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Optimistic and positive attitude: do not think of the past, everything is the best arrangement.
A person's life is not a physical experiment that can be repeated, and things that have passed have become history and cannot be changed.
Even if you change, you don't know what the other outcome will be. The protagonist in the movie Butterfly Effect is fortunate enough to gain the superpower to repeat his life, but no matter what decision he makes, he will find that he will be unsatisfactory, and the so-called world is difficult to achieve both.
So, let the past pass, you don't have the ability to change, there is no need to change, and more importantly, you don't know if life will be better or worse after changing. Maybe everything is for the best arrangement.
If every second of our lives were repeated countless times, we would be crucified like Jesus and crucified to eternity. The prospect is terrifying. In the world of eternal return, the unbearable burden of responsibility weighs heavily on our every action, which is why Nietzsche said that the concept of eternal return is the heaviest burden.
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Powerful action: Get rid of procrastination and pursue the life you want.
No accumulation of steps can lead to thousands of miles.
The word self-discipline has swept the whole network, what exactly is self-discipline, I think real self-discipline is to get rid of procrastination, when procrastination occupies your body, even if you have thousands of ideas, there is no way to achieve it. Only when you start writing can you get the benefit of writing; Only when you start to keep your mouth shut and open your legs will you be able to reap the body ...... you want
In the face of unsatisfactory life, you must first become diligent and not procrastinate and lazy, so that you can move towards the life you want.
There is also a very important reason, only by not procrastinating and being lazy, can we not be cranky. Many times people are easy to think about when they are idle, thinking of their own ups and downs, and if you don't take action, you can only always complain about others, complain about your own unsatisfactory, and enter a vicious circle of unsatisfactory life. Article **2
Positive self-motivation: Improve yourself, good luck comes from your strength.
Strive to improve your own work and improve your work ability. If you are a student, study hard and give yourself a satisfactory answer. If you are already working, focus on solving the difficulties at work, improve your work ability, and increase your irreplaceability, rather than being troubled by the world.
When you really don't know what to do in the face of dissatisfaction, it is better to learn some personal skills, you never know what the future will be like, maybe the skills you learn in the future can come in handy. Just as Steve Jobs was just a studious learner when he studied font design in college, when he founded Apple, he was also surprised that he was able to use the course content when designing fonts.
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A person's life is not a physical experiment that can be repeated, and when things have passed, they have become history and cannot be changed.
If we want to get out of the unsatisfactory state of life, we must learn to change ourselves.
1. Have an optimistic and positive attitude, don't think about the past, everything is the best arrangement, let the past pass, you have no ability to change, there is no need to change, and more importantly, you don't know if life will be better or worse after the change.
2. Strong action to get rid of procrastination and pursue the life you want.
In the face of unsatisfactory life, you must first become diligent, do not procrastinate and lazy, in order to move towards the life you want, there is a very important reason, as long as you do not procrastinate, laziness can do not think nonsense, many times, people are easy to think about the west when they are idle, think of their own ups and downs, you can only complain about the sky and others if you do not act, complain about your own unsatisfactory, and enter the vicious circle of unsatisfactory life.
3. Positive self-motivation and improving your good luck come from your strength.
Strive to improve your own work, improve your work ability, increase your irreplaceability, and don't be troubled by the world, when you face unsatisfactory, really don't know what to do, it is better to learn some skills, you never know what the future will be like, maybe the skills you learn in the future can come in handy.
No life is smooth sailing, and the unsatisfactory depends on your mentality, your ability to act, and your self-motivation.
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Unsatisfactory life is the norm. It doesn't take much courage, just impulse and execution, and you also need to figure it out for yourself, and it's really not easy to succeed when you come to this world. So before you do anything, don't think about whether you can succeed, but evaluate whether you are really willing to give all your time and effort to it.
If yes, then do it without hesitation.
In our lives, there will always be unsatisfactory times, and it is because of these unsatisfactory feelings, sadness and sadness, these difficulties and hardships that let us know the importance of happiness and happiness. A person's life cannot be smooth sailing, so many times there will be some hardships that we need to experience, but as long as we can really adjust our mentality, then we can face these difficulties with a normal mentality. If you want to adjust your mentality, you need to do the following.
1. Look at life rationally. When we can use a rational attitude to deal with all kinds of unsatisfactory things in life, all kinds of things that make us feel unhappy, we can know that they are a part of our life that we must experience, and we must really feel the wonder of life, so as to make our life more meaningful.
2. Face life calmly.
We must have a very calm and tolerant attitude towards all things in life, and many times treat other people's things, don't care too much, and don't criticize others too much. Treat the mistakes and shortcomings of others, be more tolerant, be a magnanimous person, just say that the prime minister can hold the boat in his belly, it is because a magnanimous person can really tolerate the mistakes of others, let himself be really happy, a person with a small belly will always find fault with the shortcomings of others, and naturally feel very matched, and a matching person will naturally have no way to be comfortable in life.
