Asking for help, very urgent, very uncomfortable. Work, family, relationships, very tangled things.

This woman, you have a conflict with your brother because of some trivial matters, for example, your brother is married, you have to at least express it, but you didn't express it, remember, this is a heart, just like you are asking questions, by the way to fill in the reward scores, these scores are not important, the important thing is a heart, and the Dragon Boat Festival, you know? I don't even know what my parents' birthdays are, how many young people in China do you say remember them? You say, how many young people like me will take the initiative to care about their parents, there may be, but, we care about our own things, absolutely more than that, to put it bluntly, it is selfish, I admit, I am selfish, but like you said, I have them in my heart, as long as something happens to them or difficulties, I will definitely help, I believe you will too, as for the matter of buying clothes, this is a small matter, but please remember, when all the small contradictions gradually accumulate, In a certain situation, these are fatal, I am not alarmist, and one more point, your ability to manage your own financial situation is too poor, if your boyfriend is an extrovert, the two of you can complement each other, after all, people are not absolutely perfect, your relationship with your boyfriend, you are afraid that your father will come to your place of work and find out, I have 2 suggestions here, first, confidentiality, second, inform, if your current job is unstable, or your boyfriend is in some unstable situations, or or, there are some things in your heart that you can't understand, such as, your age is too young, etc., you can choose to keep it secret, I look at some of the situations you said, it seems that you are very afraid to let your father know about your relationship with your boyfriend, this, tell later, tell early, whichever is more important, it is best to tell your father at a good time, this is okay, after all, marriage is still early from you, this sentence, I guessed randomly, just when I didn't say it, hehe, I wish you happiness.

Family is precious, how much do you have your brother, don't love you well, don't pay attention to him, parents are their own, of course they have to care, love, do what they should do, don't regret when you're old, as for your boyfriend, sooner or later you have to meet, it's better to introduce it to your family as soon as possible, hehe, as long as you have confidence in him, he loves you, I wish you happiness.

It's all family, and we should be considerate of each other. My brother is older than you, and now the situation is better than yours, and I should take care of you a little bit in terms of cleaning up, but even if he doesn't do this, you can understand him, after all, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read.

As for the boyfriend, sooner or later he has to meet his family, so let's beat the side drum with my mother first and see how she reacts before making plans. I wish you happiness.

Family, it's important to understand each other. Don't overthink it.

LZ, can you be more specific? Let the comrades know a little more about it, so that they can plan for LZ.

...If you don't tell the reason, how can I help you?

To go or not to go, to think about why you want to go to the next company, whether it is just for her, or to have a better development or a higher salary, etc., you have to think about it yourself.