How do you go from being honest to being very shrewd and very bad?

In fact, there is no very specific answer to this question, not about what you are going to do, but about the psychological change that will lead to a change in your behavior.

Wisdom needs to be learned, and there is not enough depth of thinking to grasp the trade-off between immediate and long-term interests.

Shrewdness only requires a little grasp and calculation of human nature, and does not require complex learning and thinking.

Brutality is a choice made by instinct. But being arrogant is not necessarily the best decision, for example, if you have 10 billion, you can give your son 100 million arbitrarily, let him toss and study, and use it as tuition.

Honesty is to fight for one's own interests within one's own ability. At the same time, stick to the bottom line of their own interests.

In reality, for a rich second generation, he has arrogant capital, just like a person who is not good at reading, he may not be worse than you.

But for the vast majority of metrics like me, who do not have superior IQ or other hardware, do not have family background, and do not have enough patience and concentration to grasp wisdom, there are only two choices: honesty and shrewdness.

From the point of view of psychological development, in fact, everyone's survival strategy is set very early, and it is difficult to change it without intervention.

Personal point of view, for some specific ways to change their own psychology, there are actually some ways to change their psychology, next time I have the opportunity to talk about it, welcome to send a private message.

There are a lot of honest people in life, they are introverted, they don't know how to express their inner thoughts, often suppress their emotions, and let themselves live very hard, so how do honest people change their character? 1. Read more. Reading books can not only improve people's knowledge level, but also help develop the ability to think independently.

Reading 10,000 books, walking 10,000 miles, and reading more books can also broaden a person's horizons. Only by constantly enriching knowledge can we get along with people better. In daily life, only when you can mingle with everyone will you let go of your personality.

2. Strengthen exercise. Wenwen's weak appearance will give people a feeling of weakness, strengthen exercise to have a good physique, strong bones, will give people a healthy and upward feeling. 3. Learn to reject others.

Whether in life or work, if you have the ability to help others who are reasonable in their reasonable requirements, then go to help. For those who are unreasonable or unable to help, they must learn to refuse decisively. 4. Have your own opinions.

Since you have to have your own opinions on everything, you can't go along with what others say. After all, everyone's position is different, and that point of view is also different. Only those who have an assertive mind can take on the responsibility of life, rather than being weak and submissive.

5. Be able to refuse comfort and have the courage to go out and challenge. Many people prefer to enjoy a comfortable life, a comfortable environment, and a comfortable life, thinking that it is the best life, so they do not get the opportunity to exercise themselves. Only when a person dares to go out and accept the challenges of life can he have the courage to take charge of himself.

If you have enough courage, you will not be weak. 6. Be self-confident. If you want to change your weak and honest character, you must first have enough self-confidence.

Self-confidence plays a key role in a person's success or failure, and only by believing in oneself can one have enough courage. The above is about how honest people can change their personality, when you know how to analyze the other person's behavior, to analyze the other party's thoughts, and analyze the whole picture of the whole incident right or wrong, you will improve your thinking.