Will I be happy with someone who loves me but I don t? 10

How do I say it, let me start with a remark, some people say that feelings can be cultivated, but after all, it is feelings, not love.

If you live with the person you love, you have a goal in your life, which is to make him happy, but if you don't love someone together, I don't think you can imagine how to accommodate the lifestyle of someone you don't love, maybe after you get married, you will find that her habits are unbearable for me, and then life will become boring.

Maybe it has been said since ancient times that it is happier to be with someone who loves you than to be with someone you love, but I think that the so-called happiness is relative to anyone, and it is better to grasp this kind of thing yourself, after all, some things can only be chosen once, and it is not okay to regret it if you choose it. So what others say is still someone else's. Be cautious so that you don't regret it.

Happiness is not necessarily, but it will be harmonious, and you will be better off in the future! I have deeply felt the pain of not being able to be with the people I love! I can only choose the people who love me! It's better than finding someone you don't love and don't love yourself! Believe that being loved is also happiness!

Don't perfunctory your heart for the sake of your parents, let alone a lifelong relationship!

I also agree with what those friends upstairs said that feelings can be cultivated slowly! People also have to be responsible, you always have to get married! In any case, please think carefully before deciding, and don't be soft-hearted for a while and delay the happiness of others for a lifetime!

I'd love to know what your ex-girlfriend is like now, as you say "ex-girlfriend", then it's already broken up. Men do things simply, since they have broken up and caused harm to others, which should have been expected before the breakup, then break it off simply, otherwise it will hurt the three people.

And since you choose to break up with your ex-girlfriend, it means that you have decided to accept the arrangement at home, so go home wholeheartedly to your wife, not to mention, she also loves you, and you can't make both of you sad at the same time!

This is a lifelong thing, and you must be careful not to hurt her.

Your parents are also too feudal.

If you don't like it, don't get married.

Talk to your parents.

But sometimes it's time together, and the relationship is good.

You also try to have more contact with her, and if it doesn't work, don't force it.

Anyway, finding someone who loves you and you don't love will be better than if you love her and she doesn't love you.

If you don't love her, you will be separated Why are you so selfish You are with her because she is beautiful If she is not beautiful I think it is your parents who force you You will not be with her I think you are too selfish and don't think about others Don't you think she is pitiful And you are too bad.

The relationship is slowly cultivated, if you really get along and find that it is not suitable, then break up!

But it's better than being with someone who doesn't love you but you do.

Feelings can be cultivated slowly, don't get married first, cultivate and see. Don't delay the life of other girls!