What should I do if I am frustrated and unable to cheer up, and how can I cheer up if I fail?

Time will dilute everything, it won't take too long for another three years, you will know how stupid you were before, now you can do whatever you want, eat when you want, sleep when you want, lose if you want to lose, despair if you want to despair, calmly face joy and sadness, this is a part of your youth, everything will pass! He's just a boy you like, not necessarily someone you're going to love for a lifetime, think about it for a lifetime, can you do it! I used to be like this, I thought I loved a guy for many years, and he never took me seriously, I was also desperate, not confident, many years later, when he finally fell in love with me, I found that he was not worthy of me at all!

I also found that there are many people who love me, all of them are stronger than him, and I also found that it was not called love at all before, ** for myself, learning is also for myself, truly loving a person is tolerance, it is two mutual cherishment, mutual protection, and a happy life together, rather than blindly pleasing and unilaterally paying! Good luck up!

Look at a short article and you will understand.

One day when I was eleven years old, my father and I went out for a walk as usual, and when we passed the entrance of the riverside funeral home in the North District, my father suddenly stopped and asked an inexplicable question: "What time is it?" "I looked at my watch and told him it was 10:25.

Then my dad asked me what I saw. Nothing particularly noteworthy, "I" was lining up to get into the funeral home, about 150 of them. ”

Well, good eyesight. Dad nodded in satisfaction, and then he brought up something else and talked to me about sports news.

After talking for almost half an hour, I noticed that he had not yet left the funeral home, so I asked, "Shall we continue walking?" "Dad didn't immediately ask me, but suddenly asked a second strange question:

Son, what can you see now? "I looked at the door of the funeral home, and the people who had just gone in were now lining up again.

It's still nothing special," I shrugged, "I guess the chase was just over, and the people who went in had already come out." ”

Very accurate," she said, "you see what time it is." ”

I said 10:50.

Dad nodded and said thoughtfully, "Yes, a person's life can only be summed up for such a long time." ”

You see, son, at the chase, the pastor will read the eulogy, which is the summary of the deceased's life. The eulogy was read in just about 20 minutes, and many of the things that were considered great setbacks or great achievements at the time were actually just trivial things, and they could not be made into these 20 minutes at all. When you grow up, whether you are depressed or proud, think about my words, and you will find that the road in front of you will become much wider. ”

Since he can't call you like that, why are you calling him like that? Love is not a one-sided negative outcome. It depends on two people to hold it up.

There are two paths: one is to continue to sink the wheel and be a useless person. The second is to work hard to change yourself and enrich yourself, so that he will be impressed. Let him regret not paying attention to you.

It is impossible for people to have smooth sailing forever in their lives, and the rough and bumpy days will eventually come, how should we face failure?

Failure is not terrible, what is terrible is that we can not face it bravely after failure, we should not complain about failure in the face of failure, a slump, failure is not eternal, it is only temporary, in the face of failure, we must first face it calmly with a peaceful attitude, analyze the reasons for failure, summarize the lessons and experiences of failure, and be ready for the next take-off, stand up bravely, and go on firmly.

Failure is the mother of success, with a different mindset of failure will have different results, think about the experience of many people in their own major stages of life failure, think about the frustration experience of those great and famous, what is our failure? Remember this saying: Man can be destroyed, but not defeated!