Love is not the right of the weak

There was a female singer who was performing on stage for the first time and was very nervous. Thinking that she was about to go on the stage, facing thousands of audiences, her palms were sweating: "What if I get nervous on stage and forget the lyrics?"

The more she thought about it, the faster her heart beat and even had the idea of retreating.

At this moment, a senior came over with a smile, casually stuffed a paper roll into her hand, and said softly: "Here are the lyrics you want to sing, if you forget the words on stage, open it and read it." She held the note, like a life-saving straw, and hurried onto the stage.

Maybe with that paper roll in the palm of her hand, her heart was much more steady. She played quite well on stage and was not out of shape at all.

She happily walked off the stage and thanked the senior. The senior smiled and said, "It was you who defeated yourself and regained your self-confidence."

Actually, what I gave you was a blank piece of paper, and there were no lyrics written on it at all! The scroll of paper in her hand, sure enough, there was nothing written on it. She was amazed that she had managed to survive the difficulties and achieve the success of the show by holding a blank piece of paper.

The blank paper you hold is not a blank piece of paper, but your self-confidence! The senior said.

The singer thanked his seniors. On the road of life in the future, she relied on her self-confidence, overcame one difficulty after another, and achieved success after success.

Do you understand? All the inferiority complex and cowardice are given to yourself, stand up, in fact, you are not worse than others, what reason do you have to stop yourself from pursuing happiness?! Come on!!

Find back your self-confidence, love is definitely not something that only men and women can have.

It is because of their own lack of love and cowardice, everyone has their own fixed pattern to build their own self-confidence.

There is a part of the ability to love is not enough, or dare not show all the love to be evaluated, including themselves, he is afraid of failure, afraid that he is not good enough, if he tries his best to show his best side, the result is failure, or received a negative evaluation, his self-confidence will be hit, in order to avoid this situation, he does not dare to show enough love ability, or love is not thorough enough, is a cowardly performance.

Hope it helps!

All cowardice comes from the absence of love, or the incompleteness of love. There are two main meanings in this passage, and I will analyze it for you below, and your understanding may be a little biased.

1 All cowardice comes from the absence of love, that is, in the process of growing up, many people show cowardice, lack of assertiveness, lack of self-confidence, etc., all because we have no love in the environment in which we have lived since childhood. Parents have been indifferent to their children for a long time, and they have not given their children the warmth they deserve. He was even abused by his parents, abandoned, and so on.

2 or the incompleteness of love. It is said that this way of love is wrong, it is not complete, and the form of "pseudo-love" is that we seem to love our children, but they are not really loved, or they do not give care and love in the way that children need. As a result, children still do not feel the care and love of their parents.

3.Behind these behaviors, it often leads to cowardice, insecurity, and lack of self-confidence in children's future behavior.

I don't know, but I'm pretty sure you can fuck off.