The boyfriend I was looking for disagreed with and begged for advice

The family is also for your good, but they may not understand him, so you have to often pretend at home to talk more about his advantages, intentionally or unintentionally, so that the family has a preliminary understanding of him, and then create opportunities for him to do a few beautiful things, so that the family can deepen the image, of course, the meaning of the family should also tell him, and then work together to obtain the understanding of the family, to obtain their own happiness, since you said that he is very capable and excellent, I believe he will understand you, and will work hard to win the recognition of your family. Try to do what you want to do, and you won't regret it even if you fail.

Remember, "I can't eat hot tofu in a hurry", take your time, I wish you "lovers will eventually become married", and I wish you happiness.

To be honest with you men and women, the two need to face together, parents can negotiate if they don't agree, they always love you.

The family wanted to understand him first, and slowly they accepted him.

If the man cares about you, don't hesitate, a certificate is 99 yuan.

Sign up and go, go bravely.

1. Communicate well with the object. Let's see what the reason is, after all, it is the other party's parents who disagree, and the specific reason is only the object to ask himself.

2. Communicate well with the object and open the knot, so as not to hurt yourself, and to dismantle the bridge will not hurt others, and it is also conducive to solving the problem.

3. If you have the heart, but you can't communicate with the object, forget it, if you can't unify the line with you in this matter, and you can't take the initiative to solve and communicate, it means that two people can't work together in the future, and it is not suitable to be together.

In fact, parents who treat the other half should also use routines to capture their hearts.

One. Be sure to greet you during the New Year's holidays.

For parents with only one child, the child is all they have. When a child gets married, it means that the child has left them. Therefore, be sure to greet them during the New Year's holidays and let them know that you are a filial girl.

Once you've established a relationship with your boyfriend, be sure to let his parents know about your existence at the right time. Before his parents knew you existed, you could urge your boyfriend to greet his parents and then inadvertently reveal that fact. After his parents know about you, you should only greet them on New Year's holidays, too radical and stammering, too withdrawn and indifferent.

Two. Take care of your boyfriend like a mom.

Although he is a boy, he has also grown up under the care of his parents since he was a child. Even if the child is married, parents want the child to be pampered after marriage. So in order to make a good impression on them, you must be nice to your boyfriend in front of them.

In order to create a cute image, after you get acquainted with his parents, you may want to complain to his parents about his vices, and of course the tone should be cute and aggressive.

Three. Be their "daughter".

It is said that the daughter is the intimate little padded jacket of the parents, in fact, the daughter-in-law can also be the small padded jacket of the in-laws. Boys are more aggressive by nature and don't pay too much attention to his parents. That's when you come on the pitch and give his parents some care at the right time.

For example: add more clothes when it's cold, pay attention to safety when you go out, etc. These words may leave a good impression on your parents, and sometimes, the daughter-in-law is slowly pushed out of the good feelings.

Epilogue. In fact, no matter what routine you use, the most important thing is sincerity, when the mind arrives, everything will fall into place.

I understand your situation, I have been talking to my girlfriend for many years, and she also does not have a stable job, so I have not introduced her to my family, and she herself does not want a stable job, but wants to start a business on her own. But our relationship is very stable, she and I are already over, there is pressure on the parents' side, but we both trust each other and will not think about anyone else.

If your boyfriend can make you trust him so much, then you can do what he says, "I'll talk about it later".

If you don't know the bottom of your heart, in addition to actively looking for a job yourself, you also actively mobilize your boyfriend to help you find a job together.

My girlfriend's business is gradually on the right track, and I am not humble to say that I have also helped her a lot, and I am very happy. When her income is more stable, we can form a family god.

Your boyfriend's family doesn't agree with the two of you dating, you can use your love and sincerity and determination and ability to say that guess the first sign of the tie to bend his family and make them agree to your boring relationship!

Divide it, most of the people who don't listen to their parents' advice to marry end up regretting it. Don't be blinded by the so-called love.

An unblessed marriage cannot last long and be happy, and you must be able to afford to be able to take it and let go of your luck. Rather than compromise, it is better to let go and make yourself stronger, what is the clear trace of the next state, if you are in full bloom, the breeze will come, won't you!