Those hesitant boys will always be ostracized by girls, why?

Girls like to find the kind of hesitant boys who bring them a sense of security in the process of falling in love, and the biggest disadvantage is that they are insecure, because they will hesitate to do anything, let me tell you about my experience. In the past, I was a hesitant person at the same table, when he met a girl, he always did something for the girl to do, in fact, if a girl, he liked to let the boy make decisions, he himself was lazy, so in this case is such a thing. In real life, most girls are like this, so I don't think hesitant boys can say it.

It's excluded by girls, it should be said that it can't be favored by girls, it's more appropriate, it's more appropriate, it's more appropriate, because most girls in real life are boys who like this kind of decisiveness.

If you think about it, it's true that most boys are like this, and many boys like to ask other people's opinions. In fact, it is a few times we often say a broad sense, but he asked the wrong person, when he asked about the girl, then the girl will feel that he hesitates, most of the boys in real life are too decisive, some are decisive enough, and naturally they will be disfavored by girls, I think it is better, in real life, most of the girls, then they will also choose boys, they will compare and choose from different boys, this is one of their methods. Actually, I think it's normal, but if a girl is in a relationship and a boy is in love, then their first feeling is different.

So we simply think that boys are hesitant and unfavorable, and it's normal for girls to be disfavored, after all, girls have their own choices, but some girls seem to like to choose the kind of boys who are hesitant and hesitant, and think that such boys are more attractive, after all, every girl feels different. Anyway, in my opinion, if girls feel differently, then if they choose boys, the results will be different, and for them, it will bring different results.

Everyone has the dilemma of being free and easy when it comes to feelings, and they imagine everything before they have never met this person. Especially as a special sensitivity, the true destiny must be different from ordinary people in his mind. Girls are very high to their other half, and still need him to come to the sun, handsome, gentle, and have no temper, etc.

However, waiting for that person, there will be no such standards, no, just because that person is you. When you encounter something and don't know how to do it, what to do and what to do, you will continue to accumulate negativity.

When your negative emotions accumulate to a certain extent, your mind will become disorganized, and you will become like a fly without a head, unable to lead to effective practical exploration. If you encounter a similar problem again, you can look for it"Shortcuts"Find someone who is stronger than you and better than you to help you solve your difficulties. Over time, you don't have to solve the problem on your own, just ask for help from others.

Self-consumptionIf you don't have the right idea and keep looking for shortcuts to solve problems, you will be in a dilemma. At this time, there will be two villains in your heart who are constantly gathering and fighting, constantly worrying, and exhausting yourself to death but not doing anything.

Self-consumption is very common in the process of men and women in their relationships, and they always like to do some blind work in the process of courting girls. For example, some people never take the initiative to seize opportunities when pursuing girls, feel the girls' hobbies with their hearts, and never pay attention to their personal image and personal taste. They will brake with static, and will focus on sharing some happy daily life with girls, such as delicious and fun pets.

Although it looks good, the girls are very interested, in fact, these belong to it"Blind work", will definitely not let the correlation between the two make any substantial progress. This is also what some people surround and become"Spare tire"with"Lick the dog"The important reason is that self-consumption will make one's life go nowhere.

It's no wonder that humility is also the normal life of hesitant people, especially in the relationship between men and women. Hesitant boys need to be very good when it comes to dating"Greasy", begging the other side all the time. They will always say something similar"Would you like to go out for a walk with me? ，"I really like you so much, will you die if you like me? "，"How about I like your face and like me? "Words like this.

When a guy says these things, the girl must get tired of the guy. In addition to this, it is not surprising that the situation of humility can lead indecisive people into a kind of situation"Don't want to forge ahead"situation. Without assertiveness and hesitation, they will subconsciously throw the problem to others and let others solve it.

is particularly unfirm, and it can also be seen that the other party does not like this girl to a very high degree, which will make the girl hate and feel like a person who can't do anything and guess and deny and choose back and forth.

I don't feel like myself 100%, and I don't know if I'm the person the other person wants to care for and protect and accompany for a lifetime. It may even feel dispensable.

I don't think this situation is very common, if a boy will become hesitant because of you, it is because he wants you to make a choice, will consider and take into account your feelings, rather than being very arbitrary and make decisions by yourself, the current society pays attention to equality between men and women, and there will not be a situation where only one person makes decisions in the family, but now most boys will listen to their girlfriends very much, not because the boy has become cowardly and hesitant, but because he is a man,A woman who knows how to take care of her emotions and feelings.

And those hesitant boys actually want to let their other half make more decisions and respect each other's choices. Of course, it is not excluded that there are a small number of boys who are cowardly and timid, but before you choose him to be your boyfriend, you will know his character, since you have already chosen, then why still exclude him. And a real man, even if he is made by his girlfriend because of hesitation, he will be happy because of his repeated defeats, because it was his own decisionAnd when he wants to make a decision, it is something that no one can deny.

I have a friend who has a very successful career, controls a large company with thousands of people, has a very tough wrist, and has a very happy family, but we always joke that he is afraid of his wife, because at home many things are always made by his wife, he is responsible for implementation, he listens to his wife very much, his wife does not let him drink much, he and we drink very little, and he quit the early years of smoking, every time we talk about his fear of his wife, he is very proud to say that it is his love for his wife. His wife is also very smart and does everything in an orderly manner, but there are things that cannot be decidedMy friend always reminds her with a very high eye. The lives of the two are always full of happiness.

