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Men and women think differently. Men are accustomed to rational thinking, and women are accustomed to emotional thinking. The man said that he was tired and resolutely broke up, it must have been well thought out, he may have completely lost confidence in your future, completely disappointed in you, or he may have changed his mind and no longer loves you.
If it is the former, the focus of recovery should be on solving the problem, when two people can communicate well and understand each other, there is no such thing as breaking up, if it is the latter, the focus of recovery should be on how to save the other party's heart. There are skills to redeem love, and if you learn these skills, you will definitely get back together.
1. The reason why the boyfriend said that he was tired and resolutely broke up.
1.There is an imbalance between giving and taking.
Think about it, did it take your boyfriend a long time to catch you up, and did you get used to his continued unilateral efforts? When you were just together, he was overjoyed, and felt that he had finally hugged the beauty, and he would have to be doubly good to you in the future, so you were immersed in his love, taking wantonly, forgetting that you also have to give.
There is always a balance in the relationship between the sexes, which can be moderately tilted to one side, but too much tilt will tip the balance overturned. Love is the same, you are equal, no one owes anyone, your boyfriend loves you and is willing to pay for you, but he needs you to love him and pay for him, if you just blindly ask for it, it won't take long, he will feel "tired".
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You can have a good chat with your boyfriend, find out the reason for this situation, usually communicate more, and break up if it really doesn't work.
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At this time, don't give up, you can sit down with him, communicate, review the past years, and eliminate the misunderstanding between the two people.
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In this case, I personally think that the most important thing is that you need to communicate and communicate with your boyfriend, and tell your boyfriend what you really think, or you can also choose to respect some of your boyfriend's thoughts.
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If you encounter this situation, it is probably irreparable, you must learn a lesson, try not to make too much trouble next time, which will polish other people's love for you.
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You should break up with him and let him calm down for some time. Because don't call him really tired right now.
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At this time, I will still choose to respect him, if two people are particularly tired of getting along, there is no need to say that they have to insist on each other.
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There are basically not too many men who propose to break up in intimate relationships, in fact, for men who directly say the end, Yisi thinks it is commendable, although it may hurt the girl when he says that he breaks up.
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If he insists on breaking up, maybe I will respect him, because we are really tired of each other in the process of getting along.
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Summary. Dear, you don't have to be discouraged, your boyfriend said he didn't want to drag you down, there must be a reason. There is no man who doesn't want to give his best to the best happiness to the person he likes.
For example, he feels that he is not as good as you in some aspects, such as in terms of making money, or in life, and feels that he has not done a good job and delayed you, and he feels very guilty in his heart. He feels that he is not worthy of you, so he will feel tired, or he will have been troubled by work or life recently. Feel like you don't have the ability and the courage to give you a better future.
He must be more discouraged, so his mood is called negative. What we have to do is to calm his mind and give him enough courage in some way. Although you haven't been in touch for a long time, when you ask this question.
I believe you, and I still care about him. So, I suggest you follow your heart, don't give up, even if you fail, it's not terrible, at least you are worthy of this relationship. I hope mine can help you and have a great day!
Hello dear, could you tell me in detail why you broke up? Well, I'll give you a better answer.
He said he didn't want to drag me along.
We haven't been in touch for a long time.
Dear, did he say anything specific because he didn't want to drag you down?
Dear, you don't have to be discouraged, your boyfriend said he didn't want to drag you down, there must be a reason. There is no man who doesn't want to give his best to the best happiness to the person he likes. For example, he feels that he is not as good as you in some aspects, such as in terms of making money, or in life, he feels that he has not done a good job and delayed you, and he feels very guilty in his heart.
He feels that he is not worthy of you, so he will feel tired, or he will have been troubled by work or life recently. Feel like you don't have the ability and the courage to give you a better future. He must be more discouraged, so his mood is called negative.
What we have to do is to calm his mind and give him enough courage in some way. Although you haven't been in touch for a long time, when you ask this question. I believe you, and I still care about him.
So, I suggest you follow your heart, don't give up, even if you fail, it's not terrible, at least you are worthy of this relationship. I hope mine can help you and have a great day!
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