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Anonymous users2024-02-12There are three very effective methods
1 Have a good talk with your parents, speak out your worries boldly, and try to use a serious and serious tone to make your parents notice that your wayward personality really bothers you. If your parents don't care, then have a long cold war with your parents until they recognize and support your "reform".
You also have to have an understanding of your role. You're 24 years old and you're an adult. Look at the people in society who are your age.
They all have enough minds to take on their own responsibilities, and you must also slowly have such an independent consciousness, get rid of dependence, and be a better version of yourself!
2 Try to live away from your parents for a while. You can participate in group activities, such as summer camps or school trips organized by tour groups, to get away from the pampering of your parents for a while and live a completely own life. You are a conscious person and believe that you can get a good grasp of yourself very quickly.
3. Make a small plan for how you behave in stages, try to restrain your inertia when you want to shirk your responsibilities, and think more about your parents who care about you and your friends who love you. Some related books will help you. Your friends and family will also be happy with your change
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Anonymous users2024-02-111. Force yourself to make some choices. To put it bluntly, it is difficult to choose, whether to go or stay, whether it is good or bad, you can't make your own decisions. If you're struggling with everything, start with small things and change them, like a friend asking you what to eat and throwing out two choices, but you want to go, and then you have to force yourself to make a choice.
Slowly, there are little things that you can make your own choices.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Tangle syndrome is mainly caused by the following reasons:
1. Personality or personality defects, such as low self-esteem, nervousness, and no friends, it is easy to be unconfident, and when you encounter problems, you will look forward and backward, afraid of wolves, afraid of tigers, easy to entangle, and difficult to make decisions. Clause.
Second, it may be caused by illness, such as obsessive-compulsive disorder, which has a certain personality foundation, that is, to be strong and perfectionist.
When you are picky, want to be perfect, or even do everything perfectly, it is easy to be very entangled or even time-consuming when encountering problems or even making decisions, and it is difficult to make up your mind. Clause.
3. Bad habits or lack of life experience, such as making decisions that are easily influenced by others and even do not understand what they want in their hearts, always blindly compare with others, and have fewer opportunities to make decisions in the past, lack of experience and even people are particularly immature, if it is caused by the above reasons, it is necessary to actively adjust the symptoms.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09If this kind of tangled personality often appears, it is considered to be related to the individual's psychological state, first of all, we should pay attention to relaxation, avoid tension and anxiety, maintain a good and stable mood, and then insist on doing some outdoor sports appropriately, and communicate more with family and friends, which can alleviate the symptoms.
The character is very tangled, there are many such people, first of all, you have to have more contact with the society, don't close yourself, the society can't adapt to the individual, so we must learn to adapt to this society. Secondly, you should take the initiative to make friends, share your joys, sorrows and sorrows with friends, and be a positive person, you can refer to the opinions of others and summarize them for your own use. Finally, exercise your will, learn to be assertive, don't be afraid to do wrong, you will never know right or wrong if you don't do it, eat a trench and grow a wisdom.
You are now at the stage of the seven-year itch, in fact, you are too selfish, you don't care about your boyfriend's dedication to you, in your heart he should do everything, you yourself are also at ease, you don't experience his affection, empathize with whether you can always insist on paying, if you choose the latter, you will regret it. In fact, do you feel really in love now? I can only say that he gives you something new.
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Personality is not said to change and change, why do so many people say that the personality is incompatible, I think you are an empathetic boy, can change for each other, then I will send you a word, more patience in case of trouble, endure and continue to endure, two people have less conflict, natural feelings will be enhanced, but you will be very hard, you have to be prepared, come on.