My girlfriend is at school, I m at work, how do I keep it between us! What should I do!

Updated on society 2024-07-08
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

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  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I did the same with my friends back then.

    But it's our insistence.

    We're not going to go now.

    I'm sure you can too.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    On Friday, surprise her.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You can go to her when you are resting, and then hit ** when you eat, girls are still more sensitive, she knows you care about her.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If there will be problems in long-term long-distance relationships, it is better to find a way to solve the situation in different places.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Not so good. Let's see who is more promising! It is more practical to give up one person's work together. Otherwise, you're in danger.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The county and town should not be far away, so try to meet as many times as possible.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    To understand him, encourage him and you yourself have to endure the pull-down, don't let your girlfriend think that you have nothing to do, go and surprise him, pick her up and drop her off at work, give him the most intimate needs.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love is always beautiful. If you complain about love, you might as well blame yourself!

    Have you learned to trust in anticipation of a good love and life?

    When looking forward to a good love and life, have you learned to be tolerant and understanding?

    Have you learned to communicate with the people you love?

    When love faces all kinds of challenges, do you challenge your own human weaknesses like a warrior?

    While you expect the person you love to become a match for you, are you also vigorously discovering and reforming your own shortcomings?

    Do you always focus on your lover's shortcomings, or do you always find your lover's strengths?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's too complicated, but in one sentence: separate. It's all like this, and you already know the roots, don't waste all this time and energy in it, you have too big differences, not small differences, house work tickets are all big things, for example, it's not right for her to go to her to buy a house without reason, it's up to you to get married, how to get it?

    Your age is indeed the ** age of marriage, but then again, for girls, in fact, it's really young, why do you say that she 21 must marry you, what are those who are still studying in the graduate school entrance examination, it should be that she came out too early to work in the society, otherwise she is still wandering around the campus and society, the truth is so, I hope you can understand, adopt, good luck!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Some relationships can be difficult to balance, depending on whether you care more about family relationships, friends or couples. A lot of times we get stuck with these things, but in the end there is always a choice to make, so, whatever the decision is? You must think twice before you act, don't let yourself regret it later, when it is too late, as an adult, we should take responsibility for our choices and what we do.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's not an exception to make such a fuss before you get married, I've seen a lot, and it's really nothing like this. Speaking of conscience, your girlfriend is okay, against her mother's opinion, she is still with you, buying so many things for your mother, your mother is just collecting, not a dime, who doesn't want a car and a house when she gets married now, this is normal, and she is 21, honestly, she is not very old, she is not old after graduating from college normally, she is married early, your parents should not like her at all, she asked to buy a house in Anhui, it is not too much, it is very sad to marry far away, your mother still doesn't like her, right, it's not easy for a girl, I've been talking to you for so long.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First: Every time your girlfriend looks for you, every time your girlfriend looks at you. The second girlfriend is for you**, the third girlfriend goes to your house every time she buys a gift for your parents, your parents don't give her anything, the fourth your girlfriend doesn't say too much, there is no money to get married, do you want to kidnap your girlfriend morally with empty gloves white wolf??

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Five years will be a big change, after all, you were both young at that time, and you won't think too far about doing things, and now that you are at the age of marriage, judging from the attitude of your girlfriend, basically I won't agree to you in the short term, if you don't want to compromise, then it's okay to end this relationship.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    1.Listen to each other's opinions.

    In times of emotional crisis, the injured party will often close their receiving system, unwilling to accept everything the other person says, and refuse the other person's apology, which will not do your relationship any good. You have to listen to the other person's thoughts and listen to the other person's explanation. If the other party explains to you and you don't listen, and slowly the other party will not want to explain to you, and your road to repairing love will become more and more difficult.

    2.Self-reflection.

    When there is a problem in the relationship between husband and wife, both parties should calm down, reflect on themselves, think about whether they are doing the right thing, whether they are too impatient, and find shortcomings from themselves, which will reduce their bad emotions. You must learn to empathize, think about whether you have not considered the other party's feelings, think about whose fault it is, if it is the other party's mistake, you must know whether the mistake you have made is a matter of principle, and if you can forgive, try to forgive the other party, so that your anger will disappear a lot.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You are too young. Your life has not yet begun, and it is too early to get married. At this stage, you should be thinking about learning.

    Xi and work, your living foundation is too low, are you financially independent? Probably not! Your ideas are not yet mature.

    Even if you are married, the foundation of your marriage will not be solid, and you may often quarrel. Let's start a business first, and it's not too late to talk about marriage in another 10 or 8 years.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The deepest love in the world is acceptance, not endurance; It is support, not domination; It's a condolence, not a question. In fact, love is not about looking for a perfect person, but about learning to appreciate an imperfect person with perfect eyes. Walking the way you should go, seeing the people you should see; Accept the kindness of others to you, and also accept the harm of others; Accepting the arrival of others, we should also accept the departure of others.

