Feelings how to deal with such things

I've been in this situation before.

I think you can do the following:

1) First of all, ask yourself if you are really sure that there is no way to be with him, and you don't feel anything about him;

2) If yes, then don't try to comfort him, because your comfort is the greatest harm to him. You don't have to blame yourself because you did the right thing! If you are reluctant to be together, it will be painful in the future!

3) If you're not very sure, I think you can give him a chance, and also give yourself a chance, to try dating. Because in this society, it is a happy thing to have a person who truly loves him, and if he can reciprocate his love!

Finally, I wish you happiness from the bottom of my heart! I hope you find the right person soon!

Dear, emotional things can not be forced.

If you like it, you will pursue it, and if you don't like it, you will give up.

If you reject him, that's good for him.

If you don't reject him, maybe he'll have to waste a lot of his youth on you.

I believe he will be fine, after all, boys are stronger than girls. What's more, it's just a matter of feelings.

Don't be comforted. Just let him be quiet for a while.

If you try to comfort him, maybe he will think about it, and it will hurt him, so, dear, let him think about it alone. Useful for him.

It is said that long pain is better than short pain, and this sentence is not unreasonable. Since you rejected him, he also understood what you meant, and the pain was only temporary. He must also understand that loving someone doesn't have to have her, and seeing the happiness of the person he likes is also a manifestation of liking someone.

God is fair, and if there is a man, there must be a woman who belongs to her. I just haven't touched it yet. Comfort and comfort are not indispensable, nothing.

He will understand.

Feelings can't be forced, it's his right to love you, it's your right not to love him, you don't have to feel bad because you don't love him, you don't love him and reject him, you are helping him, on the contrary, if you don't love him but stay with him, it's really hurting him; And for him, the person he loves rejects him, then this is the pain and growth he should experience, and his sadness can only be passed by digesting it himself, and your comfort will not help, on the contrary, it will make him still hopeful.

Damage Reduction! Don't have too much to do with him. Friends! Bless him.

A man who says the word love so easily is very frivolous at first glance, is it necessary to think about anything else.