Should I divorce my husband, and what should I do if my husband wants to divorce me?

A woman actually doesn't ask much, as long as a man is good to himself, he will be very satisfied, no matter how poor you are, how hard I am with you, I am willing, a family without love, just like a tree being hollowed out, when everything can not be relied on, there is a man who is simply good to you, you are like falling into the river and grabbing a life-saving straw, because you live together without divorce, this is really immoral, think about it, if your husband is outside, what will you think? You shouldn't do it even if you don't have feelings. I have always felt that the conflicts in a marriage and a family are unimaginable to others, and you can't tell the truth, have you ever wondered why as your husband always likes to drink?

Is it really a gluttonous drinker? Or does he have a lot on his mind? Is it that you don't have enough time with him?

In fact, like you are now, do you think your husband will still accept you? When you go back to your mother's house, did he look for you? Perhaps, it was really you who were determined to leave at the beginning, so you left no room for anything?

Ay. No matter what, no one wants a marriage, a family to end here, think about your husband, he just loves to drink, if you could spend more time with him, talk to him, listen to him and talk to him, maybe you won't be like this, think about the man who is with you now, is he really good? If he's good, why do you want to be with your wife regardless of whatever??

If you feel that everything is irretrievable, then I can only bless you, and hope that you have really found your happiness.

As a woman, I sympathize with you, but you will be punished for doing so.

You and your husband live with another man without divorce. It's a shame to have this kind of thing.

I can't believe that there are women like you in the world.

If it had been 20 years ago, I would have suggested that you get a divorce.

But you've been married for so many years.

Less husband and wife, old companion, make do.

It's going to be a hassle to leave.

It's still good to be in the original.

You and your loved ones are already in the blood.

You're going to be uncomfortable with separation.

Besides, there are few happy second marriages.

If it were me, I would leave! It's long overdue to live for yourself!

For women, the best thing to do is to keep improving themselves, making themselves better, and no longer relying on her. In this way, he will not be disliked, and may even bring him back.

1. Enhance self-social value.

If you want to save his heart, you must first understand your own problems, examine the gap between you and him, and whether you have a big distance from him in terms of ideology, knowledge, values, and economic consumption concepts. If you want to save your marriage, first improve yourself and increase your attractiveness.

Imagine that you need to open your hands to get money from the other party when you buy a piece of clothing, and you will become very passive in terms of family status, which will make the other party feel that you are supporting you in the family, even if you want to divorce, you have no way to embarrass him and reverse the situation, so don't be satisfied with the status quo, you must have your own economic ability, and keep the couple's economic contribution at the same level.

Second, accept the reality and control your emotions.

When your husband files for divorce, you will have an emotional breakdown, and you don't know how to face the sudden blow, no matter what, the first thing is to calm down your emotions, don't think that your husband divorces you and feels like the world has been abandoned, and even run over to your husband and beat him, scolding him with rough language.

This will only make him further and further determined to divorce, and this kind of behavior will only make him more uncomfortable, like a crazy woman without reason, which will not only not solve the problem, but will make him more ugly. It is better to separate rationally to calm yourself down, think clearly about the cause of the problem, and find out the root cause of your husband's divorce. When your husband files for divorce, you must learn to face the problem, control your emotions, avoid the irreparable situation due to emotional out-of-control, improve your self-worth, and stop relying on your husband to live.

Retain evidence to protect your rights and interests as much as possible. 1. Think about whether you want to divorce yourself, and if you think that the relationship is still necessary to be saved, you can find the other party to communicate seriously. 2. If you want to divorce, then try your best to fight for property.

Legal basis] Article 1079 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted. In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person; (2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; (3) Having gambling, drug abuse, or other vices that have been repeatedly taught; (4) They have been separated for two years due to emotional discord; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted. Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

1.First of all, we need to analyze the reasons for the husband's divorce. If it's just a little thing, we can keep our husbands.

Of course, if something happens that cannot forgive the other party, keeping it will not have much effect. 2.If you make a mistake first, such as cheating in a marriage, then it is normal for the husband not to forgive.

If you have to get a divorce, you have to deal with the joint property. 3.If the court thinks that there is affection between the two and does not judge that the divorce of the two is okay, he will sue for the second time in the future, at this time the court will pay attention to the judgment that the two have a greater chance of divorce.

4.If the two cannot avoid a divorce, we must rationally think about what to do in the future, as well as the custody of the children and the joint debts of the joint property. Introduce the way to get your husband back:

For the sake of the child, let the husband think about it If your husband and wife have children, and the children, and he loves the children, then you can let him think about the children, after all, even if he doesn't love you anymore, he still loves the children. Unless the parents are sure that the child is not his, few parents will not love their children, if this is really the case, there is little hope of redemption, maybe you can just let go of your feelings and start a new life, because this relationship is meaningless. If he still loves your child, then it is easier to persuade him, after all, the impact of divorce on the child is very great, not only affecting his study and life, but also more likely to affect the direction of his life.

Change Yourself You can change yourself appropriately because you may have many shortcomings, and it is because of these that your husband divorces you. He really can't stand you. He thinks it's easy to get along with you, but it's easier, but he can't understand what you're doing, which makes it difficult for him to get along with you anymore.

You can make some appropriate changes to make him realize that you are not as good as you used to be, so that your relationship can ease up. Understand the cause and then redeem You can start by understanding the cause of the whole thing. Although he can't divorce you because of one thing, there is always one thing that he can't stand anymore.

You can understand this reason and then change accordingly so that his attitude towards you can be softened. At this time, it's easier to talk about your problems.

What to do, only cold salad. The other party has made up his mind to leave, so let's leave!

If my husband and I divorce and the other person is very ruthless, I will choose to let go. Because I know that if the man makes a decision, he can't change it. Of course, we will also strive to maximize the profits. Let's take a look at how to divorce each other peacefully.

How to find out how to solve the problem of peaceful divorce between men and women can start from the following aspects:

First, both sides must calm down for a while before making a decision. Because divorce is not a trivial matter, you must calm down for a while before deciding whether to leave or not. There is also the fact that the grounds for divorce must be sufficient.

If you impulsively file for divorce because of trivial family matters, the other party will not cooperate well, and the family will not understand and support.

Second, gain the understanding of your parents and children. Before making a divorce decision, communicate with your relatives and children. If you can get the understanding and support of your parents and family, you will be more confident.

Third, both parties should not quarrel in front of the child. Since the divorce is about to be made, and the husband and wife keep arguing, the child being caught in the middle is the most uncomfortable and painful.

Fourth, in case of disputes, you can seek legal help, and you can also find an intermediary to mediate. If the husband and wife reach a consensus and can sign an agreement to divorce, they can agree on how the property will be divided. For the parent who is raising the child, more property should be given.