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I rejected other people's liking for me, just to wait for you, and what awaits me is an uncertain future.
I love troubles] to solve your troubles; Satisfied: You don't have to worry about it. Thank. Thank.
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Some things can only be remembered.
Some people can only be passers-by. After all, I can't escape those memories, I can't forget that person, and I can't change the role of a one-man show. Year after year passes, pondering and reminiscing, looking back on the past, the scars of longing are getting deeper and deeper.
The familiarity of many years ago, many years later, everything has long since disappeared, you are still you, I am still me, the same stranger.
Always remember that when you are cold and sick, you can comfort yourself and relieve yourself. I'm tired of suffering, snuggle up to myself! Love yourself well, because there is only one person in the world who is in the depths of your time, and there is always such a person who is the warmth of your life.
Don't ask to stay together, just meet each other. Bright and sad, shallow collection. A faint longing, a faint sadness, a quiet time.
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My understanding is that if you are good to me, you are the reason to reject everyone; If you treat me badly, you'll be my excuse to accept everyone.
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It also means that it can be understood that I love you and I can give up on you.
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Because when I think of your shortcomings and mistakes, I am disappointed in you, even sad, and would rather choose someone else than give up on you!
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Then you can just say I'm sorry, there's nothing I can do.
Learning to say no to others is a hurdle we have to face all our lives.
Since we're going to climb over it anyway, why don't we find a way to do it gracefully?
Simply rejecting others is in itself a kind of respect for the time cost of both parties.
As for those who cut ties with you because you rejected them, they are also the ones you will lose sooner or later!
Originally, I thought that I would deal with it like this, but I didn't expect my friends to tell me two days later that their activities had been changed for me.
I couldn't help it, so I said bluntly, I really didn't have time to go. This is good, my friend is a little unhappy, saying that the event is for me to change the time, and I still don't go.
I don't know if their activities were changed because of me, but I learned from them that refusing to do so will leave others with a handle and leave a hidden danger for yourself.
I used to feel that a lot of times, we can't make rejection too ugly.
So I tried my best to make up all kinds of excuses, or there was something temporary, and I had to show that I really wanted to go but I really couldn't do it, anyway, it was all kinds of routines.
Later, I observed many people, and I found that those who have so-called high emotional intelligence and can make up all kinds of bells and whistles will give others an unreliable impression.
Therefore, to reject this matter, the manifestation of the highest emotional intelligence is to do it, not to do it, don't pretend. 02
Unwilling to reject others neatly, it looks like he is thinking about others, and he doesn't want everyone to be embarrassed. But you just take yourself too seriously, because you feel that if you refuse, others will be heartbroken!
But in fact, when everyone puts forward their own request, they are already mentally prepared to be rejected, and even the other party prefers you to choose to refuse.
So, don't assume that everyone will have high hopes for your response.
You know, the world is full of a try-it-try mentality, and those who will make some unreliable demands are counting on hitting those who are soft-hearted and can't bear to reject others.
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If someone expresses affection for you and you have no feelings for him, you have to politely decline while trying to preserve the other person's self-esteem. In order to reduce the psychological damage caused by rejection to the other party and make it easier for the other party to accept, it is necessary to try to maintain the psychological balance of the other party and minimize the inner frustration of the other party. The methods you can take are:
Praise the other person's looks, character or something else. Then say the reasons why you can't accept it. Of course, the reasons should be appropriate and try to be realistic.
It is best to benefit each other, such as how you are not good, how you will suffer when we are together, etc. Put the bad side on your own. This method is more suitable for the other party is a very particular person, he understands what you mean, he will not hate you anymore, and at the same time he himself maintains his own self-esteem.
2.If someone is always pestering you when you don't agree, then you have to resolutely refuse. This should not be a deterrent.
Because if your answer is not firm enough, it will make the other party misunderstand and think that you are testing him, causing the other party to pestering you all the time. To such people you can say: "I'm sorry, I really don't have feelings for you, please don't come to harass me again in the future, thank you."
This method is mainly suitable for some unconscious people. 3.Let me tell you again, if you reject a person, try to have less contact with the other party after refusal, you can distance yourself from him, deliberately stay away from him, and don't let him have any illusions about you.
Especially when he asks you to hang out, you have to find a more reasonable reason to refuse.
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1.Superstition is a good reason. It's a good idea to use something you're superstitious about as an excuse.
Some people use reasons such as "bad luck" and "bad luck" to refuse their friends' investment requests. "I haven't had good luck in the past few days", "I've had a bad time lately", "I've had a bad luck this year", of course, such reasons are absurd, but they are very effective.
2."I've been busy lately" is a good reason. When using this justification, be sure to describe it in a specific way and don't talk about it in generalities, such as:
I'm so busy right now that I don't have time at all, no, I'm going to Beijing tomorrow on a business trip, I'm afraid I can't help you. "I made an appointment with xx today to talk about business, and then I want to take him to the construction site to have a look, and I won't be back until late. The more specific the reason, the more true, convincing, and persuasive it will be.
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There is no best reason for this.
In fact, many times the reason is just an excuse.
It's best to say what's really in your heart.
Maybe it will hurt him, but if you don't make it clear to him, this kind of procrastination will only bring him more damage.
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Summary. Good evening, my dear, if anyone tells us. You are the reason why I reject everyone, and if this person likes us, and we like him, then we will reply.
Thank you, my dear, for following me for such an honor. Thank you for giving me this opportunity.
Dear hail filial piety, good evening, if anyone tells us. You are the reason why I reject everyone, if this person likes us, and we like him too, then the source code will reply to Shen Mu and say. Thank you, my dear, for following me for such an honor.
Thank you for giving me this opportunity.
My dear, if we reply to each other like this, the other party will know that we have accepted his opinion and accepted his confession.
My dear, if it's such a big hurt that we inflicted on each other. He just said something like the above, so let's reply to him like this. I'm very sorry for the bad feeling I had in the past.
Let you be hurt so much, apologize to you again, and wish you happiness without you.
It would be nice if it was as easy as a joke to tease you.
That's how we reply to her, my dear. If you want something simple, just go straight to the chat.
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I'm not the reason to like you, and you're the reason why I'm rejecting others.
Hello dear. I'm not the reason to like you, and you're the reason why I'm rejecting others. 1. I can't say the reason to love you, but you are the reason why I reject others.
Ich kann keinen grund sagen, dich zu lieben, aber du bist der grund, warum ich andere ablehne2, there's no reason to chat with you, so I can only frequently post copywriting to share my unhappiness with you. Es Gibt Keinen Grund, mit Ihnen zu plaudern, also kann ich nur hufig Copywriting Senden, um mein unglück mit Ihnen zu There is always such a person in this world, it is your thoughts, it is your warmth. es gibt immer eine person auf dieser welt, deine gedanken, deine can you surprise me and let me know what it feels like to be loved?
kannst du mich überraschen und mich wissen lassen, wie es sich anfühlt, geliebt zu werden?
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Question 1: Are you the reason I reject others Lyrics Answer: Song:
You are the reason why I called Minxin to reject others" Arranger: Bai Wuyan and Wheel Guitar: Lou Xinlei Singing:
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