How to deal with such feelings? How do you say no?

This is obviously a woman, you can't be talking about your current boyfriend, he used to chase girls and came back to him, right?

First of all, the boy really has to take a stand and say sorry, although I used to like you. But now I have a girl I like, and she's nice to me.

That won't give the girl back hope.

I hate those boys who are ambiguous and don't refuse. If you don't like it, you have to give hope to others, which will only make the family more miserable in the end.

The second and again: But I hope to be friends with you, sincerely, I also hope that in the future, if you have any unhappy things, you can also tell me, treat me as a brother, my sister has something, and my brother will definitely help you as soon as possible.

Anyway, it's just to be friends. The girl will definitely be sad at first, but the long pain is better than the short pain, and the knife will cut through the mess quickly.

In fact, this kind of problem is very simple, you must face your feelings truthfully. Speak out your psychological feelings, say your feelings, don't be so depressed! If you don't say that you are not good to your friends, just say that you already have a favorite, and that's fine.

There is always one party to get hurt in this kind of thing! Just say sincerely: we are still good friends! That's it, too much hesitation will only hurt both parties more deeply, and it will also affect new feelings....

There are a lot of things like this happening in the world, but if you don't do it well, it can hurt both sides. So tell her positively that you two can be friends, but you can't be lovers. I believe that after the pain, she will understand. Only suitable shoes should be worn on your feet.

What you're saying now is euphemistic enough.

What's this guy? This woman? My head is looking big.

Make it clear that this man is yourself...

Why bother saying it???

If you don't like it, just say it. Euphemism, fart...

Feelings are so cruel, if you hate her, confess to her! If you think that this woman is not bad to him and regrets a little, you still have feelings for her.

1 is to reject you.

2 is that I feel that I am not worthy of you and do not want to delay you

3 is that this man is more ambitious.

The last one is that he already has an impossible person in his heart

When a girl misses the person she wants to marry the most, she will become more and more picky, and when a boy misses the person she wants to marry the most, she will become more and more casual, picky because no one is as good as you, and casual because it's not you anyway.

Rejection is that you haven't done it right now, and if you do it right, you haven't refused.

There are always people and things surrounding you in life, people's financial resources and energy are limited, and it is impossible to cover everything, so people who do not know how to refuse often put themselves in a dilemma, and at the same time are prone to make mistakes to make the other party unsatisfied, that is, thankless. But refusal is difficult to say because of the situation, how to effectively refuse the other party and not offend the other party is skillful, I will teach you some of my tricks, if there is something inappropriate, please do not imitate.

Do it in advance.

Targeted planning; Do the primary first, then the secondary; Refuse what you don't want.

It takes courage to refuse.

the psychology of being afraid of offending people; A trusted friend or someone who is kind to you can help you appropriately, and if you are not familiar with or have rejected you, you must dare to refuse.

There are one, two, and there are no three.

The same goes for rejection; People beg you again and again, either you are thick-skinned, or you are really in a hurry, if you are able, you can ask him for some requirements or items as collateral, so as not to let him be a gentleman before a villain.

Such as a show of love. You can state your conditions and requirements to see if both parties can accept them, and if he does not meet your requirements, you must not accept them soft-heartedly and not refuse him, otherwise there will be endless troubles; If you don't meet his requirements, he will naturally retreat.