Jealousy exists between people, even between good friends

After reading the landlord's statement, the landlord's life or conditions should be better than your friend's, in this way, it is indeed easy for people to produce a diaphragm, a distance... Because everyone is different, they may feel that you are not from their world, and therefore reject you...

Oh, the landlord is still a little childish, what's wrong with walking behind you, so you'll go crazy, so you'll be crazy, I estimate that some hospitals in our country are easy to fill up, hehe, just kidding, don't be weird! Thank you for your pardon!!

Jealousy, this will be there no matter in **, because everyone's growth is different, and the concept of thinking is different, some people see that people are more beautiful and temperamental than themselves, or rich... The envy and jealousy that arise because of this are normal, if you do something that hurts you, depending on the situation, it is necessary to tell them, say no to warn, if you really can't... You're not young, you should know how to do it.

You have to remember that everyone has their own way of life, it doesn't mean that you can't survive without someone, if you are not from the same world as them, why force yourself to squeeze into their world!

A quote from Dante: Go your own way and let others do it!!

Hey,,So sometimes boys are more trustworthy.。。。

For them, it's better to pretend not to know...

If you value friendship.

You can also open up with them.

Also, make more friends. Make some good friends.

In addition: if you have a blue-faced confidant, you will be very happy.

Go your own way and let the dog bark.

I don't envy my friend's success. There are several reasons for this:

1. It is human nature to be jealous, and it is also natural to choose not to be jealous;

2. Being jealous of my friend's success won't do me any favors;

3. Why should you be jealous of your friend's success, isn't it better to hug your thighs.

Some people in life will be jealous of their friends' success, I don't understand this behavior, jealousy of their friends' success will only allow them to harvest negative energy and resentment, and can not let themselves really get friendship, when you meet a real friend who succeeds, all you have left is blessing and companionship. Personally, for the success of friends, whether familiar or unfamiliar friends, I will choose to bless, because everyone has their own destiny, and the success of friends belongs to the luck of friends, and I hope to touch the good luck of friends.

I would also ask myself if I really wasn't jealous? Isn't there any jealousy at all? It turned out that I may not be jealous, I attribute the lack of jealousy to being too clear about my own cognitive positioning, never pursuing things that do not belong to me, I will fight for what I want, I will not force it if I can't win it, I will not compare with others, pursue the superiority of contrast, my superiority comes more from my own strength and ability, and the superiority and gap compared with others will make me reflect, learn to reflect and solve the problem when the process is very painful, I am painful and happy, Learning to reflect is probably one of the reasons why I don't envy my friends.

When you are jealous of your friend's success, the solutions you can take are:

1. Learn to reflect on yourself;

2. Enhance self-awareness;

3. Get along less with successful friends;

4. Make yourself successful.

I think that true friendship, when friends succeed, will not produce jealousy, successful friends will not dislike my unsuccess, but will pull me along, let us share weal and woe, happiness and hardship. At the same time, don't be afraid of being compared, admit that it is not so difficult to be inferior to others, we are ordinary people at the same time, there are very few people who can succeed, since we can't succeed, embrace the mediocre life and live a happy life of our own.

If you are not willing to be mediocre, you can also work the road to success, but you must grasp the degree of success that you value so that you can finally live the life you want and not be driven by jealousy.

Although it is human nature to be jealous, I will not be jealous of my friend's success, because I will only congratulate him on his success because I regard him as a real friend.

I'm not jealous of my friend's success, I'm a friend's success, it's a thing to celebrate, and there shouldn't be such negativity between friends, so I'm not jealous of others.

Yes. But while I am jealous, I will be happy for my friends. And I will look up to my friends and learn from their strengths.

No, my friend's success is the result of other people's efforts. We ourselves still have to go our own way. However, if our ideas are plagiarized, then we must stay away from such friends, for the rest of our lives. Because, that's the enemy.

I won't be jealous, my friends rely on hard work and strength to achieve success, congratulations are too late to talk about jealousy, this will become a desire to stimulate their own desire for success.

No, the most envious, the most hard work is the most down-to-earth, and the things that reach out for will always owe others a favor.

