Painful abnormal romantic relationships

I can understand you, sometimes women don't want to spend their man's money, they just want to see if he is really to himself, what he says. Say what you want to do for yourself, but in fact? How many times did he cash out? This can't help but make people feel aggrieved.

In fact, I don't think he takes you very seriously, so I advise you to try not to have any hope for him in the future, spend your own money to buy what you want, and let him stay aside. What you do is dignity is the most important thing. It's a fact that he is stingy, no matter how uncomfortable you are, no matter how wronged you are, you can't change it.

It's better to be chic. No matter how much he is. Although I don't have much money, I can always support myself, that's it, and I have a suggestion.

I don't think he really loves you, so let's separate in the future.

You need to be free, it's not an abnormal relationship, it's not love at all.

Don't blame me for being cold-spoken, but it's time for you to stop.

If you don't want to break up, communicate with him more, or because of his personality, you should know best.

Falling in love is a happy thing, and if it makes you miserable, it's not really in love.

Amitabha

Obviously, he doesn't love you at all! When he finds a reason not to be with you, he just doesn't want to be together, he must think that you don't have happiness and sweetness, otherwise you would have been addicted!! Trust me to find another one.

He's in financial trouble and he's afraid to tell you, or he doesn't love you anymore.

Like you said, he may not love you at all, or he may be testing whether you are sincere to him

He doesn't mean it, trust me to break up quickly, don't let yourself get hurt.

So why do you think it's normal?

The reason is that two people are not suitable. In the process of getting along or in love, the contradictions between two people are becoming more and more coarse, so the more they talk, the more painful they become. If that's the case, don't talk about it any further.

Because of the unpleasantness of getting along, two people don't get along very harmoniously, all you will have such thoughts.

When a relationship makes you more and more painful, it may be because you have made a big mistake in the choice. Choosing this person may not be right for you, or maybe he doesn't love you as much as you imagined, which makes it very painful for you to be with him now.

In fact, there are many small things that two people will quarrel about, because the smaller the thing, the greater the difference in expectation, but the less in the big thing, because the person who understands you will know that this matter is not so easy, and the natural expectation will drop appropriately.

Of course, the expectation of the stove banquet varies from person to person and from event to event, the higher the expectation, the greater the disappointment, and the more disappointed you accumulate, the person will be tired, and the stove oak will also feel pain. If you have saved enough of disappointment, you may not be able to recover it.

I think a big reason is that the two of you are not suitable for being together, for example, your personalities are very different, so when you deal with things, you will also be buried differently, and you will feel more and more pain over time.

This proves that there is no tacit understanding between the two of you, and it is not the love you want. He can't give you what you want, and you can't give him the first trip to Heqin, the happiness he wants is only tortured by Zhaofeng.

In the early stage of falling in love, we will suppress our own requirements and suppress our own ideas, mainly because both parties have not yet adapted to each other's rhythm and are still looking for each other's tacit understanding. At this time, our feelings will not be troubled by similar problems, and even more, we will also have feelings of love because of the existence of the other person. There is a certain emotional basis for reform, but you are more and more dissatisfied with each other.

Because when you are in a relationship for a longer period of time, you will have a deeper understanding of each other. The more you give in this state and the more you can't get yourself out of it, the more pain will be at this time.

The more you talk about love, the more painful it becomes, which means that you are talking in the wrong way, and the big judgment is because there are many problems that are constantly backlogged, and Wu Chonghong has not been solved, so you need to reflect on yourself.

The more you fall in love, the more painful it becomes, because two people have a lot of contradictions when they are in love, and they can't be resolved, so the longer they are in love, the more painful they are.

It may be because the relationship is not suitable for you, and it is not suitable for you to be with your significant other, so it will become more and more painful.

Because if you love, you will care, you will be stupid, love is never smooth sailing, you have to look down. It is human nature to give what you want, in the world of love, there is no equality, only tolerance. The reason for the pain is that you can't get the love you want, in fact, no matter how close two people are, there are differences, the love they need is also different, you don't know what love she needs, she doesn't know what love you need, what you give him is the love you think you need, it is the best you think, and if she loves you, she will also give you the love she thinks is the best, and often it is not what the other party needs, so both parties feel that the other party does not love themselves, or does not give themselves enough love, you will pursue, you will feel tired.

Love needs to be close, it also needs distance, it needs to be cherished, and it also needs to be looked down, hot and cold love is the most needed for love maintenance, and it is always necessary to give each other a sense of mystery, so that love will last for a long time, don't stick together, you will get tired, you will be disgusted, and you will slowly feel that there is no love. In fact, love needs to be managed, it needs to be understood, don't worry too much, don't be unreasonable, don't make the other party feel tired, it's enough, no one can't do without whom, look down!

Because everything you want needs to be paid, and everything you pay may not be able to be obtained, everything in life, including love, needs to be managed with your mind.

If the relationship is equal, it is because everyone becomes sensitive after falling in love! Will be noisy over a little thing! Emotional inequality! It will also be very tiring for the party with a lot of feelings to pay and return unequally!

Because I really love it, I really care about it.

Because once you meet true love, you can't extricate yourself.

If two people love each other, there will be no pain. If it's painful, it's not deep enough.

People in love are sweet, but some people are miserable in love, and in the pain, their hearts love each other more deeply than before, and they are more afraid of losing each other. Who is prone to the more painful they are in love, but the more they like it?

Loving each other excessively

In the process of falling in love, blindly loving each other too much will only make the other party feel burdened after a long period of accumulation. If the other party has this kind of mentality, even if he knows that it is a sign of love for him, he can't help but alienate themselves from each other. At this time, the giver will also feel very aggrieved and unclear, why he pays so much for the other party, but the feelings are not as good as before.

Losing oneself and becoming overly dependent on the other person

After falling in love, some people are prone to losing themselves. Agree with each other regardless of whether they are right or wrong.,Even if you have a better opinion in your head, you won't put it forward.,And everything is centered on the other party.,There is no self-life.。 This kind of love is not good love, and this kind of love only makes people miserable.

Good love needs to be based on equality, dare to correct each other's and one's own shortcomings, and make progress together. Instead, lose yourself completely.

The reason why men and women in love sometimes suffer from each other is because they are willing to join hands from the bottom of their hearts! But in real life, because of the differences in each other's family background, academic knowledge, temperament and personality, life experience, etc., there will be friction and contradictions inadvertently.

The communication between people fully proves that sentimental people are more likely to be emotionally envious or lost, and at the same time will take it for granted that they will make arbitrary decisions based on their feelings, as if the other party has changed, but in fact they are too sensitive, which will make the loved one uncomfortable, and in the long run, the relationship will become weaker, and eventually part ways.

Enviable love should not be a one-sided giving, excessive loss of oneself and excessive dependence on each other, but to have an independent mind and appropriate taking.

Because the three views of two people are inconsistent, and you are a very insecure person, feeling that the other person does not love you, so it is becoming more and more painful.

It may be that two people are not in line with each other, two people have inconsistent views, two people always quarrel because of some small problems, and two people can't tolerate each other's shortcomings, so the more they talk about love, the more painful it is.

It may be because the two of you don't have a relationship anymore, so you will feel that Liang Xingchun feels a special pain, and at this time you can go to the rental meeting together or travel together to add a little freshness.

I think it's probably because you don't love him, so when we have this situation, we have to break up with the other person.