have more opportunities to fall in love at first sight than women, they only rely on a momentary psychological feeling, they feel that if they like it, they are love, and they only covet the beauty and happiness in front of them, and rarely think about what will happen in the future, and they will not think deeply about those trivial things, I don't know if this is the reason why men are more likely to fall out of love than women.

Fantasy Women are always full of fantasies about love, weaving fairy tales in their fantasy castles, and when the cruelty of reality crushes their dreams, "love has no insurance period, love is a short-lived thing" This assertion also spreads out of women's mouths. Men's rationality makes them never want to create any love myths, they know that "good flowers don't bloom often, good times don't always exist", so they can seize the most beautiful moment in front of them, and they can also feel gratified.

Women in love rely on men as pillows, walls to block the wind and rain, and love like children, and men have become women's support and sustenance. Men in love use women as quilts to cover, gardens to visit, mothers to ask for, women have become a warm harbor for men.

Focus Women in love often become "short-sighted", only see their own love, only see their own him, and leave others out of sight, men are not, even if he loves the woman around him, but he can still look left and right when hugging you, and look to the outside world.

Means Women are using their lives to manage love, and then use love to restrain men to manage men, and men are using freedom to win back love, although the reins are in the hands of women, but they can never control love as easily as men, so sometimes women will inevitably wave their whips and shout at men, hoping to tame men, but they don't know that the more women let go of deliberate supervision, the more men will be able to indulge in it, unwilling to leave.

Women's attitude towards feelings hopes that everything will be responded to and everything will be settled. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke believes that peace of mind lies in peace of mind.

Generally, girls are single-minded and serious about their feelings

I feel that in the process of dating, it is better to confess your previous relationship history to the other party, so that the other party can better believe in you, know that you are a person you can rely on, a person you can trust.

1. It is better to sincerely tell the other party about your past than to find out afterwards that the ultimate emotion is much better. If you conceal your relationship history in the course of your relationship with the other person, once the other person knows about your love history from other sources. There is a feeling of being deceived and deceived, and there will be a crisis of trust immediately.

Thus disappointed, annoyed, angry with you. It is easy to be carried by these negative emotions and deviate from the track of your love, and eventually become strangers.

2. Emotional experiences are real, and it is necessary to let the other party know so that they can better understand each other. Anyone's past is to go through, acquaintance, contact, communication, understanding, and find out each other's discomfort before breaking up and entering the next relationship. Therefore, telling the other person about your emotional experience can help the other person to know, understand, and understand you more deeply, and then discover your benefits, find your common ground, and fall in love with you and be willing to start a family with you.

3. To love you is to love all of you, not only including your strengths and weaknesses, but also to tolerate your past love history. Many people don't dare to tell their love history to the object because they are afraid that the other party will not tolerate it, so that this relationship that you are optimistic about will end before it begins. But you must know that you cannot change the past history, and you can only go on if the other party accepts it.

If the other party can't tolerate it, the sooner you know, the better it will be for you. Otherwise, you are trapped in emotions and can't extricate yourself, and the other party breaks you off because of this matter, the longer it drags on, the more it hurts you.

4. Because of the past emotions, you will know better what kind of opposite sex is more suitable for you. A person's love history is real even if it is hidden, it is an indispensable part of your emotions, it is with those emotional experiences in the past, will make you mature in thought, so that in the next relationship, when choosing a partner, you can better comply with your heart, and you can know what kind of person you want to be with in this life.

In fact, at the beginning of the relationship, the other person who sees each other in the eyes of the two people is always more perfect and excellent, because at this time, everyone is called hormones to cover up each other's shortcomings, so every couple who has known each other for a short time is almost a lover in the eyes of the lover. And the more you go to the back, what maintains your relationship is actually the three views and habits of the two people, you can not care about some small details for him, but you absolutely can't stand the relative silence of the person you get along with day and night. After a long time, no matter how good the relationship is, it will go wrong.

So after you fall in love, don't give up making yourself better, cultivate your hobbies, find a common preference between two people, as long as you become better and better, then he will definitely love you. People will never dislike lovers who are better than themselves, but will only admire you more. In fact, today in 2020, you can not cook, but you have your own excellence, to be a woman who can be a bird or a woman, and a woman who can be tender and resolute.

In love, excellent people have more initiative.

When you can get happiness for yourself and not from others, your happiness will be doubled. This sentence is given to every girl who has lost herself in love, I hope that you can be happy because of your excellence when you are not dependent on others).