There is a psychology of comparison between people! People have a competitive mentality! Whatever it is, you want to be the best, maybe you don't want to look up at another person! This is a very normal psychology, you don't need to worry! Just laugh at it!

Because people are like that

They all want the best, maybe they're doing something wrong with their hearts.

When you see someone else having something you can't get, you get jealous.

It is also a kind of survival instinct left by evolution, in order to obtain energy-saving ways to obtain resources, kill opponents, retain their own genes, and whoever is stronger has more chances to inherit their genes. In particular, it is easy to produce between people of the same sex and the same group, which is also to ensure genetic diversity and prevent racial degradation caused by genetic similarity.

However, in the current time and space, especially for human beings, this instinct is gradually becoming less useful; Humans have gained the greatest advantage in terms of survival and need to develop a higher survival instinct. Everyone has their own different advantages and disadvantages, and people can't really compare the advantages and disadvantages, and if they are still consumed on jealousy and comparison, it is of little significance. Comparing the advantages and disadvantages is not a life goal, but grasping your true direction and goals, doing what you want to do, and improving your inner ability and quality; This time and space needs people who are more capable of quickly solving various problems and have innovative thinking, so that they can survive and develop better, so that they are not easy to be eliminated.

It's the villain. We find that happy people are so elegant. In fact, elegant manners are available to everyone.

When we are very concerned about our words and deeds, a person's elegance naturally arises. Elegance makes a person calm and generous, and brings happiness everywhere.

The breadth of the heart is necessary for a happy mood. Be generous and have the heart to let friends share the results. Only then will you have the strength of a noble personality.

You'll find that when you generously let a friend share your bread, the coffee cup in front of you has already been filled up by your friend.

Dissatisfaction can push oneself to keep improving, but if a person always puts himself in a state of dissatisfaction, he will inevitably be exhausted and troubled. So, you have to have a sense of contentment. Satisfaction is to affirm oneself, to praise oneself, to relax oneself, to establish a beautiful harmony between hope and reality.

With this harmony, happiness is a breeze.

There should always be gratitude, respect and appreciation for life. Appreciate the beauty of nature, appreciate the advantages of others, be grateful for your luck in life, be grateful for the selfless help of friends, and respect the achievements of others. To learn to respect is to learn to appreciate; When you learn to appreciate, you learn to recognize the beauty and value of life, and the happy mood is always in your heart.

And most importantly, to have a compassionate heart. What is Kindness? It is kindness, understanding, tolerance, compassion and mercy for people.

We will find that many people in life do not have any career achievements, but they are highly respected, their faces are always bright, and they enjoy the happiness and joy of life to the fullest. The reason is that they all have good and benevolent hearts. Kindness makes others get along with them and makes them feel at ease and at ease.

Peace of mind is also very important, only by relaxing yourself often can you continue to relieve your stress and have a peaceful mood. Only when we have a peaceful and tranquil state of mind can we fully develop and utilize our minds and move towards a broader realm.

When these qualities are integrated into our lives, we will have a happy mood. Hope!!

Those who are too jealous are not good friends, and good friends should share all the good things together, so that they are good friends worth socializing.

Being jealous and being envied is cause and effect, and you will also be jealous of others, but that doesn't prevent you from being friends. A good friend depends on how you define it, no matter how good the relationship is, there will be jealousy at some point or at some moment, but it depends on whether it is obvious and skillfully handled.

This kind of person can't share your happiness and achievements, and just wants to be better than you everywhere, maybe he will treat you as a green leaf when he is friends with you.

People who are jealous of you can't be considered good friends. People who appreciate you are good friends.

I don't think it's a good friend, how can a good friend be jealous of you?

Not counted. Everyone is jealous.

But as friends.

Jealousy will fade.

Will want the other person to have a good time.

People who are jealous of you can't be considered good friends, there is nothing to be jealous of between good friends, and good friends should be happy for you when they see you, not jealous of you, so I don't think good friends will be jealous of you, and it is not your good friend who is jealous of you.

People who are jealous of you are not good friends, but those who help you are good friends.

No, it can only be said that it is a person who knows.

Then it's not all about you.

Someone with this mentality, what do you think ...