    It is also necessary to learn to accept the imperfect self, accept the unchangeable reality, and chase the unpredictable future.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think your fundamental problem is not your age, but that your relationship has not reached the point where you have to get married. I think if you want to get married, you should find someone else!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The best these are superstitions, even if you believe that if you love each other, you can overcome everything. In the past, when I was dating my husband, my mother also said that we couldn't be together, and they also calculated it for others, saying something or something, a lot, I don't believe it, and now we have a three-year-old boy who lives very happily, so these are all superstitions, and I can't believe them all.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's hard to say. Your parents don't like her. Do you think she will be happy if she marries into your family?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You have to think clearly about whether love is important or family affection is important, how much position your parents and her parents occupy for the two of you You have an emotional foundation, but you also have practical problems, it's easy to be together, life is not easy, think clearly, think twice.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Sustaining a sustained emotional commitment requires investment, which is manifold, the most important of which is material. Unable to meet basic material needs, this emotion cannot be sustained. Even if you combine today, you will leave tomorrow.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I don't think you're there yet. Now there are a lot of people looking for a partner on the Internet, and they are indeed successful, but I always feel that the netizens I know on the Internet are not very reliable, it's okay to chat, and you must be cautious about being a boyfriend and girlfriend. I don't think you're there yet.

    Now there are many people looking for a partner on the Internet, and there are indeed successes, but I always feel that the netizens I know on the Internet are not very reliable, it's okay to chat, you must be cautious about being a boyfriend and girlfriend, if you do have something to talk about, you can agree, it's best to ask your family or someone you trust to accompany you, meet you, and then decide whether to continue dating, you must not meet him alone, let alone hide from your family to meet netizens. I don't think you're there yet. Now there are many people looking for a partner on the Internet, and there are indeed successes, but I always feel that the netizens I know on the Internet are not very reliable, it's okay to chat, you must be cautious about being a boyfriend and girlfriend, if you do have something to talk about, you can agree, it's best to ask your family or someone you trust to accompany you, meet you, and then decide whether to continue dating, you must not meet him alone, let alone hide from your family to meet netizens.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You and your girlfriend have known each other for so many years, it stands to reason that the relationship is good and you have conceived a child, and the conditions are ripe in terms of feelings, and it is time to get married, but from your family situation, personal conditions, work situation and ideological preparation for starting a family, etc., you are obviously insufficient, and you do not have the conditions for marriage. For this reason, you are entangled and contradictory, and she is also very distressed. Although you have a house at home, she doesn't want to go, and you don't want to go to her hometown to buy it, and your parents don't hold you together, your three views don't agree, and you are married now, it's better to give your girlfriend some compensation, apologize deeply, and break up decisively.

    There are many long nights and dreams, and it also delays the future of others, so I advise you to end this relationship that should not happen as soon as possible, and get out of the predicament and go your own way. Good luck!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Whether two people can be together in the end depends on whether both parties can understand each other's situation, so everyone needs to understand each other's situation. Look at the other person's point of view and think about it, instead of saying what is your situation now? Of course, his situation can be understood by everyone, but what she really thinks needs to be clarified, after all, she did many things from your perspective before.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Hello, get on the bus first and buy a ticket. Naturally, there is a topic.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's not easy for you to understand him.

    Shows that you are empathetic.

    It's just not your business alone.

    On the one hand, you have to be more concerned and considerate of him.

    But at the same time, it is necessary to communicate more.

    Achieve mutual understanding and concern.

    So according to his mood changes.

    In good times, point out his shortcomings.

    Express your reasonable emotional appeals.

    In this way, I will not be aggrieved.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Silently be his spiritual pillar behind him, bless you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    High work pressure has little to do with feelings, handle it properly, give the other person a chance to deal with it, and work together to create a stable living environment, which is the key.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Communicate more, argue less, understand each other, and relieve the pressure of life.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Is he not caring enough about you, or is it that he can't control his emotions, and adults can't control their emotions, or does he not want to control it at all in front of you, because of work pressure, he gets angry at you and loses his temper with you, if he doesn't want to control it in front of you, it means that your status in his heart is not so high, if he can't control it, then you find some way to control your temper, it's best to relax with him, but first you have to figure out which of the two he is.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Spend more time with him and be more considerate of him!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Indulge in lust, and if you have enough trouble, it's fine.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    My girlfriend has been working for a few years now, and I just graduated this year, but we've been doing well, and I hope you do the same, bless, hehe

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You don't have to ask.

    Others, you are afraid to ask, want to seek comfort, but you have to know other people's words, other people's experience is not the experience of you and your girlfriend, if you get this is there will be a gap and easy to break up, so there is a psychological hint that will affect the relationship between the two of you, so it will become sad. The two of you will only know about it later, and it is good to take it in stride, and stepping into society will not stop the two of you. Happiness to both of you.

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