When I m going to get married, as a son, as a boyfriend, I don t want to break anyone s heart

This is obviously that your parents are not very satisfied with the status quo of the other party's family, which is understandable, you also said that the other party's family conditions are very average, that is to say, your family's conditions are better, if you pay a similar family situation to your family, your parents will never want to do it simply, filial piety is the first, you don't want to leave lifelong regrets for yourself in your parents.

What are they raising you so big? They don't want anything, their parents are not selfless and great all the time, their money is earned by them, why can't they choose who their son marries, why? Because most of the money you use to get married is their savings, and your parents' money is not born with ours, you have to understand this truth, if you have the ability, you can take out the money yourself to hold a big wedding, don't bother your parents.

This is the effort of more communication, finding a balance that satisfies both parties, and not thinking that it is impossible for both parties to be satisfied, just as you can't make everyone around you like you. What to negotiate more.

You've broken your parents' hearts!

If they both want to be grand, but your parents just want to be simple and don't want to disappoint both parties, then you can handle the marriage by yourself.

If you want to respect your object, do it well, pay for it yourself, and in the face of the simple things proposed by your parents, then you think about the importance of that side, your parents have no choice but to acquiesce to the marriage of the two of you, and they continue to do some things that your parents oppose.

The two of them are in love and married, what else do you have to hope for, the wedding is simple, just communicate with your wife! Get married once in your life, and make your parents sad again and again, do you really want them to be so sad!?

Summary. Friend, I am Teacher Sun Duoduo, and I am good at marriage and family, psychology, interpersonal communication, etc. If it's convenient for you, tell me more about your specific situation.

My boyfriend wants me to get married, but I have children and don't want to get married, but I have delayed him for so many years, and I feel sorry for him.

Friend, I am Teacher Sun Duoduo, and I am good at marriage and family, psychology, interpersonal communication, etc. If it's convenient for you, tell me more about your specific situation.

My dear, this requires communication between the two of you, the man loves you very much, but you want to think about it out of your own problems, it is normal, married life is beautiful and very long, I hope you will be happy and happy in the future.

For marriage, whether to tie the knot or not to tie the knot is indeed a question. But we can't run away and quarrel about it, but we need to communicate well and understand each other's thoughts and concerns. Here we can see two key issues, one is that I don't want to get married yet, and the other is that my boyfriend has urged me to get married.

Then we can think about it from these two points separately, and how should Li Heng deal with Yan Senli. From my boyfriend's point of view, we can first think about why he is urging me to get married every day. is because he thinks that the time to fall in love is almost over, or he feels that his family is urging him, then he is willing to spend his life loving you and taking care of you in order to meet the wishes of his family, or he really wants to be able to go on with you for a lifetime.

If he really thinks that you are the person who can go all the way in his life, you can accept him. <>