To turn a comment is to let everyone know that there is such a mother

I don't know how to say it.

There are very few such mothers.

Although my mother would beat me, she basically took care of everything and the family spoiled me, so I don't know how you feel.

But the last time I watched the home studio, the woman in it was quite pathetic.

She is of mixed race, her father is Jewish, and her mother is from northern China.

Her mother used to be their nanny, married in northern Jiangsu, one year, her mother went back for the New Year, and after coming back, she became pregnant, and the child was sent back to northern Jiangsu after being born. Later, her mother and her father got along, but they didn't get divorced, and they didn't marry her father, and then they had her. At that time, her mother's previous son seemed to be paralyzed, and her mother took him back to their house.

Her mother has been eccentric since she was a child, and she doesn't care about her, but she is very good to her former son. Her dad was very kind, and he didn't treat her mom's previous son badly, and he spent money on him**.

Later, her mother left again, took her paralyzed son away, followed a Japanese, and gave birth to a son.

By this time, her mother had already received money and a house from her father. Later, when her father died, her mother tampered with the will and privately changed her son to her father's son. gave all the inheritance to the paralyzed son, leaving her nothing.

He also kicked her out of the house more than once, forcing her to give her son to the paralyzed brother as a child.

Like your mother, she is very selfish and thinks only about herself.

I think you should leave her and start your own business. I think you're quite capable, and you're going to have a good time. If you have the ability at that time, you can give her some money every month. Of course not too much, and too much is not worth it.

I can't say that, my mother is our great benefactor, we should repay it, I am blindly scolding, resentful!

There are no parents in the world who are not. The generation gap between the two generations is caused by the difference in the environment in which they grew up and the things they receive. Maybe she is afraid that you will not be able to live a good life in the future, so she will do everything possible to arrange your future path for you.

It's just that she used the wrong method and way, even if you can't understand it, you can't say this about your mother, I believe that you haven't been a father and a mother, and when you have your own children in the future, when one day you can't keep up with your children's thinking, when your children use the words you say your mother today to pay tribute to you, you know what it means to pity the hearts of parents in the world.

Speaking of which, no one has ever taken a lesson on how to raise children, including your mother, so they are all parents, how parents teach me to discipline me, how I teach children, how to discipline children, and pass them down from generation to generation, maybe we are still disciplining children in the same way as the Qing Dynasty, but when children grow up, they have to face modern society, can that kind of discipline help children?

Generally, parents want their children to be happy and healthy in the future, but they can easily mistakenly think that if you make more money, you will be happy, so they hope that you can make a lot of money every day, according to this logic, then Li Ka-shing should be the happiest among all Chinese, but is this the case?

If you don't obey and beat the child, then the education is too easy, the teacher will take turns beating the whole class as soon as the class is in class, see if you can beat the whole class into Peking University, and beat the whole class into a talent!

As long as food and clothing are secure, intimate interpersonal relationships (including parent-child relationships, lover-love relationships, and friend relationships) can bring people the greatest sense of happiness and security.

Beating and scolding education can only make the relationship between parents and children more and more alienated.

When the child really makes a lot of money, but the relationship with you is cold and cold, is this happy?

Every mother has maternal love, but can every mother raise her children well?

Even if the original intention is good, as long as the process is wrong, it will still not bear good results, the most important thing between parents and children is respect, listening, assisting, empathy, and the communication mode is inertia, if your mother has become accustomed to communicating with you, the mode of communication is to beat, scold, scold, and nag.

It's hard to change, but it's not impossible.

You are already an adult, you read more than your mother, and the main responsibility for improving the parent-child relationship should be you, blessing you with great wisdom, and your family can be harmonious.

That's an expression of a mother's love for her child Maybe your mother is not good at expressing it You can only use this way to express his expectations for you, love for you, and hope that her son will become a dragon Mother's love is the most selfless in the world In the past, my mother also liked that I made me feel very uncomfortable compared with the neighbors, and often angry and said that it is not better for you to ask him to be your daughter directly, but when you grow up, it will not be enough, but when we are older, our mother may nag a little when we are older, but that is also to love us At least it is better than not asking So cherish this precious feeling, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it.

Maybe your mother's expression is not very good, but you can calm down and have a frank conversation with your mother, tell her what you think, and spend time with her properly.

The habits and understandings of the older generation, do you say you can change them?

You also know that your mother is an "ignorant woman and child", so what do you care about her?

As a child, it is not easy to be considerate of parents. If you think your parents are doing something wrong, just communicate well.

Isn't everything parents do to want their children to have a bright future? There is nothing wrong with this, there may be something wrong with the way of educating children, so reflect on this and let your mother read some books on how to get along with children. Hope it helps.

When the mother doesn't give her daughter a study, she gives 800 yuan and drives her out to work, and the instructions before going out are not to say that she works hard and has difficulties to tell the family, but: all the money in the family is given to you, and the family will not give a penny in the future. If you go home, you will be scolded half to death because of a waste of money.

Do you think your family is poor? The family saved a house in the center of the area, and a bunch of savings. Do you think your daughter is not successful?

The two girls are not cultivated by the family, but they live very hard, at least as a girl paper, and now they live several times stronger than her nephew. The reason is that they are two girls and not sons, so they have to hide from their two daughters, drive them out to work, and prepare to set up a nephew who is almost thirty years old as a son. You think this is the last century?

This was in 2008. Such a mother later followed her daughter and was taken care of by her daughter and son-in-law, because the nephew's own mother didn't care. Even so, the daughter and son-in-law can't say a word she doesn't like to hear, otherwise she will cry and roll on the ground, and no matter whether it is right or wrong, she will listen to her in everything, otherwise Kong Xinheng will be unhappy and lie at home and cry for three or four days.

You think that she has a family property for her daughter, and her daughter does not take any of her property, but her daughter pays for food, drink and medical treatment, even so, all her good temper and good obedience are given to outsiders, and she does not have a good word for her family, all the mean words are aimed at the family, and she has an inexplicable hatred for the family who takes care of her. Such a mother really won't spoil her children, go out and do it glamorously, and treat her family like a trash can.