The family quarrels every day over food. What to do?

Who cooks in your house? Is it because your mother cooks and your father is unpalatable? Then let him cook, and let your mother observe more if he has a person. Because this may be nothing to do, that is, to find fault.

Take turns cooking. Noisy, because he can't put himself in his shoes, let him just stay in that position.

It means that if you can, you can learn to cook, eat according to your mood, and if you are in a good mood, you will feel that the general dishes will be delicious.

If mom has always cooked, then let dad cook for the day.

Both sides understand and tolerate each other.

Whoever says it's not delicious let whoever makes it.

Summary. This is a phenomenon that is very common nowadays, and while it is common, it is undoubtedly wrong. Most people know just like you that this is not right, but they can't.

Let's find out why. First, be grateful for the kindness of your parents. The dedication of our parents to raise us is not enough.

There is a saying in Buddhism: Carrying a flat burden, carrying a father at one end and a mother at the other, after tens of thousands of years, the kindness of parents is still not returned. To understand the relationship between us and our parents, and to know the great kindness of our parents, it is good to communicate with our parents.

What should I do if I always quarrel with my family.

Hello, what do you usually quarrel about?

If you're always arguing with your family, you should take a moment to calm yourself down and think about who is behind it. Then you have to communicate with your own parents, and only communication can eliminate the problems between you.

This is a phenomenon that is very common nowadays, and while it is common, it is undoubtedly wrong. Most people know just like you that this is not right, but they can't. Let's find out why.

First, be grateful for the kindness of your parents. The dedication of our parents to raise us is not enough. There is a saying in Buddhism:

Carrying a flat burden, carrying his father at one end and his mother at the other, he has been picking for tens of thousands of years, and his parents' kindness is still not repaid. To understand the relationship between us and our parents, and to know the great kindness of our parents, it is good to communicate with our parents.

Be sure to communicate with your parents calmly<>

1. When there is a conflict with your parents, if you can't make it clear and solve it at the first time, then it's best to keep silent when you lose Tong temporarily, no matter what your parents say, don't reply, because you may not be able to control your temper when you open your mouth.

2. If your parents don't do something right or misunderstand you, and your parents can't listen to your explanation, then don't argue with your parents for the time being, as long as you argue, you will definitely quarrel.

3. When your parents yell at you or scold you or reprimand you, if you can't listen to it, tell your parents directly with a better attitude and don't want to quarrel with them. In this way, parents can also pay attention to their own attitude in time.

4. Most parents are thinking about their children, but some parents may be too tough and like to use everything they have to ask their children, but the starting point is always good, so when parents and you have a conflict, you might as well smile back, and your parents will naturally quarrel with you.

5. Apologize, apologize sincerely. Take the initiative to find the reason from yourself, and learn to be humble and tolerant. Only by learning to be good to your family will you get along better with your friends, classmates, and colleagues.

If the parents are at fault, we must communicate well, quarreling will not solve the problem, it will only make the situation worse and worse, if it is our own problem, we should reconcile with our parents as soon as possible. Parents are thinking about their children, and sometimes it's just the wrong way.

6. Calm down, wait for calm and communicate in the future. When encountering things, think about it from the perspective of your family, think about whether what they said is right or not, whether it makes sense, even if it is not reasonable, don't argue with them, if you don't listen, your family members should communicate and tolerate each other. If there is anything that doesn't agree at the time, you can endure it first, and wait until the mood calms down afterwards to communicate, or express your own opinions on something.

I have some suggestions for dealing with family relationships:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

Let's open it, there's nothing that can't be solved.