So it's not that the boy's hesitation and cowardice are the manifestations of defeat in love, but that appropriate weakness will make women even more inseparable from you.

This may really happen, because the indecision of men can make girls very upset.

Such boys are not liked by girls, and they procrastinate in doing everything, without any decisiveness.

You think too much, there is never an absolute truth in the world, everything is relative.

Yes, I don't like men who are indecisive, who are indecisive and look anxious.

Not all of them do, it's just that many people do.

It may be because you are too arrogant and decisive, so as long as many boys are not as generous and decisive as you in these decisions, you will feel that they are hesitant, and maybe in the eyes of many other people, such a boy's personality is not so hesitant and small-minded, just a normal level.

As for not apologizing, it may be because you are so arrogant that you don't care so much and want to save it, after all, people are born to not like to apologize.

Everything is relative, hesitant boys always appear in front of you, maybe it has something to do with you, such as Mi's so-called big grin, which seems to them to be resolute and decisive, just what they don't have, so they are willing to be by your side. It could also be that your so-called big swagger often prevents them from having a chance to make a decisive decision.

Maybe your personality is more straightforward and decisive, in your eyes, it is more difficult for you to accept the practices of others, or it may be that the personalities of several people you meet are indeed what you say, no matter what the situation, you must learn to tolerate and understand others.

If you don't get along, then don't get along, maybe it's better to be separated, and be together well.

This may be called personality reciprocity, if you meet someone with the same personality as you every time, it will be more painful! Your personality is easy to attract such people.

There are so many reasons, in the final analysis, in one sentence, I don't like it enough or don't love it.

Sometimes we prefer to believe that a man is too scared, too nervous, too inferior, loves his ex-girlfriend too much, is too sensitive, too busy, has too many childhood shadows, is too stressed, too tired, ......But he doesn't want to see the simple truth: he just doesn't like you that much.

What does it mean that he can't choose you firmly, and that he has to compare having you with the risks and losses he may face? He just doesn't love enough.

You are not his best choice at the moment, he is not afraid that hesitation will miss you, he doesn't care if his hesitation will make you feel estranged and sad in your heart, how much can you expect him to like you? Some things are better to see clearly early and make decisions early. When there is no continuation, it will be disturbed.

If a girl sees me and is confused by something similar, I recommend you watch a movie called "He's Just Not That Into You" and he doesn't like you that much.

Of course, if you're willing to keep waiting, face the risk, and see if there is a miracle in the end, then go for it. Sometimes youth, it is inevitable to go through some storms and then grow up. Time will always give you an answer.

First, he's struggling, because he has female friends, and there are a lot of them, and it's possible to step on a few boats.

Second, he's not good at it, and you're not necessarily the perfect person for him.

Third, you may have been hurt in a similar way, so you won't accept the next relationship so quickly.

One is introverted, and the other is that they don't fully understand the other person or have some dissatisfaction.

He hasn't thought about how to get along in the future, and he's still hesitating whether to continue dating, for fear that he won't regret it in the future, so he doesn't dare to express his feelings easily.

I want to make men.

The reason for the reluctance to take the first step.

It's still not enough love.

Or feel like you don't love him.

Or he thinks he can't grasp it well.

Do you love you?

So there's no need to rush.

Wait and see. Just give him a little time to confirm.

Only when a man succeeds in bringing happiness, comfort, and satisfaction to a woman can he truly fit in with her. Only when he is sure that I can give her happiness can his doubts be dispelled. The reason why a man hesitates is not to wait for the woman to do something for him, but to make the woman react to the optimistic pay.

Maybe he hesitated after being hurt, afraid of being hurt again.

Hello friends! Boys are always hesitant in the face of a relationship, thinking too much but not actually contacting, this kind of performance is usually a sign that the boy has no self-confidence, and he already likes it very much, but he has no confidence, he is afraid of being rejected and afraid of failure, so he hesitates and does not dare to take the next step.

First of all, this boy's personality should belong to the more introverted category, people are less confident and a little inferior, so he is always hesitant when facing the girl, answer.

There may be a lot of worries in it, such as being afraid that the girl will not agree to reject him, worrying that the girl's parents will not approve of him, worrying that he will not be able to afford the girl's financial requirements, etc., etc., worrying that he will not know what to do after being rejected by the girl; So I don't dare to face it directly, and I always practice behind my back, but when it comes to the end, I retreat again, and that's about it.

It shows that his heart is not strong enough, and he has not yet reached the point where he can be desperate for love, and he cares more about his face, such as what to do if he is rejected or what to do if he is tricked? Wait a minute.

I think the reason why I always hesitate is that the love is not deep, and it is not yet time.

No assertiveness, hesitation, mother-in-law.

Boys definitely want to make a difference, and they don't want to be bound by feelings.

Since he likes you, it must be a place where you have a crowd, as the old saying goes, the wood is beautiful in the forest, and the wind will destroy it.

And these people who exclude you must also have a crush on this boy, and if the crush fails, they will envy you, from envy to jealousy very quickly, and it will be good if you don't hate you. You must not confront them head-on. When you are hated, trouble comes.