3. Know how to pick up and put down. Many times in life at this time will also feel unsatisfactory, that is, can not really pick up and put down the wisdom, if the past things let it pass, what we have to do is to grasp the present, let their future become better, instead of always indulging in the past, unable to extricate themselves. Learn to really know what is important to you and what is insignificant, and you will be able to face life with a correct attitude.
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Different people live in different situations. Everyone has their own unique state of life.
Some people live happily ever after, happily every day.
Some people are in a state of unsatisfactory life and sad faces all day long.
For the latter, if you want to get rid of your unsatisfactory life state, you need to take action to break through yourself, so that you can change your life status and make yourself happy.
Changing one's own life involves the problem of breaking through oneself.
Breaking through oneself is easier said than done, but it is much more difficult to implement. This requires courage and perseverance.
As for how much courage and perseverance it takes to break through oneself, different people and different states have different specific situations.
For some people, it is less difficult to break through and change themselves because of unsatisfactory life.
This is because such people have a strong desire to change their unsatisfactory state of life. ......With a strong drive to live a happy life, they will take immediate action to change their lives for the better.
And for some people, it is because they are lazy and unwilling to pay that they will have such an unsatisfactory state of life today. ......If this kind of person wants to break through himself, it is very difficult, and he can't even change himself at all.
Therefore, for this issue, depending on the specific situation, there are two specific situations:
1. People who pursue a happy life have a strong desire to change their life status, and they will consciously take action to work hard.
2. People who are lazy and unwilling to pay will continue to be lazy as always, and it is difficult for them to change their living conditions. ......Such people can only continue to live in an unsatisfactory state of ......
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The most important thing is to take the first step, to change your life situation, to have confidence in yourself, to believe that you can be what you want to be, to have the courage to dare to fail, to dare to start over, to take the first step when there is not enough pressure and to keep working hard is the hardest.
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It's mainly up to you, well, your determination to change your current situation, and I think it's mainly up to you to try something new to get out of this predicament.
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It takes a lot of courage, and I think it's better to talk about courage and how to get courage and action, which is your own heart's desire.
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It takes courage and motivation to fight to the end to get out of an unsatisfactory state of life.
The German psychologist Okun reminds us in "The Meaning and Value of Life": "Life is not so much an external overcoming as an internal progress; It is not so much the complete achievement of the goal as the awakening and continuation of the potential to fight to the end. ”
Reflect on yourself, is there a situation where you give up halfway when you encounter a setback, and finally cause failure? In the process of struggle, don't give yourself any excuse to stop, because the door to success will always appear at the last step before you give up.
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Everyone should have such courage and motivation, our life is not satisfactory, to change this state, we need our own efforts and dedication, every day to work a little hard, a little progress to act, act immediately.
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To get rid of an unsatisfactory state of life, in fact, you need to continue to pay and work hard, because if a person has become accustomed to a bad state, it is difficult to change a lot.
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Life is not going as planned, and we all need courage. The economic winter is coming, as individuals, although we are not people who affect the general environment, we must also correct our work attitude and strive to do our part every day. Stop those useless complaints, do a good job in the affairs and work of your own business, and work hard to move bricks.
Nietzsche famously said: Winter is coming, will spring be far away? Yes, life and work may have difficulties at the moment, but we must believe that this phenomenon is only short-lived and will not last for a long time.
We should look forward to a better tomorrow with an optimistic attitude.
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Accustomed to a comfortable and comfortable living environment, it can take a lot of determination to change your lifestyle. We must recognize the consequences of comfort, so that we can have more purpose and motivation to change.
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This sentence is a question, what are you asking this sentence for? I think that no matter how unsatisfactory the state of life is, you have to promise not to starve yourself to death first, and work hard to move bricks and iron.
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The most important thing is that you think that as long as you can act immediately and without delay, it will get better and better.
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You don't need courage, you need to adjust your mentality.
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I feel the same way The unchanged life of the spring defeat bridge makes people feel very boring, always want to have something different, but the feet can't step away. It is impossible for others to push you, and the only change can only be to take a step forward by yourself.
It always takes courage to step out and start a life again, and this courage is actually the goal People's pursuit of higher and farther goals is unlimited, so once people are dissatisfied with the status quo to a certain extreme, there will be an irrepressible impulse to change! That's courage!
If you don't explode in comfort, you disappear in comfort!
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That's because I still feel comfortable now, and I don't feel any big pressure to slow down and guess, that is, I want to put pressure on myself, set a goal and move forward bravely. If you love your girlfriend very much, and you are about to get married, but the woman's family is very demanding and wants you to have a car and a house, then what will you do if you don't answer the question?
Will you give up on your current girlfriend or? If you choose to work hard, then your motivation will come, your goal will come, and people's behavior is controlled by your thoughts. As long as you have this faith and thought, you will definitely do it, and you will do it very beautifully.
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Face your life with a smile and look at those young lives, beautiful things, and loving expectations.
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Sometimes you can't really do it if you make up your mind! I guess you think about it when you make up your mind, are you really letting it go? If you really let go, then why do you have to force yourself to do it yourself! Isn't that self-inflicted? You're right!
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