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No matter how rich the parents are, they cannot exchange their children's life experience and life ability. Only when children have rich life experience and life ability can they continue to create wealth - for themselves and for society.

Now this social communication is all based on **. Email. QQ, etc. You've almost forgotten about writing letters and the format of writing letters. Or write a small note.

When I first saw this topic, I couldn't help but be stunned, which reminded me of a popular Chinese saying: no matter how poor you are, don't be poor. This phrase was previously addressed to people in remote mountainous areas, but now its meaning has been distorted and becomes:

Whether your family is rich or poor, you must be satisfied with your children and not let them suffer a little. What the author of this article has seen with his own eyes in Australia is that in Australia's coldest months, children can only wear a dark blue fleece coat over a "short dress" and walk in the cold wind without incident.

As soon as the sun came out, he took off his coat and wore only short clothes, shorts, and skirts. In a sports school, people with bald heads, bare feet, short clothes and shorts are everywhere, and their parents do not put a dress on them because of the cold wind. In the hospital, the wife was doing a check-up in the consultation room, and her daughter was thirsty, so her husband took out a free paper cup, went straight to the bathroom, and filled a cup of tap water to quench the child's thirst.

No, he's a well-paid director of a sporting goods company. Seeing this, I can't help but think of our parents, the vast majority of whom do the opposite. When the first leaves fall on the tree, parents ask the children to add clothes and pants, and when the snowflakes fall, the children all become "cotton bales".

In developed areas, parents think that money is the best love for their children, so a lot of pocket money is spent on children, from hundreds to thousands. This is a stark contrast to "quenching thirst with tap water"! I can't help but ponder

Parents in developed countries use "cruel" means to educate their children, and we are only a developing country, so it seems that Chinese parents have more love and care for their children?

The two different sentences reflect the different ways in which parents in both countries educate their children. The reason of Australian parents is: "Spoiled children lack self-control and the ability to live independently, and they will inevitably suffer when they grow up.

But our parents said, "We have suffered enough, and now that the standard of living has improved, we should not let them suffer anymore, we should let them enjoy it." "Enjoy?

What did we enjoy? Everything that can be enjoyed is just what you provide, if you don't have your own sweat to pay, how can you enjoy it? If we want to enjoy forever, we can only get it through continuous struggle, through our own efforts.

And what you're doing inadvertently kills that "enjoyment". Education in developed countries may seem a little more ruthless, but it is also not unreasonable.

We are the younger generation, we have ideals, please let go of the shackles on us, let go of our wings, let us soar freely, and pursue our own enjoyment!

One thing that makes me happy The school has a four-day holiday, and today, the sky is clear, and my mother said with a smile: "Go son, go to the street, and buy you a few clothes today." "I jumped three feet high.

We came to Yongning Shopping Mall, there are so many clothes and shoes in Yongning Shopping Mall! I was dazzled by it. We came to the shoe store and I had a fancy for a pair of dark blue shoes, and I said to my mother

Mom, buy those shoes! Mom asked the salesperson, "How much is a pair of slag?"

The salesman said gently, "15 yuan." Mom frowned and said

It's too expensive, cheaper, how about 10 yuan? The salesman refused. My mother bargained with the salesperson and finally bought it for 11 yuan.

I'm dressed like it's fitting and comfortable. We went to the clothing store again, and I took a fancy to a light yellow tracksuit, and I thought to myself: I must be a handsome boy in that suit.

I talked to my mom, "Buy that outfit!" "Mom asked the salesperson how much was it?

The salesman said kindly: "55 yuan." "My mother and the salesman wore out their mouths, and finally bought it for 45 yuan.

I was dressed very handsomely, like a little star, and I looked at me in the mirror, and my heart was sweeter than eating honey. My mother said, "Look, my mother bought you such a thing, you have to study hard."

Yes, I want to study hard, and when I grow up, I will also honor my parents. Remember.

Dear Mom and Dad:

Hello! You taught me to walk, you taught me to speak, you raised me. You take care of me, love me, love me, and I am very touched by all these things. When I couldn't do my homework, you taught me carefully until I could.

Mom and Dad, you know what? I am a little flower, my father is the sun, my mother is the rain and dew, give me sunshine and rain, under your careful care, I gradually grew up, and strive to bloom the most beautiful flowers in the world.

After more successes, failures, setbacks, and hard work, I grew up. I finally understand what you're doing to me. It turns out that if you want me to succeed, you can't be proud, you can't be complacent, and you can't keep up the good work.

At the same time, I thought that you never criticized me when I failed.

Mom and Dad, I want to tell you that I love this home. I compare this home to a big magnetic field that embraces everything, and I am a small magnetic needle, and my heart is closely linked to this warm home.

Wish: Happy Forever!

Son: He Yongyang.

June 10, 2012.

Because too much indulgence and pampering of children will make children lack self-control and independent living ability, so that they will never be separated from their parents; Grow up under the care of your parents forever; You can never create a world of your own!

The first impression I had in this article was that Chinese parents dote on their children too much compared to Australians, and the five examples cited in the article impressed me the most: In China's coldest winter, parents dress their children in a thick layer of clothing, plus an overcoat, and the total weight of the clothes can reach several pounds. And Australians, even in the coldest winter, only add a velvet jacket to their children.

It can be seen that there is a difference between these two educational ideas. Although Australians love their children, they have honed their way of returning them, and they are not overly spoiled like Chinese parents. I think:

No matter how rich you are, it is not unreasonable to have poor children. Australian children have been honed their self-control and independent living skills, while our Chinese children are still coquettish and tantrums.

Chinese parents, wake up! You spoil your children too much, not for our own good, but for us! So that we will never grow up!